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Anonymous Coward User ID: 16602732 United States 08/25/2019 02:15 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | If you gots pussy on retainer, pay up chump. I prefer the hourly rate. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 45800998 I suppose it's on retainer. She comes over every Fri-Sun to give me the sexy. She'll be over again later tonight so I need to decide. If you can easily afford it, and if she is faithful, "why not?". |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 77930532 Canada 08/25/2019 02:18 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | She probably spilled water on her old computer on purpose to see how big a sucker OP really is. Oh, and if you buy her a new computer, OP, you're not a boyfriend. You're just a "john." Quoting: Anonymous Coward 72568602 This girl is not marriage material. She is a manipulative cunt. Chip's fucktoy idea is way out of date. Men have no rights anymore, you're "girlfriend" has already been mentally infected by Oprah, Dr. Phil, and Maury. And you've already been programmed to put the great whore of babylon on a pedestal. Take this shit to Reddit, will you? This. Oh, and she really is a prostitute. It's whores like her who ruin it for us normal ladies. I dont think there anything wrong with helping your girlfriend out, unless shes being manipulative and doesnt have a true need. I have helped my ex's out if they've needed it on numerous occasions. Paid their rent, etc..because they were having a hard time, and I would do it again. I believe humanity should help each other. There's nothing wrong with helping when you offer the help. I think what people are questioning is the GF "demanding" a laptop and then using sex as a promised form of appreciation. Had OP said the GF broke her laptop and needs one for work so he decided to gift her with a $1000. laptop most everyone would say that was generous of him, etc. Yes, good post, I agree with you. I don't like the "demanding" thing either. She has no right to demand shit. But at the same time, I do believe in helping your friends. I don't know, honestly..this is all just too broad. None of us can answer this, since we dont know the depth of their relationship, and what type of person she is and has been. Let OP deal with this, I gave my two cents, now I'm out. Lol |
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Anonymous Coward (OP) User ID: 53122331 Canada 08/25/2019 02:20 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | ... Quoting: Anonymous Coward 53122331 Yeah I agree..$1000 is way too much for a laptop. There's one I've got my eye on that's $700 and just as good. Does she not work? Why doesn't she have money to buy her own? She works but doesn't get paid much at her job. She's only 24 and has student loan debt of course. Well considering that, she should be a little more respectful of YOUR money that she seems willing to spend so easily. Agreed! I think she knows that I'm sort of hooked on her "goods". I have a horrible poker face with her. |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 77923243 United States 08/25/2019 02:24 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | What I did at the time my ex dropped her old laptop and locked up the motherboard Old used laptop "local" $25 Used hard drive upgrade "local" $15 Used memory sticks upgrade "online" $6 Used laptop bag "local" $3 Total = $49 If she is anything like my ex then she will refuse to use it because it isn't what she wanted |
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Pees and Ques User ID: 74537708 United States 08/25/2019 02:26 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | ... Quoting: Anonymous Coward 53122331 Yeah I agree..$1000 is way too much for a laptop. There's one I've got my eye on that's $700 and just as good. Does she not work? Why doesn't she have money to buy her own? She works but doesn't get paid much at her job. She's only 24 and has student loan debt of course. Well considering that, she should be a little more respectful of YOUR money that she seems willing to spend so easily. Great comment. To think, I quit asking my boyfriends to help mow the grass because I didn't want to help them with their needs! No one told me I could ask for a $1000 toy. No OP. She was irresponsible with her laptop, now she wants you to pay for one? Is it her birthday? At least make her wait for Christmas and go for the $700 one. You sound like a nice guy. |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 77926133 United States 08/25/2019 02:29 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | That's not a healthy thing for a relationship. She doesn't really sound like a team player. Quoting: ROOSTRE Well doesn't help that she's a single mom. She has a lot of other expenses that I don't have to deal with. Yet! I've never found a single mom that will commit to a guy. The kid always comes first, and you're just extra. If you pay her she has to swallow and do your thing. |
Mental Case User ID: 77799176 United States 08/25/2019 02:31 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | ----------- That's it woman...you are in breech of an ORAL contract! I'm callin' the cops I should have required PRE-payment dag nabbit! Last Edited by Mental Case on 08/25/2019 02:32 PM If I am going to be damned...I am going to be damned for who I really am! |
Inhuman Deviant User ID: 77389392 United States 08/25/2019 02:32 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | She works but doesn't get paid much at her job. She's only 24 and has student loan debt of course. Well considering that, she should be a little more respectful of YOUR money that she seems willing to spend so easily. Agreed! I think she knows that I'm sort of hooked on her "goods". I have a horrible poker face with her. If she knows you're "hooked" you're done. LOL. It is what it is. If you have the extra money go ahead and buy the laptop and enjoy your time with her while you can. I think you realize she is basically using you for money. If that's the case and you're OK with it for the most part, by all means, carry on. Who are we to judge what makes your relationship tick. May I ask how big the age gap is? You don't have to answer if you don't want to or you don't have to be exact with the numbers. I'm just asking because this relationship agreement seems to be pretty normal among certain couples especially when the usually younger woman has "addictive goods". Inhuman Deviant |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 77926133 United States 08/25/2019 02:45 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | ... Quoting: Anonymous Coward 53122331 She works but doesn't get paid much at her job. She's only 24 and has student loan debt of course. Well considering that, she should be a little more respectful of YOUR money that she seems willing to spend so easily. Agreed! I think she knows that I'm sort of hooked on her "goods". I have a horrible poker face with her. If she knows you're "hooked" you're done. LOL. It is what it is. If you have the extra money go ahead and buy the laptop and enjoy your time with her while you can. I think you realize she is basically using you for money. If that's the case and you're OK with it for the most part, by all means, carry on. Who are we to judge what makes your relationship tick. May I ask how big the age gap is? You don't have to answer if you don't want to or you don't have to be exact with the numbers. I'm just asking because this relationship agreement seems to be pretty normal among certain couples especially when the usually younger woman has "addictive goods". I'm not the OP and I am looking for a legal girl 50 years younger. I don't mind paying if she at least acts like she wants me, looks decent and is into serious sex. It's a reasonable arrangement. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 77885854 Canada 08/25/2019 02:47 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | ... Quoting: Anonymous Girl Well considering that, she should be a little more respectful of YOUR money that she seems willing to spend so easily. Agreed! I think she knows that I'm sort of hooked on her "goods". I have a horrible poker face with her. If she knows you're "hooked" you're done. LOL. It is what it is. If you have the extra money go ahead and buy the laptop and enjoy your time with her while you can. I think you realize she is basically using you for money. If that's the case and you're OK with it for the most part, by all means, carry on. Who are we to judge what makes your relationship tick. May I ask how big the age gap is? You don't have to answer if you don't want to or you don't have to be exact with the numbers. I'm just asking because this relationship agreement seems to be pretty normal among certain couples especially when the usually younger woman has "addictive goods". I'm not the OP and I am looking for a legal girl 50 years younger. I don't mind paying if she at least acts like she wants me, looks decent and is into serious sex. It's a reasonable arrangement. 50 years younger than you? lol Don't mind paying? I think you'd have to. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 52293251 Canada 08/25/2019 02:50 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | ... Quoting: Anonymous Coward 53122331 She works but doesn't get paid much at her job. She's only 24 and has student loan debt of course. Well considering that, she should be a little more respectful of YOUR money that she seems willing to spend so easily. Agreed! I think she knows that I'm sort of hooked on her "goods". I have a horrible poker face with her. If she knows you're "hooked" you're done. LOL. It is what it is. If you have the extra money go ahead and buy the laptop and enjoy your time with her while you can. I think you realize she is basically using you for money. If that's the case and you're OK with it for the most part, by all means, carry on. Who are we to judge what makes your relationship tick. May I ask how big the age gap is? You don't have to answer if you don't want to or you don't have to be exact with the numbers. I'm just asking because this relationship agreement seems to be pretty normal among certain couples especially when the usually younger woman has "addictive goods". I'm 38 and she's 24. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 77930532 Canada 08/25/2019 02:52 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | ... Quoting: Anonymous Girl Well considering that, she should be a little more respectful of YOUR money that she seems willing to spend so easily. Agreed! I think she knows that I'm sort of hooked on her "goods". I have a horrible poker face with her. If she knows you're "hooked" you're done. LOL. It is what it is. If you have the extra money go ahead and buy the laptop and enjoy your time with her while you can. I think you realize she is basically using you for money. If that's the case and you're OK with it for the most part, by all means, carry on. Who are we to judge what makes your relationship tick. May I ask how big the age gap is? You don't have to answer if you don't want to or you don't have to be exact with the numbers. I'm just asking because this relationship agreement seems to be pretty normal among certain couples especially when the usually younger woman has "addictive goods". I'm not the OP and I am looking for a legal girl 50 years younger. I don't mind paying if she at least acts like she wants me, looks decent and is into serious sex. It's a reasonable arrangement. How old are you?? :damnedbig: |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 77930532 Canada 08/25/2019 02:56 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | It's natural for a man to provide. It suits the role given to us by nature. When natural roles are amplified a better relationship is the result. Going with the grain in nature just makes it all easier. Why fight anything? It's pointless. You just wear out early because in the end you lose that fight. Quoting: Chip Agreed. Men are providers and protectors. But a girlfriend is not a wife, and since she's "demanding", she seems to be a spoiled brat, rather than have a true need. |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 77930532 Canada 08/25/2019 03:00 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | It's natural for a man to provide. It suits the role given to us by nature. When natural roles are amplified a better relationship is the result. Going with the grain in nature just makes it all easier. Why fight anything? It's pointless. You just wear out early because in the end you lose that fight. Quoting: Chip Agreed. Men are providers and protectors. But a girlfriend is not a wife, and since she's "demanding", she seems to be a spoiled brat, rather than have a true need. Technicalities are pointless. Nature doesn't care about a piece of paper you submit to the government. :whack: True. Which is why I dont care to remarry. But should he allow himself to be manipulated, if that in fact, is what she's doing? |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 77798055 United States 08/25/2019 03:02 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | It's natural for a man to provide. It suits the role given to us by nature. When natural roles are amplified a better relationship is the result. Going with the grain in nature just makes it all easier. Why fight anything? It's pointless. You just wear out early because in the end you lose that fight. Quoting: Chip Agreed. Men are providers and protectors. But a girlfriend is not a wife, and since she's "demanding", she seems to be a spoiled brat, rather than have a true need. Technicalities are pointless. Nature doesn't care about a piece of paper you submit to the government. :whack: At least with the hand you don't go fucking broke! She'll leave you when you're used the fuck up. Get a good girl. Live the fucking dream! |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 77930532 Canada 08/25/2019 03:09 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | ... Quoting: Love_Goddess Agreed. Men are providers and protectors. But a girlfriend is not a wife, and since she's "demanding", she seems to be a spoiled brat, rather than have a true need. Technicalities are pointless. Nature doesn't care about a piece of paper you submit to the government. :whack: True. Which is why I dont care to remarry. But should he allow himself to be manipulated, if that in fact, is what she's doing? Manipulated? Lolol. Women always overestimate themselves. :vaginamind: Ive been having trouble with my laptop. It just died on me last year for no apparent reason, I believe I bought a lemon. Now I'm using a shitty chromebook. Will you please PLEASE buy me another one? Pretty please with a cherry on top?!? |