My step daughter is being stalked by her soon to be ex-husband, need some info

buy her a gun.. restraining orders are paper and dont do shit..
a gun will make sure the fucker never does it again..
stop raising targets and victims..

Set the dogs onto the Cunt.

Buy crack or meth and fentanyl and put it in his car with a pistol then call cops when hes following her or just casually driving by near where she is.

LOL
no proof no order.
feels ?
and ?
he's following me ?

If the stalker put a keystroke logger on her PC, then changing passwords is useless. Gal must change passwords from a different PC that stalker had no access was to.

Sounds like these 30 year old grown ups need to grow up.

They need to figure out how to raise their child the best way they can. They bonded in recovery at AA and have some tools and desire to be healthy.

They need mediators to help communicate how they will come parent. They won't benefit from tactics that undermine each other. The stalking needs to be called out and agreed to end.

Enlist sponsors through their mutual AA to help. Don't escalate this by one upping in dirty tactics. This man is the child's father and deserves to be a part of his kids live. He is scared and chosing fear, give him space to chose better. Give him an out.

Tell step daughter it's time to grow up. Get her life together before getting in to another romance. I'm betting she has a new man already and that's what this is about.

80% of the murderers in prison are NPD. NPDs don't think they do anything wrong, will never admit guilt, will never love anyone. They are cold calculated psychopaths who are gaslighters and manipulators. Many people find them charming.

Take all precautions with NPDs who are stalkers and Domestic Abusers. ALWAYS believe the woman.

It's hard to detach.

It's harder to get away.

But it's possible.

Movie: Sleeping with the Enemy. Spoiler: he finds her in the end.

This^^^^^

Keylogger....

Completely wipe and reinstall windows on the computer.

I must have missed the NPD diagnoses. The 2017 DSM says between .5-1% of general population is npd.

I have not heard any direct communication from the woman involved here to doubt her, but from the step dad I still get the idea these are grown ups who can't manage their life and need help communicating and not one upping each other on dirty tactics.

70% of NPDs are undiagnosed. because of the nature of the disease.
Took me 40 years to find out my attempted murderer was NPD. So DSM is probably a little behind.

Yep.
Unlisted landlines are safer.

Describe the process.
1. women experiences Domestic Violence.
2. woman doesn't go to police.
3. woman is usually isolated from her family and friends so have no emotional or safety protection in place.
4. woman will not reach out because she is beaten down. (notice it's not the woman asking OP, it's the step dad).
5. woman will run like a rabbit
6. woman will eventually have health issues and contact a Medical Doctor. Medical Doctors cannot report Domestic Violence of anyone except children and elderly.
7. woman will not contact police
8. woman will hide (predator still stalking). She is in danger of murder.
9. woman might seek psychological professional.

then what?

Pretty good summary. Thanks for taking the time.

That's been done already, thanks for validating my paranoia about keystroke loggers.

personal experience

locking gas cap if she does not already have one. Fuel can be tamkpered with in several ways, one is to gum up the engine, another is to add STP type stuff in huge quantities so when the car starts, it emits fumes that will sicken the driver.

it will even sicken the guys in the shop trying to find out what the heck happened.

I don't know if anyone else said this, but if she has one of those plug-in data cards from her auto insurance company (in order to lower her rate), she's going to have to take that out of the car, too.

buy a Gloock 9mn pisotl.

walk up to.


blow the shoot out of.

And in this case a person is being conspired against by who knows how many people.

Or are you one of the "if it isn't gangstalking" or "audio failing" it ain't a conpiracy tards?

Don't like it? Don't fucking read it.

Good Luck Mr. Croc. This is a tough situation.

Safe house. Put her and the kid there for 6 months. No contact. Then reassess.

Catch him in the act a few times with rental cars or whatever you're shadowing her with, tell him that if you catch him again that there won't be no next time *wink* *wink*

I did that twice to protect a family member, didn't hear a peep out of them since

Had a friend go through this, and no one much believed her that he ex kept turning up in really odd paces where she in her car. Eventually we worked out
a) GPS device put on car, tracked on Google Maps with a readily downloadable app (from the dark web, but also available in obscure sites on the internet.
b) a simple kiddy script available for about $70 from the same sources, which could hack an IPhone enabling the hacker to access ALL data-or delete it-and turn on camera and microphone and use them remotely without the owner knowing.
Solution: use a portable Farady cage, or change cell phone number and phone.
Stalkers are very dangerous.
Make sure she protect herself physically by carrying, and being very security conscious.
A 120 decibel personal alarm is advised.

You need to take your mother's cock out of your mouth before posting, lowlife degenerate piece of shit.

Firearm and training!!!!
My daughter shoots more and better than I do!
I introduced my wife to shooting she loves it!
I have been afraid of her ever sense!

yall watch to many movies! get guns and wait drive the car to some secluded area and wait him out, jeeeezus!

Take her car, purse lap top pda out to a remote location out of town and bring a shovel in case he shows up!!!

Dig the hole first.
It seems to take forever when you do it after.

I thought you were supposed to get him to dig his own hole!