Part 2 of the i miss him thread

Still don't care and don't find your story sympathetic.

I'm a borderline too but not a full borderline.

Why does your user id number change so drastically?

You clearly have an agenda here.

Absolutely. And it isn't working.

yikes. I find your situation all too familiar. I was with an abusive person that was diagnosed borderline and discharged from the military almost 8 years and at first I missed him because I always did love him wholeheartedly but soon I realized how happy and free I truly was without all the stress and negative energy all the time.. I found myself and who I was again.. I lost myself in th he process with him. I now have an amazing job, my own house in Harford County and happy everyday!!! Finding myself and college made me a happy girl. He chose to do some fucked up shit at the end of our time together and he made his bed. It is what it is. All I ever felt after the initial shock & sadness was disappointment. If he could let such a close bond go over believe false accusations and hearsay... he deff wasn't MY one... especially when he chose to believe the false bullshit from people that dumped him not even a month later. I guess he learned too late that they never were truly looking out for him, only seeking to entertain more drama. Oh well. On the other hand, I learned that he never did care about me anyway because if he did, he wouldn't have ever done the stupid things he chose to do
God as my witness!!! His issue now.

If your story is actually true OP... & they really were abusive and you both hurt each other... it prob is best to move on and get another guy like another user suggested! You will realize that maybe you don't miss HIM at all and maybe you are just lonely.

driving around town and stopping to post in between her $20 blowjobs

She's leaving out parts of the story. The relationship began with coercion, and they stayed together only through constant threats from her. She keeps vague about what she did, and backpedals immediately with the excuse that it was to protect herself. Don't be fooled.

^he's right you know

she left the part out where shes just another lying cheating fraud whore

Mmmmm I don’t know about that. She’s a unicorn rider, and all the unicorns have been here before, some long long ago. She smells just like less than less than less than plus greater than greater than greater than.

^whatever you say
Sounds like nonsense

Why do you keep whining about it on a political/ conspiracy website???

I'm so sorry that happened to you.

Idk if what he said was true but he wasn't abusive, I felt like he lied when he didn't have to. Maybe he tried to leave me before I could. Or maybe not. I don't hold that illness against him but it's funny because I wouldn't have left him but he still left me and i have bpd traits. That just goes to show you the type of heart men these days have.

This board is literally anything but a CT board. It's more like an off topic board

He sounds smarter than you thought he looked.

I had a gf like this once, wanted to get married but she had other ideas, namely

1. Used me to pleasure her when she felt like it
2. Use me as a punch bag when she needed to lash out
3. Made me pay all the bills
4. Used me as support during her studies

Once she qualified she levelled up and no longer needed me.
She started looking around, playing the field, her loins got loose and I started noticing the GUY count increase in Facebook, then the messages "Did I do something wrong" from other guys.

She then got another job, levelling up looking for better prey.

Then found a new religion, joined a cult, experimented lesbian.

I then got the boot!

Tried to pull her out of that cult, it was the last decent thing I could do for her, but efforts got worse, started working against me.

Just backed out and moved on. She settled in with an odder more $$$$ model guy.

take it from me OP. You done your part and its time to enjoy life as difficult as it may seem. Its gonna be ok.

I NEVER threatened him whatsoever and i was lenient towards him and gave him lots of space. I was very supportive of him. But you can't make someone stay unless they want to out of their own free will. I'm just really craving his affection. I tried to be nurturing to him.

Maybe manipulation wise, yes.
He didn't even graduate high school.

He's very charming and seductive and I loved it

Damn your ex gf sounds like a master manipulator.

And you could be right.

Allow me to reiterate: I don't feel sympathy for you, and I'm glad you are alone. You deserve to be, and that is perfectly clear.

That's the word for him...he's extremely seductive. Like everything he does and says is like the snake from the garden of Eden. He got me doing shit that I literally broke my own rules and boundaries for. He's charming and even in his interactions with others, I can tell people like him. He drew that out in me.

Why is there alaways a " They " that know the details and who are those motherfudgers

I was easily seduced by him. He just has that magnetic pull. But I loved it. Ugh I loved it so much.

100% right, move on, flirt, drink wine, enjoy life
What you learn makes you stronger, people like this actually holds you back, not the other way around.

A new adventure awaits

What is a borderline?

The answer for you is easy OP

You can choose too mope around been sad :( all day longing

or

Choose to enjoy life, explore, go out with friends, see other people as books still not read, smile, be happy, find a new adventure. But no crazy stuff, there is still weirdo's around. Learn, and be happy :)

I'm not going to lie,i want to be seduced again but not every guy has the power to do it. Not every guy has the natural magnetic pull to do it. I want to be like red Riding Hood and eaten by the wolf

I miss him too