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Message Subject Part 2 of the i miss him thread
Poster Handle Anonymous Coward
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yikes. I find your situation all too familiar. I was with an abusive person that was diagnosed borderline and discharged from the military almost 8 years and at first I missed him because I always did love him wholeheartedly but soon I realized how happy and free I truly was without all the stress and negative energy all the time.. I found myself and who I was again.. I lost myself in th he process with him. I now have an amazing job, my own house in Harford County and happy everyday!!! Finding myself and college made me a happy girl. He chose to do some fucked up shit at the end of our time together and he made his bed. It is what it is. All I ever felt after the initial shock & sadness was disappointment. If he could let such a close bond go over believe false accusations and hearsay... he deff wasn't MY one... especially when he chose to believe the false bullshit from people that dumped him not even a month later. I guess he learned too late that they never were truly looking out for him, only seeking to entertain more drama. Oh well. On the other hand, I learned that he never did care about me anyway because if he did, he wouldn't have ever done the stupid things he chose to do
God as my witness!!! His issue now.

If your story is actually true OP... & they really were abusive and you both hurt each other... it prob is best to move on and get another guy like another user suggested! You will realize that maybe you don't miss HIM at all and maybe you are just lonely.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 78052680

She's leaving out parts of the story. The relationship began with coercion, and they stayed together only through constant threats from her. She keeps vague about what she did, and backpedals immediately with the excuse that it was to protect herself. Don't be fooled.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 76657131

I NEVER threatened him whatsoever and i was lenient towards him and gave him lots of space. I was very supportive of him. But you can't make someone stay unless they want to out of their own free will. I'm just really craving his affection. I tried to be nurturing to him.
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