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Message Subject Part 2 of the i miss him thread
Poster Handle Anonymous Coward
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yikes. I find your situation all too familiar. I was with an abusive person that was diagnosed borderline and discharged from the military almost 8 years and at first I missed him because I always did love him wholeheartedly but soon I realized how happy and free I truly was without all the stress and negative energy all the time.. I found myself and who I was again.. I lost myself in th he process with him. I now have an amazing job, my own house in Harford County and happy everyday!!! Finding myself and college made me a happy girl. He chose to do some fucked up shit at the end of our time together and he made his bed. It is what it is. All I ever felt after the initial shock & sadness was disappointment. If he could let such a close bond go over believe false accusations and hearsay... he deff wasn't MY one... especially when he chose to believe the false bullshit from people that dumped him not even a month later. I guess he learned too late that they never were truly looking out for him, only seeking to entertain more drama. Oh well. On the other hand, I learned that he never did care about me anyway because if he did, he wouldn't have ever done the stupid things he chose to do
God as my witness!!! His issue now.

If your story is actually true OP... & they really were abusive and you both hurt each other... it prob is best to move on and get another guy like another user suggested! You will realize that maybe you don't miss HIM at all and maybe you are just lonely.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 78052680

I'm so sorry that happened to you.

Idk if what he said was true but he wasn't abusive, I felt like he lied when he didn't have to. Maybe he tried to leave me before I could. Or maybe not. I don't hold that illness against him but it's funny because I wouldn't have left him but he still left me and i have bpd traits. That just goes to show you the type of heart men these days have.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 47652962

He sounds smarter than you thought he looked.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 76657131

Maybe manipulation wise, yes.
He didn't even graduate high school.

He's very charming and seductive and I loved it
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1416041

Allow me to reiterate: I don't feel sympathy for you, and I'm glad you are alone. You deserve to be, and that is perfectly clear.
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