And what makes men so bad (if indeed some are that bed)?

Answer: Women.

Over-bearing, over-protective, narcissistic women. Feminists. Women raise men theu their formative years, even if there is a man involved in the parenting, that is still true. Why do you think ancient & indigenous cultures had initiation rituals for young men into manhood where the elder men would sometimes literally steal the boy and take him away to the woods to ceremonially break his ties with the mother and welcome him into his manhood. Men don't do that anymore....maybe that is societies problem! Now weak men & feminists try to tell men that they are too masculine! Toxically masculine! I say that this society desperately needs initiation rituals & toxically masculine men more than ever!