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I've been at my gym for 11 years and still haven't found a girlfriend.

 
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10/12/2019 11:17 PM
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Re: I've been at my gym for 11 years and still haven't found a girlfriend.
I've never joined a gym yet I've had many girlfriends.
I'm afraid if I join a gym I might not have any.
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Yeah, all gyms get you is ring worms and warts.
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I clean my gym. The cleanest one in the whole city.
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10/12/2019 11:18 PM
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Re: I've been at my gym for 11 years and still haven't found a girlfriend.
dont work out at the YMCA son..
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10/12/2019 11:19 PM
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Re: I've been at my gym for 11 years and still haven't found a girlfriend.
Maybe try to meet women at church or online instead of the gym?

Most women don't want to get hit on at the gym (I think).
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This ^^
 Quoting: Miss Bunny Swan


Do women want to get hit-on at church? Lol
I don't think women wanna get hit-on at all.
But they sure wanna get laid. Sluts most of them are.
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10/12/2019 11:22 PM

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Re: I've been at my gym for 11 years and still haven't found a girlfriend.
Maybe try to meet women at church or online instead of the gym?

Most women don't want to get hit on at the gym (I think).
 Quoting: Agent Kitty


This ^^
 Quoting: Miss Bunny Swan


Do women want to get hit-on at church? Lol
I don't think women wanna get hit-on at all.
But they sure wanna get laid. Sluts most of them are.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 51969495


Yea I can only speak for myself but I don’t want to get hit on at all. Sure do love getting laid though, call me an egg! Anyways, my boyfriend hit on me here and it was far from uncomfortable how it all went down.
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10/12/2019 11:26 PM
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Re: I've been at my gym for 11 years and still haven't found a girlfriend.
Sad story.loosa
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10/12/2019 11:38 PM
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Re: I've been at my gym for 11 years and still haven't found a girlfriend.
I've never joined a gym yet I've had many girlfriends.
I'm afraid if I join a gym I might not have any.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 51969495


Yeah, all gyms get you is ring worms and warts.
 Quoting: Weyoun


Right
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10/12/2019 11:40 PM
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Re: I've been at my gym for 11 years and still haven't found a girlfriend.
Maybe try to meet women at church or online instead of the gym?

Most women don't want to get hit on at the gym (I think).
 Quoting: Agent Kitty


This ^^
 Quoting: Miss Bunny Swan


Not helpful.

Where DO women want to get hit on?
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10/12/2019 11:41 PM
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Re: I've been at my gym for 11 years and still haven't found a girlfriend.
Gyms aren't a good place to meet women. Try doing some philanthropic, charitable, or volunteer work. You'll meet lots of women of good quality there. Also, try church as well. Women who regularly go to church tend to be of higher quality. Stay away from bars, etc.

Or take night classes and you will meet smart women who might be good dating potential. Also, one other tidbit: It's difficult to try to pick-up women by yourself. Meaning it's a lot easier if you are with a group of guy friends and one of them introduces you to a potential girlfriend. Meaning look for referrals and introductions to women of quality.
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THIS!

I volunteered for a city program that taught single parent's kids to fish.....met more women than I wanted to deal with....
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10/12/2019 11:41 PM
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Re: I've been at my gym for 11 years and still haven't found a girlfriend.
Maybe try to meet women at church or online instead of the gym?

Most women don't want to get hit on at the gym (I think).
 Quoting: Agent Kitty


This ^^
 Quoting: Miss Bunny Swan


Not helpful.

Where DO women want to get hit on?
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 78002311


I go for her kneecaps.
Weyoun

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10/12/2019 11:41 PM
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Re: I've been at my gym for 11 years and still haven't found a girlfriend.
Maybe try to meet women at church or online instead of the gym?

Most women don't want to get hit on at the gym (I think).
 Quoting: Agent Kitty


This ^^
 Quoting: Miss Bunny Swan


Not helpful.

Where DO women want to get hit on?
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 78002311


You play it cool and let them go to you.
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10/12/2019 11:47 PM
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Re: I've been at my gym for 11 years and still haven't found a girlfriend.
I'm just some old married guy and not a single woman so what do I know? But, my 1st thought is trying to hit on a girl at a gym is kinda creepy? When I'm at a gym its a very private time for me and IMO most others. You know, the let me put my earbuds in, do what I have to and everyone leave me alone kinda thing...
People don't look the best when working out so not exactly the place to hookup IMO.
So... you are looking for a 20-30 year old and as I understand you don't
own a car...

Seriously, I have a teenage daughter that will soon date ( Lord help me) but one of the 1st things I have told her a minimum requirement for a boyfriend is he needs to be a Christian and own a car!

You may not be able to change how you look but you CAN buy a car.
Set some goals OP, get mobil, some game and go find someone...
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10/13/2019 08:33 AM
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Re: I've been at my gym for 11 years and still haven't found a girlfriend.
My gym women are trash. They don't want to tell me their name. The only kind women at the gym are old.
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10/13/2019 02:23 PM

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Re: I've been at my gym for 11 years and still haven't found a girlfriend.
My gym women are trash. They don't want to tell me their name. The only kind women at the gym are old.
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You call them 'trash' because they won't share personal information so a creep like you can stalk them? Guys like you need to be locked up or shot, I don't care which, whatever we can afford. You are a threat to order and civilization.

If you think that's a new way of thinking, you're wrong. Societies from the beginning of history always found a way to get rid of idle, troublesome young males with chips on their shoulders when there got to be too many of them running loose: they'd start a war, draft them into it and kill a bunch of them off at once. Don't think it won't happen again.
"The greatness of a nation and its moral progress can be judged by the way in which its animals are treated."
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10/13/2019 02:38 PM
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Re: I've been at my gym for 11 years and still haven't found a girlfriend.
Over 30 yrs in the gym, I have yet to see a successful
couple originated gym social life.
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10/13/2019 02:45 PM

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Re: I've been at my gym for 11 years and still haven't found a girlfriend.
People see me as a regular there. I talk to guys girls men and women people of all ages. Old people included. But when it comes to girls my age 20s to 30s. They refuse to look at me. If I say hi they say hi back I think of it as a good sign. I ask them if they're new at the gym. They go yes. They give me their name then they walk away. I don't get to get to know them right away. I'm probably just some ugly guy to them. I am not the best looking guy in the world but I'm still trying to find someone. I don't have a car or any bars around me. just the gym. Any serious advice for a ugly guy to meet a woman in the gym without coming out awkward?
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 73566700


the gym is where gay men go!
Anyone who challenges their control is deemed a sexist, a racist, a xenophobe and morally deformed , they will attack you they will slander you, they will seek to destroy your career and your family, they will seek to destroy everything about you ,including your reputation they will lie lie lie, they will do whatever is necessary!
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10/13/2019 02:47 PM
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Re: I've been at my gym for 11 years and still haven't found a girlfriend.
Are you one of those mouth breathers that stand around, energy drink in hand, and stares at women while they are working out? If yes, there is your problem.
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10/13/2019 02:50 PM
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Re: I've been at my gym for 11 years and still haven't found a girlfriend.
Grab them by the pussy

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10/13/2019 02:54 PM
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Re: I've been at my gym for 11 years and still haven't found a girlfriend.
Aren't you supposed to be pumping iron and minding your own business instead of going around being a pest to other customers? Any sharp-eyed manager should have thrown you out by now; I sure would.
 Quoting: whispering leaves


Aren't you supposed to be pumping iron and minding your own business instead of going around being a pest to other customers? Any sharp-eyed manager should have thrown you out by now; I sure would.
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Needs to hit the ymca so he doesnt have a choice to be a pest
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Re: I've been at my gym for 11 years and still haven't found a girlfriend.
If you consider yourself ugly, why look in a place where people go who obviously care about good looks?
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10/13/2019 02:59 PM
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Re: I've been at my gym for 11 years and still haven't found a girlfriend.
Have you improved your physique or is it purely a social meet and greet?

What is the focus; finding a girlfriend or improving yourself?

I think you're doing it wrong.
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Re: I've been at my gym for 11 years and still haven't found a girlfriend.
People see me as a regular there. I talk to guys girls men and women people of all ages. Old people included. But when it comes to girls my age 20s to 30s. They refuse to look at me. If I say hi they say hi back I think of it as a good sign. I ask them if they're new at the gym. They go yes. They give me their name then they walk away. I don't get to get to know them right away. I'm probably just some ugly guy to them. I am not the best looking guy in the world but I'm still trying to find someone. I don't have a car or any bars around me. just the gym. Any serious advice for a ugly guy to meet a woman in the gym without coming out awkward?
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 73566700

You don't have a car?
What else don't you have? You didn't give anyone enough info to make any assement at all.
How old are you? Sounds like you're unattractive or poorly groomed combined with poor.

I did everything you're supposed to do, I'm attractive, have assets, talents, you name it, I never met anybody. At this point I've lost patience. I certainly wouldn't date anyone I have to "take care of" in any way, especially driving.
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10/13/2019 03:09 PM
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Re: I've been at my gym for 11 years and still haven't found a girlfriend.
Ok, you need to couple that hobby with something else. Continue the gym thing but find another way to get out and meet people. Dive bars on music nights, lounges, recreational things like water skiing or camping with friends. Lots of women are in yoga.

Main thing is be perfectly happy being alone and having fun. Sometimes a new locale is also very helpful. Don’t go out with the intent of finding someone. Don’t even try, if you’re interested in someone be absolutely accepting of any outcome. The sting of rejection and the thrill of acceptance should be of equal value in you’re mind.

Just have fun and enjoy you’re life. There is someone for everyone out there. If you’re among those who wants a companion then the opportunity will arise. Give yourself a break and just enjoy your life the best you can. Good luck bud you’ll find someone.
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10/13/2019 04:17 PM
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Re: I've been at my gym for 11 years and still haven't found a girlfriend.
Buy a car chics dont like it when the guy doesnt have any wheels.

How u gonna take her out on a date?? Bicycle?subway?taxi?walk?unicycle?
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10/13/2019 04:27 PM
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Re: I've been at my gym for 11 years and still haven't found a girlfriend.
So you're an average or below average looking guy. With modest social skills, it sounds like.

Are you trying to get pretty women?
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10/13/2019 04:36 PM

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Re: I've been at my gym for 11 years and still haven't found a girlfriend.
If you wear cologne, ditch it. Dead giveaway of desperation, plus what woman wants to smell like a man wearing female-bait-scent after he's hugged her?
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Re: I've been at my gym for 11 years and still haven't found a girlfriend.
Gyms aren't a good place to meet women.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 77440428


Try doing some philanthropic, charitable, or volunteer work. You'll meet lots of women of good quality there. Also, try church as well. Women who regularly go to church tend to be of higher quality. Stay away from bars, etc.

Or take night classes and you will meet smart women who might be good dating potential. Also, one other tidbit: It's difficult to try to pick-up women by yourself. Meaning it's a lot easier if you are with a group of guy friends and one of them introduces you to a potential girlfriend. Meaning look for referrals and introductions to women of quality.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 77440428


Very good advice--^

As a woman I don’t think I would like meeting my guy at a gym. I need to connect intellectually before some guy is looking at me physically.

I need to hear what he has to say to be sure he has a brain and is interesting before I need to see him at a gym.

Kissin don’t last. Cookin do.

That is why the gym does not work.

Try taking a class of some kind and be interested in what you are learning. That is sexy. If you both like the subject you will have a mutual interest. Start there.

You are welcome.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 14931885


Yup, or hell, just get a side job at a grocery store. Instead of working out at the gym, go to work at the grocery. Especially Sunday mornings. You have no idea.

I will give you some sound advice.

If you have not already realized, Gyms are full of self infatuated narcissists.

[...]

Get out of there more,join groups,like amateur dramatics etc,there are many beautiful women with curves in all the right places ,maybe consider women that are carrying an extra few pounds,(i am not talking clinically obese) they too are looking for love.My experience is they make great lovers.
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Yup --^

Nobody goes to the gym to socialize. They all have lives outside it. YOU are the only one there trying to find a partner.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 77797825


This. Ditch the gym. It really is stupid, unless you need the trainer, or a specific piece of equipment (like a pool)... its a waste.
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Re: I've been at my gym for 11 years and still haven't found a girlfriend.
Maybe try to meet women at church or online instead of the gym?

Most women don't want to get hit on at the gym (I think).
 Quoting: Agent Kitty


But they don't want not to get hit on either. They want to get hit on so they can let you know they don't want to get hit on.
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10/13/2019 04:53 PM
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Re: I've been at my gym for 11 years and still haven't found a girlfriend.
Every female at the co-ed gym are there for one guy, the same guy, the Alpha Male (every gym has one).

• They ALL, secretly & involuntarily lust for him.

• They're ALL convinced they have a chance to be w/ him.

• They ALL believe id they could just get one chance to whore for him he'll fall in love w/ them.

• They ALL don't know he counts on these realities to sleep w/ all of them & spread herpes.

If you're not him you're a waste of their time.
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Re: I've been at my gym for 11 years and still haven't found a girlfriend.
Every female at the co-ed gym are there for one guy, the same guy, the Alpha Male (every gym has one).

• They ALL, secretly & involuntarily lust for him.

• They're ALL convinced they have a chance to be w/ him.

• They ALL believe id they could just get one chance to whore for him he'll fall in love w/ them.

• They ALL don't know he counts on these realities to sleep w/ all of them & spread herpes.

If you're not him you're a waste of their time.
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Re: I've been at my gym for 11 years and still haven't found a girlfriend.
I met my boyfriend on tinder. 2 years now we’re together. I know a few couples who met that way, one many years ago and they’re married now.

I honestly think its a sucky system, online dating, but I didn’t really know where else to start. I had some weird dates, and nerve wracking convos, but eventually found someone. Going on dates in general is just super awkward, but you gotta meet people to find the right one. Kinda hellish...
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