I've been at my gym for 11 years and still haven't found a girlfriend.

I clean my gym. The cleanest one in the whole city.

dont work out at the YMCA son..

Do women want to get hit-on at church? Lol
I don't think women wanna get hit-on at all.
But they sure wanna get laid. Sluts most of them are.

Yea I can only speak for myself but I don’t want to get hit on at all. Sure do love getting laid though, call me an egg! Anyways, my boyfriend hit on me here and it was far from uncomfortable how it all went down.

Sad story.

Right

Not helpful.

Where DO women want to get hit on?

THIS!

I volunteered for a city program that taught single parent's kids to fish.....met more women than I wanted to deal with....

I go for her kneecaps.

You play it cool and let them go to you.

I'm just some old married guy and not a single woman so what do I know? But, my 1st thought is trying to hit on a girl at a gym is kinda creepy? When I'm at a gym its a very private time for me and IMO most others. You know, the let me put my earbuds in, do what I have to and everyone leave me alone kinda thing...
People don't look the best when working out so not exactly the place to hookup IMO.
So... you are looking for a 20-30 year old and as I understand you don't
own a car...

Seriously, I have a teenage daughter that will soon date ( Lord help me) but one of the 1st things I have told her a minimum requirement for a boyfriend is he needs to be a Christian and own a car!

You may not be able to change how you look but you CAN buy a car.
Set some goals OP, get mobil, some game and go find someone...

My gym women are trash. They don't want to tell me their name. The only kind women at the gym are old.

You call them 'trash' because they won't share personal information so a creep like you can stalk them? Guys like you need to be locked up or shot, I don't care which, whatever we can afford. You are a threat to order and civilization.

If you think that's a new way of thinking, you're wrong. Societies from the beginning of history always found a way to get rid of idle, troublesome young males with chips on their shoulders when there got to be too many of them running loose: they'd start a war, draft them into it and kill a bunch of them off at once. Don't think it won't happen again.

Over 30 yrs in the gym, I have yet to see a successful
couple originated gym social life.

the gym is where gay men go!

Are you one of those mouth breathers that stand around, energy drink in hand, and stares at women while they are working out? If yes, there is your problem.

Grab them by the pussy

Needs to hit the ymca so he doesnt have a choice to be a pest

If you consider yourself ugly, why look in a place where people go who obviously care about good looks?

Have you improved your physique or is it purely a social meet and greet?

What is the focus; finding a girlfriend or improving yourself?

I think you're doing it wrong.

You don't have a car?
What else don't you have? You didn't give anyone enough info to make any assement at all.
How old are you? Sounds like you're unattractive or poorly groomed combined with poor.

I did everything you're supposed to do, I'm attractive, have assets, talents, you name it, I never met anybody. At this point I've lost patience. I certainly wouldn't date anyone I have to "take care of" in any way, especially driving.

Ok, you need to couple that hobby with something else. Continue the gym thing but find another way to get out and meet people. Dive bars on music nights, lounges, recreational things like water skiing or camping with friends. Lots of women are in yoga.

Main thing is be perfectly happy being alone and having fun. Sometimes a new locale is also very helpful. Don’t go out with the intent of finding someone. Don’t even try, if you’re interested in someone be absolutely accepting of any outcome. The sting of rejection and the thrill of acceptance should be of equal value in you’re mind.

Just have fun and enjoy you’re life. There is someone for everyone out there. If you’re among those who wants a companion then the opportunity will arise. Give yourself a break and just enjoy your life the best you can. Good luck bud you’ll find someone.

Buy a car chics dont like it when the guy doesnt have any wheels.

How u gonna take her out on a date?? Bicycle?subway?taxi?walk?unicycle?

So you're an average or below average looking guy. With modest social skills, it sounds like.

Are you trying to get pretty women?

If you wear cologne, ditch it. Dead giveaway of desperation, plus what woman wants to smell like a man wearing female-bait-scent after he's hugged her?

Very good advice--^



Yup, or hell, just get a side job at a grocery store. Instead of working out at the gym, go to work at the grocery. Especially Sunday mornings. You have no idea.



Yup --^



This. Ditch the gym. It really is stupid, unless you need the trainer, or a specific piece of equipment (like a pool)... its a waste.

But they don't want not to get hit on either. They want to get hit on so they can let you know they don't want to get hit on.

Every female at the co-ed gym are there for one guy, the same guy, the Alpha Male (every gym has one).

• They ALL, secretly & involuntarily lust for him.

• They're ALL convinced they have a chance to be w/ him.

• They ALL believe id they could just get one chance to whore for him he'll fall in love w/ them.

• They ALL don't know he counts on these realities to sleep w/ all of them & spread herpes.

If you're not him you're a waste of their time.

Every female at the co-ed gym are there for one guy, the same guy, the Alpha Male (every gym has one).

• They ALL, secretly & involuntarily lust for him.

• They're ALL convinced they have a chance to be w/ him.

• They ALL believe id they could just get one chance to whore for him he'll fall in love w/ them.

• They ALL don't know he counts on these realities to sleep w/ all of them & spread herpes.

If you're not him you're a waste of their time.

It ocurred to me to tell you dating is now regulated by social media ...i liked your comment