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ACME_MAN User ID: 76782502 United States 10/17/2019 07:42 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Try some dating sites for MATURE adults. I have been single for a year. I am a 40 year old attractive successful single mom. I want to find someone to spend my life with. I have been recently trying to date but all that’s out there at my age is bitter recently divorced child like men who just want to have sex. I don’t and get ghosted. Is there any normal males at 40 years old ? Quoting: Michelle 78029537 Dedicated to the brave men who fought and laid down their lives on the beaches of Normandy and the plains of Europe . . . that their sacrifice was not in vain. [link to www.youtube.com (secure)] |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 57473568 United States 10/17/2019 07:44 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | You just described the "new normal". Guys got woke and finally figured out that relationships end and they get the shaft. How about you? Are you a single mom, or a divorced mom. If divorced, how much did you take him for? Quoting: Anonymous Coward 77867111 Divorced he doesn’t pay much. I make more than him. I get $300 a month for 2 kids Good for him I paid 3600 a month in b s cal Damn I got screwed lol. I’m actually fine with it. He sees them twice a week and is a good dad Does he still have privileges? |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 76586053 United States 10/17/2019 07:48 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Wow. I knew I should avoid this thread but curiousity got the better of me. The amount of rage from jilted men is shocking. Alright fellas, pay careful attention for a minute. Lemme break it down for you... Quoting: XeroGravity I get that women today are all kinds of fuxxored up. Even though they outnumber us, it's slim pickens finding one worth a damn. Take your time picking one! Or just move from flower to flower collecting honey. Whatever floats your boat. I get it that marriage is a scam that destroys men (thankyou leftists, you packed the courts with crazies & now men want out). So don't get married. Problem fixed. And yes, I know a lot of you have been screwed - everyone has - but you're going off on this chick & acting like asses (some of you). You should direct your anger at the bimbos who burnt you, not the OP. Even better, blow it off & move on (preserve your dignity). Here's your reality check. If a woman (or women in general) aren't into you, that's nobody's fault but your own. Focus on yourself. If you're fat, go on a diet & work out. If your ugly, get your ass to a plastic surgeon. If you're poor, pull yourself up by the bootstraps & fix it. FFS, did everyone get their family jewels snipped at birth? Finally, & this is the big one. If your woman ran out on you or cheated on you, stop blaming the world. That's on you. You either 1. went slummin' it & latched onto the wrong gal (TAKE YOUR TIME & VET THE WOMEN), or 2. you weren't keeping her satisfied in bed & holding up your responsibilities as a man. If you got problems in that department, FIX IT! You handle business between the sheets, she'll never have eyes for anyone but you. I'm not trying to be a dick. I'm genuinely concerned for you boys & wish the best for you. All this whining & singin the blues makes you look like a bunch of douchebags to women. And sex robots?? Seriously?? That's some weird ass kink you got goin on there. Lol. ^^^This. Very well said, and true. Any human being can have issues. Shouldn't group all women or all men as bad bcuz of several bad ones you encountered. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 75716984 United States 10/17/2019 07:51 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | ... Quoting: Anonymous Coward 77067367 I had one full time and the other 40% when I was first single I went out and hit anything that moved. 5/6 days a week, after a few months realized I wasn’t spending time with my kids. I stopped and was better for it. I am with my kids and only my kids when they are home unless I’m working, but we have shared custody. I guess I’ll start being a player lol Let me guess, still wont settle for less than a chad, even though you are already used up and started "your" family. Now you still want it all, except you want the chad to take care of you. After being a nice guy and getting the shaft from women early on, you have been replaced. Most sane men 40 and over dont want all the bullshit you carry with you from your "fun" days, they are happy with old cars, beer, hunting, fishing, ect. Even back when I was 20 something, most of the women had the same attitude. They didnt really want a nice family with a decent honest man at the helm. Fortunately I found a rare one and we have been together for almost 20 years. At this point we are in it for the long haul, theres no going back and we wouldnt have it any other way. i applaud you brother for finding that unicorn. I found a unicorn a couple of times in the past before I settled. You know what happened? They went to college and got "reeducated" and went full retard with it. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 78051589 United States 10/17/2019 07:57 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I’m 40. If anything were to happen to my husband who I love more than the air I breathe, there is no other. There’s no replacement or substitution for my kids father. There’s absolutely no replacement for the time and commitment I put into the relationship if things went sour. There’s no do-overs, going back, or even dress rehearsals. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 77184054 Take note ladies. Study the above post. The good men of this world would move mountains to find a woman who loves like this. She's the literal diamond in the never-ending dump that feminism has created. 95% of us have abandoned all hope of ever finding one like her. AC: Your husband is the luckiest man in the world. |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 78006849 United States 10/17/2019 07:59 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | just another dumb bitch that thinks having sex is some kind of reward and not part of a healthy relationships. tons of marriages end because the lady stops having sex. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 73720142 Can you not read? I said these men ONLY want sex that’s it, no relationship, no going out, no hanging out, nothing but sticking their dick in a female and two said it before even meeting me. They hat went by pics. I find that disturbing and so should you. In a healthy relationship I am a whore , but when a man straight says he wants nothing but sex it’s a big turn offf. I’d rather stay single and keep my pride |
The Ghost of Comedian User ID: 49838646 United States 10/17/2019 07:59 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I have been single for a year. I am a 40 year old attractive successful single mom. I want to find someone to spend my life with. I have been recently trying to date but all that’s out there at my age is bitter recently divorced child like men who just want to have sex. I don’t and get ghosted. Is there any normal males at 40 years old ? Quoting: Michelle 78029537 Why are you focused on men your age? You should be open to dating guys who are between 10 and 15 years younger or older than you. Also, define "successful" and "normal." Personally, I don't date anyone who isn't a Christian. For me, that is "normal." What values and personality traits are you looking for in a partner? Honestly, those are the most important things, especially as you get older. Are you looking for someone to take care of you and your kids? You really haven't said what you're looking for, only that there are only "bitter, recently divorced, childlike men." Last Edited by The Ghost of Comedian on 10/17/2019 08:02 PM |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 76157594 United States 10/17/2019 07:59 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | ... Quoting: Anonymous Coward 78029537 Great advice. I don’t need a man, I want one in my life . There is a huge difference you should just settle 4 a BBC then and get your thrills on babygirl Nobody wants a purple burnt sausage unless you have bad skin and are trashy... bad advice meh. you're still just a DUDE. Chicks beg to differ. They tell me that they LOVE it and that's like a Drug/Medicine 4 them meh. You’re black right? The white girls you fuck pretty much all have bad skin and are trashy right? Hm. |
Q33 User ID: 78072747 Canada 10/17/2019 08:01 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Nobody wants a purple burnt sausage unless you have bad skin and are trashy... bad advice meh. you're still just a DUDE. Chicks beg to differ. They tell me that they LOVE it and that's like a Drug/Medicine 4 them meh. You’re black right? The white girls you fuck pretty much all have bad skin and are trashy right? Hm. Bingo! |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 78006849 United States 10/17/2019 08:07 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I have been single for a year. I am a 40 year old attractive successful single mom. I want to find someone to spend my life with. I have been recently trying to date but all that’s out there at my age is bitter recently divorced child like men who just want to have sex. I don’t and get ghosted. Is there any normal males at 40 years old ? Quoting: Michelle 78029537 Why are you focused on men your age? You should be open to dating guys who are between 10 and 15 years younger or older than you. Also, define "successful" and "normal." Personally, I don't date anyone who isn't a Christian. For me, that is "normal." What values and personality traits are you looking for in a partner? Honestly, those are the most important things, especially as you get older. Are you looking for someone to take care of you and your kids? You really haven't said what you're looking for, only that there are only "bitter, recently divorced, childlike men." My values are honesty, reliability, someone to have a great time with, someone that wants to grow old with a partner and who never lie to me, cheat on me. Someone to care for me (not financially), and I would take care of him. Someone to cook with , laugh with see the world with. Someone that believes in a god up above. Those are things I am looking for |
XJDUB User ID: 73274634 Canada 10/17/2019 08:07 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | too many lose sight of what makes a relationship healthy and start it trying to mimic bullshit they got away with before. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 73720142 Let the facts fall wherever, whenever, and however they may. INTP - The Logician. 'Learn from yesterday, live for today, hope for tomorrow. The important thing is not to stop questioning.' - Albert Einstein. |
Interested_1 User ID: 77128962 United States 10/17/2019 08:08 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Obviously I am if I can raise two children and leave a liar and a cheater. My only flaw is picking and loving men who are flawed beyond belief. When you can spot and correct your own flaws, it will all change for the better. Best advice in all these pages. Take the red pill now...later it will come as a suppository. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 78089243 United States 10/17/2019 08:11 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I don’t need a man, I want one in my life . Quoting: Anonymous Coward 55229531 All the bitter male replies are from broke men. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 77982166 The economy sucks, and females are a luxury for men-- one that many cannot afford. Simply start screening your prospects better. Being a 'nice girl' NEVER works, they will never respect you for that. Do not entertain any men who aren't successful and monied. Over the first few dates gauge generosity. They are to be treated as dogs; kisses and intimacy are given as treats. Keep your great personality and skills but mete them out AS HE EARNS IT. A man does not deserve a good woman unless he EARNS it. That's a start. Great advice. I don’t need a man, I want one in my life . There is a huge difference "I don’t need a man" You want the d aka a fuck boy. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 48024189 United States 10/17/2019 08:15 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | You just described the "new normal". Guys got woke and finally figured out that relationships end and they get the shaft. How about you? Are you a single mom, or a divorced mom. If divorced, how much did you take him for? Quoting: Anonymous Coward 77867111 Divorced he doesn’t pay much. I make more than him. I get $300 a month for 2 kids Good for him I paid 3600 a month in b s cal Dude, is that a type error, 3600 a month? Does she take care of multiple kids? |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 2876001 United States 10/17/2019 08:21 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | If it's not a troll then she wants a meal ticket and is freaking out about it in this thread the whole day. The skankosaurus is now posting under another id number too. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 75716984 Every post was a different number. why do you women always down other women? lolz |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 77957115 Canada 10/17/2019 08:22 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | If it's not a troll then she wants a meal ticket and is freaking out about it in this thread the whole day. The skankosaurus is now posting under another id number too. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 75716984 Every post was a different number. why do you women always down other women? lolz How is that "downing" the person? |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 77957115 Canada 10/17/2019 08:23 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | If it's not a troll then she wants a meal ticket and is freaking out about it in this thread the whole day. The skankosaurus is now posting under another id number too. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 75716984 Every post was a different number. Cool hat. haha Thanks. |
Q33 User ID: 78072747 Canada 10/17/2019 08:23 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | If it's not a troll then she wants a meal ticket and is freaking out about it in this thread the whole day. The skankosaurus is now posting under another id number too. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 75716984 Every post was a different number. why do you women always down other women? lolz How is that "downing" the person? j4 she is just upset! |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 2876001 United States 10/17/2019 08:25 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | If it's not a troll then she wants a meal ticket and is freaking out about it in this thread the whole day. The skankosaurus is now posting under another id number too. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 75716984 Every post was a different number. why do you women always down other women? lolz How is that "downing" the person? lol I know. I just like seeing women go at it. I love the smell of pussy pheromones in action lol |
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