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#521 User ID: 72472775 United States 10/17/2019 12:48 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I have been single for a year. I am a 40 year old attractive successful single mom. I want to find someone to spend my life with. I have been recently trying to date but all that’s out there at my age is bitter recently divorced child like men who just want to have sex. I don’t and get ghosted. Is there any normal males at 40 years old ? Quoting: Michelle 78029537 |
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Anonymous Coward (OP) User ID: 78029537 United States 10/17/2019 12:50 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I set my standards very high. I get hit on by all types. But they all have baby mama drama, paying out the ass in child support, hating on women. So maybe they are just afraid to settle down again? I don’t know I guess I’ll takr the single road |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 75867049 United States 10/17/2019 12:50 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I have been single for a year. I am a 40 year old attractive successful single mom. I want to find someone to spend my life with. I have been recently trying to date but all that’s out there at my age is bitter recently divorced child like men who just want to have sex. I don’t and get ghosted. Is there any normal males at 40 years old ? Quoting: Michelle 78029537 because we know better then to fuck with a single term mother long term. single mother is a red flag. |
Anonymous Coward (OP) User ID: 78029537 United States 10/17/2019 12:51 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I have been single for a year. I am a 40 year old attractive successful single mom. I want to find someone to spend my life with. I have been recently trying to date but all that’s out there at my age is bitter recently divorced child like men who just want to have sex. I don’t and get ghosted. Is there any normal males at 40 years old ? Quoting: Michelle 78029537 because we know better then to fuck with a single term mother long term. single mother is a red flag. But being a single dad is ok? Makes a lot of sense. I’m single for a reason because I don’t tolerate lies and cheating. |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 77067367 United States 10/17/2019 12:52 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I have been single for a year. I am a 40 year old attractive successful single mom. I want to find someone to spend my life with. I have been recently trying to date but all that’s out there at my age is bitter recently divorced child like men who just want to have sex. I don’t and get ghosted. Is there any normal males at 40 years old ? Quoting: Michelle 78029537 Yes but anyone out of a long term relationship should give it time, way too many men and women are needy and run at the first relationship they find. Give it time one year isn’t long. Enjoy your kids they will be gone very soon:) when ex don’t come up on both sides your ready |
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Anonymous Coward (OP) User ID: 78029537 United States 10/17/2019 12:54 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | You just described the "new normal". Guys got woke and finally figured out that relationships end and they get the shaft. How about you? Are you a single mom, or a divorced mom. If divorced, how much did you take him for? Quoting: Anonymous Coward 77867111 Divorced he doesn’t pay much. I make more than him. I get $300 a month for 2 kids |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 2876001 United States 10/17/2019 12:54 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I set my standards very high. I get hit on by all types. But they all have baby mama drama, paying out the ass in child support, hating on women. So maybe they are just afraid to settle down again? I don’t know I guess I’ll takr the single road what is your star sign op?? |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 75867049 United States 10/17/2019 12:55 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I have been single for a year. I am a 40 year old attractive successful single mom. I want to find someone to spend my life with. I have been recently trying to date but all that’s out there at my age is bitter recently divorced child like men who just want to have sex. I don’t and get ghosted. Is there any normal males at 40 years old ? Quoting: Michelle 78029537 because we know better then to fuck with a single term mother long term. single mother is a red flag. But being a single dad is ok? Makes a lot of sense. I’m single for a reason because I don’t tolerate lies and cheating. Single dad's don't get much love themselves, because most women know, that the attention from that man will not be same towards them as a man who is single and can give them all they want. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 77067367 United States 10/17/2019 12:55 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I have been single for a year. I am a 40 year old attractive successful single mom. I want to find someone to spend my life with. I have been recently trying to date but all that’s out there at my age is bitter recently divorced child like men who just want to have sex. I don’t and get ghosted. Is there any normal males at 40 years old ? Quoting: Michelle 78029537 because we know better then to fuck with a single term mother long term. single mother is a red flag. You came to a place with a lot of bitter men? I’m not I moved on a long time ago |
Anonymous Coward (OP) User ID: 78029537 United States 10/17/2019 12:55 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I have been single for a year. I am a 40 year old attractive successful single mom. I want to find someone to spend my life with. I have been recently trying to date but all that’s out there at my age is bitter recently divorced child like men who just want to have sex. I don’t and get ghosted. Is there any normal males at 40 years old ? Quoting: Michelle 78029537 Yes but anyone out of a long term relationship should give it time, way too many men and women are needy and run at the first relationship they find. Give it time one year isn’t long. Enjoy your kids they will be gone very soon:) when ex don’t come up on both sides your ready Thanks for the advice. Seems to be the road I should take. I don’t have my kids 2 days a week when they go to their dads and I get lonely I guess I’ll start volunteering or something |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 75867049 United States 10/17/2019 12:56 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I have been single for a year. I am a 40 year old attractive successful single mom. I want to find someone to spend my life with. I have been recently trying to date but all that’s out there at my age is bitter recently divorced child like men who just want to have sex. I don’t and get ghosted. Is there any normal males at 40 years old ? Quoting: Michelle 78029537 because we know better then to fuck with a single term mother long term. single mother is a red flag. You came to a place with a lot of bitter men? I’m not I moved on a long time ago bitter for a good reason. |
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Anonymous Coward (OP) User ID: 78029537 United States 10/17/2019 12:57 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I set my standards very high. I get hit on by all types. But they all have baby mama drama, paying out the ass in child support, hating on women. So maybe they are just afraid to settle down again? I don’t know I guess I’ll takr the single road what is your star sign op?? I’m a Taurus. I’m sweet loyal and stubborned |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 77067367 United States 10/17/2019 12:57 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | You just described the "new normal". Guys got woke and finally figured out that relationships end and they get the shaft. How about you? Are you a single mom, or a divorced mom. If divorced, how much did you take him for? Quoting: Anonymous Coward 77867111 Divorced he doesn’t pay much. I make more than him. I get $300 a month for 2 kids Good for him I paid 3600 a month in b s cal |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 77982166 United States 10/17/2019 12:57 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | All the bitter male replies are from broke men. The economy sucks, and females are a luxury for men-- one that many cannot afford. Simply start screening your prospects better. Being a 'nice girl' NEVER works, they will never respect you for that. Do not entertain any men who aren't successful and monied. Over the first few dates gauge generosity. They are to be treated as dogs; kisses and intimacy are given as treats. Keep your great personality and skills but mete them out AS HE EARNS IT. A man does not deserve a good woman unless he EARNS it. That's a start. |
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Anonymous Coward (OP) User ID: 78029537 United States 10/17/2019 12:58 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | You just described the "new normal". Guys got woke and finally figured out that relationships end and they get the shaft. How about you? Are you a single mom, or a divorced mom. If divorced, how much did you take him for? Quoting: Anonymous Coward 77867111 Divorced he doesn’t pay much. I make more than him. I get $300 a month for 2 kids Good for him I paid 3600 a month in b s cal Damn I got screwed lol. I’m actually fine with it. He sees them twice a week and is a good dad |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 77067367 United States 10/17/2019 12:58 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I have been single for a year. I am a 40 year old attractive successful single mom. I want to find someone to spend my life with. I have been recently trying to date but all that’s out there at my age is bitter recently divorced child like men who just want to have sex. I don’t and get ghosted. Is there any normal males at 40 years old ? Quoting: Michelle 78029537 because we know better then to fuck with a single term mother long term. single mother is a red flag. You came to a place with a lot of bitter men? I’m not I moved on a long time ago bitter for a good reason. Hey I was there, just moved on and am better for it |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 2876001 United States 10/17/2019 12:59 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I set my standards very high. I get hit on by all types. But they all have baby mama drama, paying out the ass in child support, hating on women. So maybe they are just afraid to settle down again? I don’t know I guess I’ll takr the single road what is your star sign op?? I’m a Taurus. I’m sweet loyal and stubborned So you don't like casual sex? You need to be in a relationship to have sex? What's wrong with just being friends with benefits? |
Thank you User ID: 75868206 Canada 10/17/2019 12:59 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I am sorry maa'm... you're too high of a risk. No disrespect meant... But I'd lay you down and stretch you out a fair bit. But you won't be moving in, and we won't be sharing a bank account, and you wont be borrowing my cars. ps: Please wear match hing bra and panties, if you have none I will buy you some. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 77930416 United States 10/17/2019 12:59 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Your children do not need to wake up in the morning with a man that they don't know in your bedroom. Think about your children first and be a good mother. If you need to have sex, do it at his place. Don't expose your children to your sex life with the men that you date. |
Anonymous Coward (OP) User ID: 78029537 United States 10/17/2019 01:00 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | All the bitter male replies are from broke men. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 77982166 The economy sucks, and females are a luxury for men-- one that many cannot afford. Simply start screening your prospects better. Being a 'nice girl' NEVER works, they will never respect you for that. Do not entertain any men who aren't successful and monied. Over the first few dates gauge generosity. They are to be treated as dogs; kisses and intimacy are given as treats. Keep your great personality and skills but mete them out AS HE EARNS IT. A man does not deserve a good woman unless he EARNS it. That's a start. Great advice. I don’t need a man, I want one in my life . There is a huge difference |
Q33 User ID: 78072747 Canada 10/17/2019 01:00 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I have been single for a year. I am a 40 year old attractive successful single mom. I want to find someone to spend my life with. I have been recently trying to date but all that’s out there at my age is bitter recently divorced child like men who just want to have sex. I don’t and get ghosted. Is there any normal males at 40 years old ? Quoting: Michelle 78029537 |