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chasity (OP) User ID: 77360012 United States 11/08/2019 09:45 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I've always known being the scapegoat is better than being the golden child. There is no dependency on the parents and they won't be as involved later in life. For the life of us my husband and I could not understand why my parents were trying to hard to make my husband and I not marry. My mother even went as far as calling his parents to tell them what a big whore I was and best part was that they thought she was more horrible of a person for saying that about her child! lol IDK if my dad put her up to it or they both mutually agreed it was best to keep me living as a whore. Even when I had bf's 2 of them told me my mother would somehow have words with them telling them they could find a much better person than me and break up. She was always trying to keep me single. They would come to me asking why would my mother say something like that. And of course what could I say, she's crazy? I had no proof and not many people know a mother like mine. "'You're not allowed to have children, and you're not allowed to get married,'" she added. "The parent would be meddling in all these different relationships — left, right, and center — creating all sorts of drama, so the child stays single." Last Edited by By Owner Req on 11/08/2019 09:48 AM grass fed sardines |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 41659005 United States 11/08/2019 09:59 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | A psychopathic parent needs to seperate the children, cause division in the family. They do this at the very beginning conditioning the other siblings. You see the psychopath has to be in control at all times. The psychopath must be in control. So the division in the family provides them that ( star ) control. Here let me post a video in my next thread here. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 73848670 Canada 11/08/2019 10:02 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I've always known being the scapegoat is better than being the golden child. There is no dependency on the parents and they won't be as involved later in life. Quoting: chasity For the life of us my husband and I could not understand why my parents were trying to hard to make my husband and I not marry. My mother even went as far as calling his parents to tell them what a big whore I was and best part was that they thought she was more horrible of a person for saying that about her child! lol IDK if my dad put her up to it or they both mutually agreed it was best to keep me living as a whore. Even when I had bf's 2 of them told me my mother would somehow have words with them telling them they could find a much better person than me and break up. She was always trying to keep me single. They would come to me asking why would my mother say something like that. And of course what could I say, she's crazy? I had no proof and not many people know a mother like mine. "'You're not allowed to have children, and you're not allowed to get married,'" she added. "The parent would be meddling in all these different relationships — left, right, and center — creating all sorts of drama, so the child stays single." Um I would have cut them off and never looked back. Hope that is what you did. They just wanted you isolated. Sucks to be them. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 41659005 United States 11/08/2019 10:04 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Here you go. This is the best advice I could find on the web when dealing with a psychopath. Remember we are inundated with them now they are everywhere. And they are parasitic feeding off others energies. [link to youtu.be (secure)] |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 41659005 United States 11/08/2019 10:52 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | 0% since psychopaths dont exist. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 70851936 Thats as stupid as being "born gay" Doesnt exist. The psychopath triggers your emotions as they have no real emotions. That frontal lobe portion of their brain does not function as the normal human brain. They trigger emotions in others deliberately at times in order to feed off that energy and gain control. |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 41659005 United States 11/08/2019 10:55 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I've always known being the scapegoat is better than being the golden child. There is no dependency on the parents and they won't be as involved later in life. Quoting: chasity For the life of us my husband and I could not understand why my parents were trying to hard to make my husband and I not marry. My mother even went as far as calling his parents to tell them what a big whore I was and best part was that they thought she was more horrible of a person for saying that about her child! lol IDK if my dad put her up to it or they both mutually agreed it was best to keep me living as a whore. Even when I had bf's 2 of them told me my mother would somehow have words with them telling them they could find a much better person than me and break up. She was always trying to keep me single. They would come to me asking why would my mother say something like that. And of course what could I say, she's crazy? I had no proof and not many people know a mother like mine. "'You're not allowed to have children, and you're not allowed to get married,'" she added. "The parent would be meddling in all these different relationships — left, right, and center — creating all sorts of drama, so the child stays single." Um I would have cut them off and never looked back. Hope that is what you did. They just wanted you isolated. Sucks to be them. Psychopaths isolate for control. The psychopath has to be in control at all times. |
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chasity (OP) User ID: 77360012 United States 11/08/2019 11:12 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | My parents weren't attracted to each other, they got saddled together because my mom was orphaned (after her family murdered her father with an ax and sulfuric acid) and my grandma took her in to raise her. Because my dad and her lived together they didn't want my mom's reputation ruined so they married. My dad said he never loved her and he always cheated on her which is common for psychopath's in relationships (infidelity). He never stayed loyal, he even married some random woman from Ukraine after stringing along a girlfriend for 15 years. The girlfriend found out he was married a little into the marriage and dumped him. Now he wants her back or and because of his stroke he's less inhibited with sharing his ideas, he basically wants to keep a female slave and I told him that's illegal he told me to just nevermind, he'll figure it out. grass fed sardines |
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chasity (OP) User ID: 77360012 United States 11/08/2019 11:21 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | A psychopathic parent needs to seperate the children, cause division in the family. They do this at the very beginning conditioning the other siblings. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 41659005 You see the psychopath has to be in control at all times. The psychopath must be in control. So the division in the family provides them that ( star ) control. Here let me post a video in my next thread here. this happened with my sister and i. They even tried to separate my oldest daughter from me by taking her to family events that I was completely excluded from. I kept telling my dad not to take her (my daughter) places I am not welcome and he said I can't keep her away from the family. My mom would be there too. I saw the video, I know all too well. The weird thing is how the script has flipped. I am now the golden child and my dad hates my sister's husband, insists she needs to divorce him. He even wants to buy a gun and my husband and I tell him he doesn't need one, we are discouraging him. My sister's husband still works for my dad and it's just weird how he's paranoid of him but they were trying to find his will. After he had his stroke he's still the same but different, he even accidentally calls me by my sisters name. BUT now that I understand this a little better as an adult, I know how to keep my life in control without him trying to cause damage. When he tries he get's really angry and has a tantrum because he can't. I want to buy a new toilet and he won't let me, he keeps insisting he will buy it and doesn't. If we buy the toilet without him I don't know what he's going to do. At least it's not big major drama with him anymore but still, the potential is there. Now he is way less inhibited with sharing his evil ideas after a stroke. I know too much, stuff I would rather not know now. grass fed sardines |
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chasity (OP) User ID: 77360012 United States 11/08/2019 11:23 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | 0% since psychopaths dont exist. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 70851936 Thats as stupid as being "born gay" Doesnt exist. The psychopath triggers your emotions as they have no real emotions. That frontal lobe portion of their brain does not function as the normal human brain. They trigger emotions in others deliberately at times in order to feed off that energy and gain control. This is why it's more difficult in family because I understand it's not in his control, they were born this way so it's easier to forgive them. I know he's lonely too and wants to be taken care of but nobody likes him and he is a total anti-social. I feel bad for him, and because of my parents being psycho's I'm a super big nurturer, for some reason that's how children of pscho's turn out and now I'm confused because I probably wouldn't be nice and easy if it weren't for them. I dont' think I am who I was meant to be. Last Edited by By Owner Req on 11/08/2019 11:25 AM grass fed sardines |
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chasity (OP) User ID: 77360012 United States 11/08/2019 11:31 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I wasn't physically abused much either. I only remember 2 times I was hurt, this is pretty evil what they did to me some of you might enjoy hearing this happened to me too! lol It was a Saturday morning, they dragged me out of bed and took me down into the basement. They tied my hands and feet together and made me kneel in raw rice until the end of the day. They also kept hitting me with a stick. This was premeditated and planned how they were going to do this to me. The worst part was being scared and peeing all over myself because I didn't know what was happening and then when I got out of the rice, that hurt it was stuck inside my skin and I couldn't pick it out. Most of the time they just ignored me and I liked being independent but I didn't know I was being neglected at the time. grass fed sardines |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 78072502 Canada 11/08/2019 11:38 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | It wouldnt be rare because sometimes psychopaths attract psychopaths. My dister and her husband are both sociopaths. I feel so sorry for their children. Their children are neither sociopaths nor psychopaths. They just get depression because of bad parenting. It is so horribly sad. |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 41659005 United States 11/08/2019 12:15 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Pretty high, really. Psychopaths are anywhere from 5-10% of the population, and are often attracted to other psychopaths. Quoting: Deplorable Revbo™ One percent, actually. No, new statistics are indicting 15 to 20% percent of the population now. Some say up to 23% of the population are afflicted with psychopathology. This according to the AMA; The American Medical Association. |