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What's the easiest way to forget about toxic ex-girlfriend and move on?

 
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4 months ago I ended 5 years old relationship with my girlfriend. I didnt see that she was toxic, manipulative woman. I thought that it's normal that we are fighting every day, that I had to end friendships with females, that I can't drink beer during the workdays in the evening.. That I need to do everything she wants me to do or she will start crying.

Long story short I really loved this girl and I still love her but even with the knowledge that she was toxic and manipulative I still give us some chances in the future.

What can I do? What should I do? She writes to me with daily things every 3-4 days, sometimes she calls me on the phone.


This is fucked up.
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She most likely thought you were toxic as well.
Its hard to let go after a relationship that lasted that long - just give it time. She seems to be having a hard time letting go as well even though you both agree it was the right thing to do.
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Adopt 10 raccoons and call us in a year.
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4 months ago I ended 5 years old relationship with my girlfriend. I didnt see that she was toxic, manipulative woman. I thought that it's normal that we are fighting every day, that I had to end friendships with females, that I can't drink beer during the workdays in the evening.. That I need to do everything she wants me to do or she will start crying.

Long story short I really loved this girl and I still love her but even with the knowledge that she was toxic and manipulative I still give us some chances in the future.

What can I do? What should I do? She writes to me with daily things every 3-4 days, sometimes she calls me on the phone.


This is fucked up.
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She most likely thought you were toxic as well.

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This^


Interpersonal conflicts are always a two way street. Always just a result misunderstanding; ie, both sides not understanding the other person, and where they are coming from.


That is way being kind, compassionate, caring, understanding and open is crucial in all relationships.


Everyone will find this out eventually.
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11/28/2019 06:08 PM
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I would be compassionate to her, OP.


Be open and communicative with her. If you are kind, compassionate, and open with her... she will treat you the same hf
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Not really. I was the best boyfriend ever. Seriously. When she needed something I was there. I was changing my plans to help her. I was making many good suprises. Cooking. Giving presents.
I was best boyfriend she could get. She wasn't bad to be honest but she was manipulative and now I can see that. On purpose? Who knows. But when she wasn't agreeing with me she was starting to cry. Every fucking time.
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4 months ago I ended 5 years old relationship with my girlfriend. I didnt see that she was toxic, manipulative woman. I thought that it's normal that we are fighting every day, that I had to end friendships with females, that I can't drink beer during the workdays in the evening.. That I need to do everything she wants me to do or she will start crying.

Long story short I really loved this girl and I still love her but even with the knowledge that she was toxic and manipulative I still give us some chances in the future.

What can I do? What should I do? She writes to me with daily things every 3-4 days, sometimes she calls me on the phone.


This is fucked up.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 78208538



She most likely thought you were toxic as well.

 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 78151344


This^


Interpersonal conflicts are always a two way street. Always just a result misunderstanding; ie, both sides not understanding the other person, and where they are coming from.


That is way being kind, compassionate, caring, understanding and open is crucial in all relationships.


Everyone will find this out eventually.
 Quoting: Reilly 73855202


Empathic as well :) <3
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11/28/2019 06:16 PM
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You have to reach down deep inside yourself and realize she wasn't good for you and she is destroying WHO YOU ARE. It is hard, especially when she know how to make your big head shut down and let the little head do the talking. I was in a similar situation that you were not long ago, was very nice and agreeable at first so agreeable and then little by little she manipulates shit and tried to take control of every aspect of my life who I could see who I could be friends with etc. I packed all of her shit up in my house every single thing I could find threw it in a box and took it over to her mothers. Blocked her and she calls and leaves messages on my blocked calls every six months or so telling me how much she misses me. I keep them for evidence in case I need to obtain an R.O.
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Exactly this happened to me. Today I took off her photos from my wallet!!
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Good for you if you have anything of hers left return it to a family member, block her calls and move on with your life. Life is too short enjoy, find someone who loves you for WHO YOU ARE.
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Tell her you want to fist her butthole like you are stuffing a turkey. If she says OK she is the one.
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Yep.

Worked for Brief.
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It won't take much time...

Find Rhonda !


She is out there !
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It won't take much time...

Find Rhonda !


She is out there !
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I would be compassionate to her, OP.


Be open and communicative with her. If you are kind, compassionate, and open with her... she will treat you the same hf
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Not really. I was the best boyfriend ever. Seriously. When she needed something I was there. I was changing my plans to help her. I was making many good suprises. Cooking. Giving presents.
I was best boyfriend she could get. She wasn't bad to be honest but she was manipulative and now I can see that. On purpose? Who knows. But when she wasn't agreeing with me she was starting to cry. Every fucking time.
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Nice guys are boring ... don't be nice
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op watch some youtube videos about how women naturally play you... you will feel like a dumb ass after watching a few.
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I would be compassionate to her, OP.


Be open and communicative with her. If you are kind, compassionate, and open with her... she will treat you the same hf
 Quoting: Reilly 73855202


Not really. I was the best boyfriend ever. Seriously. When she needed something I was there. I was changing my plans to help her. I was making many good suprises. Cooking. Giving presents.
I was best boyfriend she could get. She wasn't bad to be honest but she was manipulative and now I can see that. On purpose? Who knows. But when she wasn't agreeing with me she was starting to cry. Every fucking time.
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Nice guys are boring ... don't be nice
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Don't want evil in your life, be nice.
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11/28/2019 07:55 PM
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For starters, stop flirting with other women at the bars like you just admitted to. She very well could have had past experience with other men who left her for Co workers.
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11/28/2019 08:12 PM
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Think the term breaking up is lost on you a bit.

End all communications. You decided that person is not the one for you. So be the man, be the asshole men we are supposed to be and break it off 100%.

I dated someone for 5 years and broke up. Had a job transfer and she still would try to contact me. Even flew to where I lived uninvited to try to celebrate my birthday. Had to tell her sorry she wasted that money, but I would not be around, I had moved on and she needed to as well.

Be the asshole, force her to move on. It's better for her, gives her a chance to find someone else that may be more suitable for her.

Break off 100%. Be the man.
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11/28/2019 08:42 PM
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Find yourself obsessing over her OP? Thoughts going round and round about what you should say to her or arguments you would like to make? Going over how badly she treated you and how much of a nice person you were and how bad she was?

STOP THAT SHIT!
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4 months ago I ended 5 years old relationship with my girlfriend. I didnt see that she was toxic, manipulative woman. I thought that it's normal that we are fighting every day, that I had to end friendships with females, that I can't drink beer during the workdays in the evening.. That I need to do everything she wants me to do or she will start crying.

Long story short I really loved this girl and I still love her but even with the knowledge that she was toxic and manipulative I still give us some chances in the future.

What can I do? What should I do? She writes to me with daily things every 3-4 days, sometimes she calls me on the phone.


This is fucked up.
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What is the easiest way to lie and project your fake news to try and destroy relationships on the World Wide Web?
Be like you and type like you.
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Your thread is TOXIC AND MANIPULATING
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11/28/2019 08:59 PM
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The best way to get over her is to get over a new girl
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11/28/2019 09:01 PM
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Find a new toxic girlfriend.
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11/28/2019 09:16 PM
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Switch teams and gobble lots of cock
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I would be compassionate to her, OP.


Be open and communicative with her. If you are kind, compassionate, and open with her... she will treat you the same hf
 Quoting: Reilly 73855202


Bullshit. That's just a recipe to get sucked back in. Quit that crazy bitch cold turkey. No more texts, no more talking on the phone. Find somebody better. Move on with your life.
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11/28/2019 09:41 PM
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I would be compassionate to her, OP.


Be open and communicative with her. If you are kind, compassionate, and open with her... she will treat you the same hf
 Quoting: Reilly 73855202


you must be twelve years old .
your mom is wrong .
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Find a new toxic girlfriend.
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Find a new toxic girlfriend.
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Problem is, most are.
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Most girls are evil, so just see hos.
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Most girls are evil, so just see hos.
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LOL yes they are
Anyone who challenges their control is deemed a sexist, a racist, a xenophobe and morally deformed , they will attack you they will slander you, they will seek to destroy your career and your family, they will seek to destroy everything about you ,including your reputation they will lie lie lie, they will do whatever is necessary!
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Most girls are evil, so just see hos.
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LOL yes they are
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taht
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Go spend the afternoon in your local courthouse’s divorce docket. Child support, restraining orders, nasty, perjury court. DODGE THE BULLET. Ask God to help you and mean it.
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Most girls are evil, so just see hos.
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LOL yes they are
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I am not "most girls" and I am not evil.
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Most girls are evil, so just see hos.
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LOL yes they are
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I am not "most girls" and I am not evil.
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Anyone who challenges their control is deemed a sexist, a racist, a xenophobe and morally deformed , they will attack you they will slander you, they will seek to destroy your career and your family, they will seek to destroy everything about you ,including your reputation they will lie lie lie, they will do whatever is necessary!
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Get some strange.
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