What's the easiest way to forget about toxic ex-girlfriend and move on? | |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 6542420 Canada 11/28/2019 05:26 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | 4 months ago I ended 5 years old relationship with my girlfriend. I didnt see that she was toxic, manipulative woman. I thought that it's normal that we are fighting every day, that I had to end friendships with females, that I can't drink beer during the workdays in the evening.. That I need to do everything she wants me to do or she will start crying. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 78208538 Long story short I really loved this girl and I still love her but even with the knowledge that she was toxic and manipulative I still give us some chances in the future. What can I do? What should I do? She writes to me with daily things every 3-4 days, sometimes she calls me on the phone. This is fucked up. Every time you think of her, make sure to mentally call her 'toxic' as opposed to her name, eventually that will make you see the light and move on...oh, and as the poster above said, get some strange, that helps too. |
Q33 User ID: 78187044 Canada 11/28/2019 05:26 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | 4 months ago I ended 5 years old relationship with my girlfriend. I didnt see that she was toxic, manipulative woman. I thought that it's normal that we are fighting every day, that I had to end friendships with females, that I can't drink beer during the workdays in the evening.. That I need to do everything she wants me to do or she will start crying. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 78208538 Long story short I really loved this girl and I still love her but even with the knowledge that she was toxic and manipulative I still give us some chances in the future. What can I do? What should I do? She writes to me with daily things every 3-4 days, sometimes she calls me on the phone. This is fucked up. Money n Music! |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 41464541 Finland 11/28/2019 05:30 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | You have to reprogram how you think and feel about her. When she enters your mind, think and feel this, ‘Ugghh! She is disgusting’. Really say it like you’re about vomit. You will soon stop pining for her and instead be glad she’s gone. |
JJ Johns J to the 3rd User ID: 78129343 Switzerland 11/28/2019 05:31 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | she's gone, and you're better for it, even if you don't realize it yet. stay strong op. and don't root through the garbage that you threw away. work on yourself for a while. your career, your mission in life, and things will work out for you . . No clotshot, NEVER! . Mad as hell! . |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 4977087 United States 11/28/2019 05:39 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | 4 months ago I ended 5 years old relationship with my girlfriend. I didnt see that she was toxic, manipulative woman. I thought that it's normal that we are fighting every day, that I had to end friendships with females, that I can't drink beer during the workdays in the evening.. That I need to do everything she wants me to do or she will start crying. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 78208538 Long story short I really loved this girl and I still love her but even with the knowledge that she was toxic and manipulative I still give us some chances in the future. What can I do? What should I do? She writes to me with daily things every 3-4 days, sometimes she calls me on the phone. This is fucked up. Buy a grenade from Amazon, and then pull the pin. |
Reilly User ID: 73855202 United States 11/28/2019 05:39 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | All I have to say to OP is to never engage in recreational sexual activities with anyone. It confuses both people in a relationship.... and leads them in all sorts of bad places. [link to www.godlikeproductions.com] |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 78175405 Canada 11/28/2019 05:40 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | she's gone, and you're better for it, even if you don't realize it yet. stay strong op. Quoting: JJ Johns and don't root through the garbage that you threw away. work on yourself for a while. your career, your mission in life, and things will work out for you This. Once they're been out of your life for a while, completely out of it, you'll realize just how quickly you can forget...and you'll probably do a lot of self-reflection and realize that you believed that's all you were worthy of. Now, you know better. She will try to get you back, weeks, months, and even years later. If you budge, the same ole cycle will repeat itself. It will never get better. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 4977087 United States 11/28/2019 05:41 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | 4 months ago I ended 5 years old relationship with my girlfriend. I didnt see that she was toxic, manipulative woman. I thought that it's normal that we are fighting every day, that I had to end friendships with females, that I can't drink beer during the workdays in the evening.. That I need to do everything she wants me to do or she will start crying. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 78208538 Long story short I really loved this girl and I still love her but even with the knowledge that she was toxic and manipulative I still give us some chances in the future. What can I do? What should I do? She writes to me with daily things every 3-4 days, sometimes she calls me on the phone. This is fucked up. Buy a grenade from Amazon, and then pull the pin. It only takes 5-10 seconds, depending on the model. |
Anonymous Coward (OP) User ID: 78208538 Poland 11/28/2019 05:43 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | she's gone, and you're better for it, even if you don't realize it yet. stay strong op. Quoting: JJ Johns and don't root through the garbage that you threw away. work on yourself for a while. your career, your mission in life, and things will work out for you This. Once they're been out of your life for a while, completely out of it, you'll realize just how quickly you can forget...and you'll probably do a lot of self-reflection and realize that you believed that's all you were worthy of. Now, you know better. She will try to get you back, weeks, months, and even years later. If you budge, the same ole cycle will repeat itself. It will never get better. That's actually good advice! |
redhed6971 User ID: 72089733 United States 11/28/2019 05:45 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | You have to reach down deep inside yourself and realize she wasn't good for you and she is destroying WHO YOU ARE. It is hard, especially when she know how to make your big head shut down and let the little head do the talking. I was in a similar situation that you were not long ago, was very nice and agreeable at first so agreeable and then little by little she manipulates shit and tried to take control of every aspect of my life who I could see who I could be friends with etc. I packed all of her shit up in my house every single thing I could find threw it in a box and took it over to her mothers. Blocked her and she calls and leaves messages on my blocked calls every six months or so telling me how much she misses me. I keep them for evidence in case I need to obtain an R.O. “Quite an experience to live in fear, isn't it? That's what it is to be a slave.” "Hello, I need a replacement filter for a Hoover Max Extract 60 Pressure Pro." “You actually slaughter each other over affairs of the spirit.” Da’an Earth-Final Conflict |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 69683587 United States 11/28/2019 05:51 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | All I have to say to OP is to never engage in recreational sexual activities with anyone. Quoting: Reilly 73855202 It confuses both people in a relationship.... and leads them in all sorts of bad places. [link to www.godlikeproductions.com] Relationships are for women only. |
Anonymous Coward (OP) User ID: 78208538 Poland 11/28/2019 05:54 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | You have to reach down deep inside yourself and realize she wasn't good for you and she is destroying WHO YOU ARE. It is hard, especially when she know how to make your big head shut down and let the little head do the talking. I was in a similar situation that you were not long ago, was very nice and agreeable at first so agreeable and then little by little she manipulates shit and tried to take control of every aspect of my life who I could see who I could be friends with etc. I packed all of her shit up in my house every single thing I could find threw it in a box and took it over to her mothers. Blocked her and she calls and leaves messages on my blocked calls every six months or so telling me how much she misses me. I keep them for evidence in case I need to obtain an R.O. Quoting: redhed6971 Exactly this happened to me. Today I took off her photos from my wallet!! |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 78194345 United States 11/28/2019 05:55 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Move. You have to be away from the ex and know you will not see her. You will start to look for someone new and realize that there is other places in this world with good looking woman. It's a pretty drastic step, but it will work. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 72222427 United Kingdom 11/28/2019 05:56 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | You have to reprogram how you think and feel about her. When she enters your mind, think and feel this, ‘Ugghh! She is disgusting’. Really say it like you’re about vomit. You will soon stop pining for her and instead be glad she’s gone. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 41464541 Good advice, if she's that disruptive in your life. Or she sees you as a life partner, thinks some of your friends a dicks that lead you astray and she feels your weak minded also she doe's not want the father of her child to be a drunk. BTW its not normal to drink in the nights during the week. Man up and make some life changes and get back with her or carry on as is and finish it for good. |
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