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| Anonymous Coward User ID: 78151344  United States11/28/2019 06:02 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | 4 months ago I ended 5 years old relationship with my girlfriend. I didnt see that she was toxic, manipulative woman. I thought that it's normal that we are fighting every day, that I had to end friendships with females, that I can't drink beer during the workdays in the evening.. That I need to do everything she wants me to do or she will start crying. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 78208538 Long story short I really loved this girl and I still love her but even with the knowledge that she was toxic and manipulative I still give us some chances in the future. What can I do? What should I do? She writes to me with daily things every 3-4 days, sometimes she calls me on the phone. This is fucked up. She most likely thought you were toxic as well. Its hard to let go after a relationship that lasted that long - just give it time. She seems to be having a hard time letting go as well even though you both agree it was the right thing to do. |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 77119396 United States11/28/2019 06:03 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
| Reilly User ID: 73855202 United States11/28/2019 06:05 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | 4 months ago I ended 5 years old relationship with my girlfriend. I didnt see that she was toxic, manipulative woman. I thought that it's normal that we are fighting every day, that I had to end friendships with females, that I can't drink beer during the workdays in the evening.. That I need to do everything she wants me to do or she will start crying. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 78208538 Long story short I really loved this girl and I still love her but even with the knowledge that she was toxic and manipulative I still give us some chances in the future. What can I do? What should I do? She writes to me with daily things every 3-4 days, sometimes she calls me on the phone. This is fucked up. She most likely thought you were toxic as well. This^ Interpersonal conflicts are always a two way street. Always just a result misunderstanding; ie, both sides not understanding the other person, and where they are coming from. That is way being kind, compassionate, caring, understanding and open is crucial in all relationships. Everyone will find this out eventually. |
| Anonymous Coward (OP) User ID: 78208538  Poland11/28/2019 06:08 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I would be compassionate to her, OP. Quoting: Reilly 73855202 Be open and communicative with her. If you are kind, compassionate, and open with her... she will treat you the same  Not really. I was the best boyfriend ever. Seriously. When she needed something I was there. I was changing my plans to help her. I was making many good suprises. Cooking. Giving presents. I was best boyfriend she could get. She wasn't bad to be honest but she was manipulative and now I can see that. On purpose? Who knows. But when she wasn't agreeing with me she was starting to cry. Every fucking time. |
| Reilly User ID: 73855202 United States11/28/2019 06:08 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | 4 months ago I ended 5 years old relationship with my girlfriend. I didnt see that she was toxic, manipulative woman. I thought that it's normal that we are fighting every day, that I had to end friendships with females, that I can't drink beer during the workdays in the evening.. That I need to do everything she wants me to do or she will start crying. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 78208538 Long story short I really loved this girl and I still love her but even with the knowledge that she was toxic and manipulative I still give us some chances in the future. What can I do? What should I do? She writes to me with daily things every 3-4 days, sometimes she calls me on the phone. This is fucked up. She most likely thought you were toxic as well. This^ Interpersonal conflicts are always a two way street. Always just a result misunderstanding; ie, both sides not understanding the other person, and where they are coming from. That is way being kind, compassionate, caring, understanding and open is crucial in all relationships. Everyone will find this out eventually. Empathic as well :) <3 |
redhed6971  User ID: 72089733 United States11/28/2019 06:16 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | You have to reach down deep inside yourself and realize she wasn't good for you and she is destroying WHO YOU ARE. It is hard, especially when she know how to make your big head shut down and let the little head do the talking. I was in a similar situation that you were not long ago, was very nice and agreeable at first so agreeable and then little by little she manipulates shit and tried to take control of every aspect of my life who I could see who I could be friends with etc. I packed all of her shit up in my house every single thing I could find threw it in a box and took it over to her mothers. Blocked her and she calls and leaves messages on my blocked calls every six months or so telling me how much she misses me. I keep them for evidence in case I need to obtain an R.O. Quoting: redhed6971 Exactly this happened to me. Today I took off her photos from my wallet!! Good for you if you have anything of hers left return it to a family member, block her calls and move on with your life. Life is too short enjoy, find someone who loves you for WHO YOU ARE. “Quite an experience to live in fear, isn't it? That's what it is to be a slave.” "Hello, I need a replacement filter for a Hoover Max Extract 60 Pressure Pro." “You actually slaughter each other over affairs of the spirit.” Da’an Earth-Final Conflict |
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| Anonymous Coward User ID: 76983469 United States11/28/2019 07:14 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I would be compassionate to her, OP. Quoting: Reilly 73855202 Be open and communicative with her. If you are kind, compassionate, and open with her... she will treat you the same Not really. I was the best boyfriend ever. Seriously. When she needed something I was there. I was changing my plans to help her. I was making many good suprises. Cooking. Giving presents. I was best boyfriend she could get. She wasn't bad to be honest but she was manipulative and now I can see that. On purpose? Who knows. But when she wasn't agreeing with me she was starting to cry. Every fucking time. Nice guys are boring ... don't be nice |
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| Anonymous Coward User ID: 69683587 United States11/28/2019 07:53 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I would be compassionate to her, OP. Quoting: Reilly 73855202 Be open and communicative with her. If you are kind, compassionate, and open with her... she will treat you the same Not really. I was the best boyfriend ever. Seriously. When she needed something I was there. I was changing my plans to help her. I was making many good suprises. Cooking. Giving presents. I was best boyfriend she could get. She wasn't bad to be honest but she was manipulative and now I can see that. On purpose? Who knows. But when she wasn't agreeing with me she was starting to cry. Every fucking time. Nice guys are boring ... don't be nice Don't want evil in your life, be nice. |
| John B User ID: 70637860 United States11/28/2019 07:55 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
| Strate8 User ID: 75247107 United States11/28/2019 08:12 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Think the term breaking up is lost on you a bit. End all communications. You decided that person is not the one for you. So be the man, be the asshole men we are supposed to be and break it off 100%. I dated someone for 5 years and broke up. Had a job transfer and she still would try to contact me. Even flew to where I lived uninvited to try to celebrate my birthday. Had to tell her sorry she wasted that money, but I would not be around, I had moved on and she needed to as well. Be the asshole, force her to move on. It's better for her, gives her a chance to find someone else that may be more suitable for her. Break off 100%. Be the man. trolls vs bots - we live in a scifi world |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 78208957 United States11/28/2019 08:42 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | STOP THAT SHIT! |
| <<< + <<< User ID: 49523136 United States11/28/2019 08:57 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | 4 months ago I ended 5 years old relationship with my girlfriend. I didnt see that she was toxic, manipulative woman. I thought that it's normal that we are fighting every day, that I had to end friendships with females, that I can't drink beer during the workdays in the evening.. That I need to do everything she wants me to do or she will start crying. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 78208538 Long story short I really loved this girl and I still love her but even with the knowledge that she was toxic and manipulative I still give us some chances in the future. What can I do? What should I do? She writes to me with daily things every 3-4 days, sometimes she calls me on the phone. This is fucked up. What is the easiest way to lie and project your fake news to try and destroy relationships on the World Wide Web? Be like you and type like you. Just Sayin Your thread is TOXIC AND MANIPULATING |
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| Anonymous Coward User ID: 78073861 Canada11/28/2019 09:40 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I would be compassionate to her, OP. Quoting: Reilly 73855202 Be open and communicative with her. If you are kind, compassionate, and open with her... she will treat you the same Bullshit. That's just a recipe to get sucked back in. Quit that crazy bitch cold turkey. No more texts, no more talking on the phone. Find somebody better. Move on with your life. |
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| Q33 User ID: 78187044 Canada11/28/2019 10:44 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | DO NOT BELIEVE ANYTHING YOU READ ON THIS WEBSITE! Last Edited by Coupes on 11/28/2019 10:56 PM |
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