What's the easiest way to forget about toxic ex-girlfriend and move on?

Time

Rebound bitch

Hobbies

Gym.


Those are the only things that helped me in the past but nothing with completely cure it except time.

I have been the toxic ex-girlfriend.

Block her number on your phone.
Unfriend her on social media.
Do not answer her emails.

If she shows up on your doorstep, tell her you will get a restraining order. Follow through if she does not leave you alone.

You are better off without the emotional blackmail. That's what it is - emotional blackmail. Even being alone is better than being her puppet. You can love someone else, someone better than her. Love yourself. Cut her off and live your life.

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Grow the fuck up.

COMMUNICATE with her like an adult and tell her honestly you want it to be over. Ask her not to text or call you, that there is no future together.

Make sure she understands this. CLEARLY. Give her closure because until then YOU are stringing her along.

You are a grown ass man, act like it.

I am intelligent enough to believe in what I deem factual.
There is so much that I do not believe in here.
But...

I believe, in YOU

And I LOVE YOU

I Love you too b!

Hmmmmmmmm..,.

You've clearly never been with a truly toxic person. Even if they are "kind, compassionate, and open," it's all fake and the switch can be flipped in a second.

The best solution is to get a new GF but keep fucking the ex on the side. Then you’ll see what a disgusting whore she really is.

It’s also the usual time when you give her Hot Carls and Cleveland Steamrollers. Ex girlfriends get treated like dirt so pull out of her ass and right into her mouth.

Nah. Usually it’s just a psycho chick.

It’s why I was perfectly legal to whip a woman with a stick until just a few years ago.

The best way to get over one is to get on top of another.

The best way to get over one chick is to get under another.

Ask Jesus to break your unGodly ties to this demon.

Buy a Guitar smoke some weed.

Change emails. Stop reading that one. Change phone numbers. Most carriers will do it for $20. Some free. There is no other way with toxic users, she will continue to attempt to keep you engaged until she physically cannot anymore, that part is up to you,

I speak from experience. She knows damn well what she is doing to you, There is no point trying to figure out what she is getting out of it. This is because Malignant Narcissists are not sane. There is no predicting crazy.

The best advice I can give is as follows, get the F off of Facebook, totally, Make all other social media private and block her. do not add anyone you don’t specifically know afterwards, OR , detox from social media altogether, you will be much happier , trust me. Make a new email address, distribute to friends that actually care for you. Ditto with mobile number. If she comes by your home, call the friggin cops and have her issued a trespass warning. If she violates that you have the beginnings of stalking charges.

This all sounds extreme, but trust me, you will not be happy as long as you allow a toxic manipulator to touch your life in ANY way,.

After all that, pursue some personal interests. Form instance, I learned to sail and got serious about getting fit, Things you have always wanted to do. You will bump into someone who shares your interests and it will be right, the best relationships are formed when you meet accidentally while engaged in something important to you. Exercise is fantastic therapy, especially when you have been beaten down for years,

It takes courage, strength, and deciding that you are actually a pretty good guy who is ok with being alone.

It can be done. You can do it, but the first step to your mental health has GOT to be removal of source of your psyches infection. You have to make a clean, permanent break. No exceptions.

I actually hate how much I know about this subject, but perhaps one reason I went through it was to be able to help you. Do us a favor tho... give us updates?

Yes it is. That’s what she’s doing by texting you again and again.

She knows how to manipulate you and she’ll use all her tricks to get you back.

Just imagine a LIFETIME of no friends except HER friends, no activities except ones SHE chooses...

...and eventually NO SEX so she can really torture you.

OP, you said yourself that she was toxic, and that is NOT GOOD in a relationship. Do not believe she “will change” if you take her back (she won’t).


RUN AWAY from that mess and STAY AWAY!

Someday- hopefully soon - it won’t hurt so much and you’ll realize the pain you were spared.

That just makes you forget about them for a few. After that, you're right back where you started, and you'll probably feel even worse.

Date her younger sister.

my uncle says to get a new toxic girlfriend . you will forget the old one real fast just as shoon as she tells you to!

shit music!

Helps when you realize the thing you love never really existed.

If I tell you the actual way, it will inadvertently off her.

If you stay in this it will shorten your life and make your future relationships bad.

Last Edited by Xeven on 12/02/2019 06:08 PM

Bail. I had a beautiful girlfriend with huge tits but she was a nightmare to deal with. Put up with it for over a year because I was getting laid, then realized it wasn't worth it anymore. She was a crazy bitch!

every time she contacts you tell her a sob story of how you lost your job, your bank account, your money, your personal belongings, how you can't make rent, how you need to find a second job ... basically toxic self centered people contact you because you've allowed yourself to be their audience and they need an audience so they feel important and can get something ... make it about you and make it about you having nothing to offer. Toxic girls will blow you off, nothing in it for them, nice girls will try to help.

find a nice girl.

Fuck her friends and sisters!

Get some chickens.