I actually feel bad for hating my sister all these years for going along with my mom. She was just trying to please her like how I was trying to please my dad. But she had both to please, at least I only had my dad, half the load and I wasn't financially dependent on either of them she was. I feel bad for making fun of her for being overweight and having a stroke before she turned 50. She was the favorite and got the worst of it. She finally cut my dad out but she still is hanging onto my mom, she's really hard to shake loose. And of course my mom and dad saw nothing wrong with my sister and I not having a relationship. This is what my mom wanted, no relationships for me, then she went to work on breaking my sisters life into pieces.