OP - I do believe that it is now impossible to hold together a family in any meaningful way.

There are too many ways for decent people to become trash very quickly, people that should know better, were raised better, embrace trash lifestyle and trash anti-ideology.

You be the best YOU can be and don't be trash and keep the rest at the end of a very long pole.

It's lonely...everyone is trash...but better to be lonely than a pig rolling around in the mud with the rest of them.