well just thought I was going to bed but you pulled me back in
which meaning of argue?

argue
[ˈärɡyo͞o]

VERB
argues (third person present) · argued (past tense) · argued (past participle) · arguing (present participle)
1 give reasons or cite evidence in support of an idea, action, or theory, typically with the aim of persuading others to share one's view.
"“It stands to reason,” she argued" · "defense attorneys argue that the police lacked “probable cause” to arrest the driver"
synonyms:
contend · assert · declare · maintain · state · proclaim · advance · insist · hold · claim · aver · avow · reason · attest · expostulate · testify · swear · certify · propound · submit · posit · postulate · adduce · move · advocate · opine · allege · make a case for · give reasons for · defend · explain · vindicate · justify · depose · represent · asseverate

2 (argue someone into/out of)
persuade someone to do or not to do (something) by giving reasons.
"I tried to argue him out of it"
synonyms:
persuade to · convince to · prevail on to · coax into · talk someone round · dissuade from · persuade against · talk out of

3 exchange or express diverging or opposite views, typically in a heated or angry way.
"I wasn't going to argue with a gun" · "she was too tired to argue the point" · "don't argue with me"
synonyms:
quarrel · disagree · row · squabble · bicker · fight · wrangle · dispute · feud · have a row · bandy words · have words · cross swords · lock horns · be at each other's throats · dissent · clash · differ · be at odds · fall out · scrap · argy-bargy · argufy · spat · go at it hammer and tongs · fight like cat and dog · altercate

the first meaning I will own will you?
the 2nd and 3rd NO if you meant 2 or 3 that's just slander