If that weren’t the case then you’d see women creaming themselves over fat dudes and scrawny nerds.
Every man who lifts does it to either become more attractive to girls, or to stay attractive for his partner. Women don’t have to do this because even obese women can easily find a partner. And she can easily find a partner who isn’t either fat as her or is a twig.
Only incels lift for reasons solely other than for girls, because they know it’s over.
Any normie who tells you to not go to the gym for girls is full of shit.