I told Jesus to have my wife ask me to marry her. Well the girl who I met told me to marry her, and demanded it, and said she wanted me to, but never asked. She turned out to be.. very problematic.

The next woman in my life I heard Jesus ask me, Are you sure you want to be with ____? A day later when I said yes he set us up. Since he divorced us I gained this perspective, that he was asking me because it was not his perfect will, but that he could make it happen.

With the first girl I learned more with her in my life and with the second I learned more after.

Trust Jesus no matter what you go through and don't be afraid to learn, only afraid to displease the Lord.