No, not enabling- we’re just at our wits end with her. She has a job and contributes to the household what she can, she just doesn’t make very much to begin with. She also messed up and had a baby too young. What would you do if this were your child, throw them out on their ear with your grandchild in tow? We’re helping her the best way we know, by offering her a place to stay so at least there’s not the added stress of worrying about them living under a bridge somewhere.
Her Starbucks, and the idiot’s behind her was paid for using a gift card that she got for Christmas btw.