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ayr phorce yuan

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Just finalized a 19 year marriage, so I get it.

Think you’re gutted now, wait til you see the prospects that lie ahead.

Depressing. So I will remain single forever it looks like.
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Come and see me in England
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No way. Too many Muslims there. But you can come to the USA.
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Oh you wouldn't like Dubai then.

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What?

I am not being cocky here, nor trying to derail a thread.

I feel a strong sense of deja vu over this. I am wondering if I'm the only one? I am very confident it was posted before, like a year or so ago. Crazy.

It's been years since I last had a deja vu experience.

I'll leave it at that.
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And I'm not just talking about the OP.

I'm speaking of all posts here---at least the first, second, and last two pages. I skipped everything in between. It seemed way too familiar. But I'm also surprised this thread has carried on as long as it has here at GLP.

That is strange too.
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Maybe because the majority of Men go through this shit in their life. My EX cheated on Me and I'm still stuck with the cunt and She acts like nothing happened. She walked in and tried to talk to Me and I told Her that friend She used to have is dead so go talk to someone whom has value. Now She is going ballistic but guess what She is dead to Me and I'm going to ignore Her till I get enough money to move the fuck out. I'll also cut off all contact with Her and just go on with My life as if I never met the cunt and that has Her up in arms.
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I don't believe that explains the issue I'm having over this thread but I understand where you're coming from. That's the same conclusion I'd come to if I were you and had read my post. I'd say the same thing.

Sorry to hear about your shitty situation. I feel ya. Sucks to be in that predicament. Learn from your mistakes is what I tell myself. Some women are cruel and don't deserve good men. Better to be single than be with an ungrateful mess of a woman who is living for her happiness only. At the same time, I'm sure there is something you can improve. Take a look at yourself. And good luck.
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I'm down about 30 pounds and I'm dieting and walking for exercise as much as I can. Yeah I still cry daily because the only thing I cared about was My family and I lost that. I'll get over it but the financial damages are going to take Me at least 5 years of hard work to fix so I don't think I'll be able to date for a long time. Her cheating has really destroyed My life and I don't know if I could ever trust another woman because if I do it again I'll never be able to retire because I'm 46. Right now I don't even think I'll be able to retire with a home and this is coming from a man that's made 70k to 130k for over 22 years. The last 16.5 years have been a fucking disaster because I worked and She spent every penny and that's why She fell out of love because I bitched about Her blowing all the money and when I finally came home I had to live like a pauper which I thought was unfair but She is so selfish She couldn't see it.
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Come and see me in England
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No way. Too many Muslims there. But you can come to the USA.
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I’m sorry to read that you and the wife split. It is never easy but if you have any kind of morals, can think for yourself, and you aren’t out for yourself at the cost of others, you will feel like a square peg in a round hole.

Good luck, sincerely.

Too bad we really didn’t know each other. I could use a real pal.
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Wait, are you the home wrecker?

haha. just kidding.
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Hey, yeah. *Heads up!!!

Maybe the wife didn’t leave ‘Many Zero’s’ at all, maybe ‘this’ is going on & this little ‘Poor me’ thread is really simply a social conditioning exercise & a psychological justification ruse to create acceptance & fortify this outrageous relationship.

Ohio Chic, what do you have to say for yourself.......
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im quite certain there isnt anyone else.. i fucking hope not anyway
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Don't kid yourself, there's always someone else. people are feeding animals, they don't throw away one meal unless they think there'e a better meal. very few women will leave a man for nobody.
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Not true, I am ‘not’ a ‘nobody’.
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I did. Absolutely I did. And even after everyone said for me to go out and start finding the next victim, because we were split up for a long time before I finally filed the divorce, I could not date or even think about it until it was final.

Tbh...I still have not went on a date.
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If Your ready to date then get out there and meet people. I wish I was ready but that's going to take a long time to pull myself out of this hole I'm in. I really wanted one more child before I hit 50 but I think that window is quickly closing and that really makes Me sad to think about.
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Get a good baby sitter so you can spend time together on the weekends. And go with her to the in laws. Y’all need to sit down and talk about what both of you need. Baby sitter ASAP.
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Yep, cut the in-laws out.
See if the little pumpkin improves.

Or change job shifts so one parent can be with the children at all times.
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I have a friend who is with the children during the day and works part time in the evening when the husband is at home. Parents should do what they can to raise the children. Then they know the children aren’t being abused.
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NPD ringing. again. gaslighting... and other stuff. I hear that bell clearly now.
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What?

I am not being cocky here, nor trying to derail a thread.

I feel a strong sense of deja vu over this. I am wondering if I'm the only one? I am very confident it was posted before, like a year or so ago. Crazy.

It's been years since I last had a deja vu experience.

I'll leave it at that.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 78098821


And I'm not just talking about the OP.

I'm speaking of all posts here---at least the first, second, and last two pages. I skipped everything in between. It seemed way too familiar. But I'm also surprised this thread has carried on as long as it has here at GLP.

That is strange too.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 78098821


Maybe because the majority of Men go through this shit in their life. My EX cheated on Me and I'm still stuck with the cunt and She acts like nothing happened. She walked in and tried to talk to Me and I told Her that friend She used to have is dead so go talk to someone whom has value. Now She is going ballistic but guess what She is dead to Me and I'm going to ignore Her till I get enough money to move the fuck out. I'll also cut off all contact with Her and just go on with My life as if I never met the cunt and that has Her up in arms.
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Doesn’t look like there is any cheating going on with OP and his wife. Just two exhausted people who need time with other.
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What?

I am not being cocky here, nor trying to derail a thread.

I feel a strong sense of deja vu over this. I am wondering if I'm the only one? I am very confident it was posted before, like a year or so ago. Crazy.

It's been years since I last had a deja vu experience.

I'll leave it at that.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 78098821


And I'm not just talking about the OP.

I'm speaking of all posts here---at least the first, second, and last two pages. I skipped everything in between. It seemed way too familiar. But I'm also surprised this thread has carried on as long as it has here at GLP.

That is strange too.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 78098821


Maybe because the majority of Men go through this shit in their life. My EX cheated on Me and I'm still stuck with the cunt and She acts like nothing happened. She walked in and tried to talk to Me and I told Her that friend She used to have is dead so go talk to someone whom has value. Now She is going ballistic but guess what She is dead to Me and I'm going to ignore Her till I get enough money to move the fuck out. I'll also cut off all contact with Her and just go on with My life as if I never met the cunt and that has Her up in arms.
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Doesn’t look like there is any cheating going on with OP and his wife. Just two exhausted people who need time with other.
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That's how it starts believe Me. The woman is unhappy then She goes outside of the relationship to find happiness instead of trying to work on the relationship. I spent a lot of time talking to My EX and She said I was very good in bed and I was very affectionate but She still went looking for other cock. The reason She did it was because I criticized Her about the house and how She spent money. She was a hoarder so the house was an embarrassment and She would blow all the money and when the slow season started I'd be broke and I couldn't enjoy the money that I made during the busy season. Hell I enjoy going out and taking the family out for dinner but I couldn't do that so I bitched and She went looking for someone else. The fucked up thing is She got fat, lazy, and She blew money like crazy and She thinks another man is going to put up with Her bullshit because in Her mind She can do no wrong. I'm done with Her and I'm giving Her what She wants me out of Her life and She is angry but I don't give a fuck because 17 years of My life has been completely wasted and I can no longer get those years back.
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im quite certain there isnt anyone else.. i fucking hope not anyway
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Don't kid yourself, there's always someone else. people are feeding animals, they don't throw away one meal unless they think there'e a better meal. very few women will leave a man for nobody.
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Not true, I am ‘not’ a ‘nobody’.
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I did. Absolutely I did. And even after everyone said for me to go out and start finding the next victim, because we were split up for a long time before I finally filed the divorce, I could not date or even think about it until it was final.

Tbh...I still have not went on a date.
 Quoting: Ohio chic


Well good on you OC.

It will pay you dividends, I know you said you still haven’t found a ‘buddy’ but you are primed & ready, imagine the setback if you had ventured into something too soon..............years down the road you are starting again, still young enough & clearly pretty enough to give it, or them, a good crack of the whip.

Well played, well played indeed.
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Get a good baby sitter so you can spend time together on the weekends. And go with her to the in laws. Y’all need to sit down and talk about what both of you need. Baby sitter ASAP.
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Yep, cut the in-laws out.
See if the little pumpkin improves.

Or change job shifts so one parent can be with the children at all times.
 Quoting: MissCleo


I have a friend who is with the children during the day and works part time in the evening when the husband is at home. Parents should do what they can to raise the children. Then they know the children aren’t being abused.
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Yep. I did that too, split shifts. Was great, gave me free time so I didn't have to see the husband all the time too.

And I found babysitters I could trust. But rarely left my daughter with a babysitter, she was with me all the time.

Kids can't verbalize until around 12. (most men until around 50, haha). So we have to look for signs that something is wrong. Night terrors is a definite. Don't ignore the kid or think they are displaying "bad" behavior. Something is wrong. Be the adult and figure it the fuck out.
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What?

I am not being cocky here, nor trying to derail a thread.

I feel a strong sense of deja vu over this. I am wondering if I'm the only one? I am very confident it was posted before, like a year or so ago. Crazy.

It's been years since I last had a deja vu experience.

I'll leave it at that.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 78098821


And I'm not just talking about the OP.

I'm speaking of all posts here---at least the first, second, and last two pages. I skipped everything in between. It seemed way too familiar. But I'm also surprised this thread has carried on as long as it has here at GLP.

That is strange too.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 78098821


Maybe because the majority of Men go through this shit in their life. My EX cheated on Me and I'm still stuck with the cunt and She acts like nothing happened. She walked in and tried to talk to Me and I told Her that friend She used to have is dead so go talk to someone whom has value. Now She is going ballistic but guess what She is dead to Me and I'm going to ignore Her till I get enough money to move the fuck out. I'll also cut off all contact with Her and just go on with My life as if I never met the cunt and that has Her up in arms.
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Doesn’t look like there is any cheating going on with OP and his wife. Just two exhausted people who need time with other.
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Well, to be honest I’m not surprised, between the career, then his passion for the charity work building schools for orphaned children in Africa & his time here at GLP its a wonder he has time to eat, let alone placate a wife.
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And I'm not just talking about the OP.

I'm speaking of all posts here---at least the first, second, and last two pages. I skipped everything in between. It seemed way too familiar. But I'm also surprised this thread has carried on as long as it has here at GLP.

That is strange too.
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Maybe because the majority of Men go through this shit in their life. My EX cheated on Me and I'm still stuck with the cunt and She acts like nothing happened. She walked in and tried to talk to Me and I told Her that friend She used to have is dead so go talk to someone whom has value. Now She is going ballistic but guess what She is dead to Me and I'm going to ignore Her till I get enough money to move the fuck out. I'll also cut off all contact with Her and just go on with My life as if I never met the cunt and that has Her up in arms.
 Quoting: jkm1864


Doesn’t look like there is any cheating going on with OP and his wife. Just two exhausted people who need time with other.
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Well, to be honest I’m not surprised, between the career, then his passion for the charity work building schools for orphaned children in Africa & his time here at GLP its a wonder he has time to eat, let alone placate a wife.
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Hahahahahaha does any man have time to do that? I'd turn in 220 hour time sheets for two weeks and that still wasn't enough for the old bag. Hell even when I was off I'd have dinner waiting for Her and that still wasn't enough. I can see the mistakes I made for sure but She still think nothing is Her fault so how on earth can You reason with someone like that? I say let the next asshole have Her and when He dumps Her I hope Her heart is fully vested so it gets broken over and over then She might feel a little bit of the pain I went through.
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Maybe because the majority of Men go through this shit in their life. My EX cheated on Me and I'm still stuck with the cunt and She acts like nothing happened. She walked in and tried to talk to Me and I told Her that friend She used to have is dead so go talk to someone whom has value. Now She is going ballistic but guess what She is dead to Me and I'm going to ignore Her till I get enough money to move the fuck out. I'll also cut off all contact with Her and just go on with My life as if I never met the cunt and that has Her up in arms.
 Quoting: jkm1864


Doesn’t look like there is any cheating going on with OP and his wife. Just two exhausted people who need time with other.
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Well, to be honest I’m not surprised, between the career, then his passion for the charity work building schools for orphaned children in Africa & his time here at GLP its a wonder he has time to eat, let alone placate a wife.
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Hahahahahaha does any man have time to do that? I'd turn in 220 hour time sheets for two weeks and that still wasn't enough for the old bag. Hell even when I was off I'd have dinner waiting for Her and that still wasn't enough. I can see the mistakes I made for sure but She still think nothing is Her fault so how on earth can You reason with someone like that? I say let the next asshole have Her and when He dumps Her I hope Her heart is fully vested so it gets broken over and over then She might feel a little bit of the pain I went through.
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I hear you matey but................. LOOK AT YOUR SIG..........lol.
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Doesn’t look like there is any cheating going on with OP and his wife. Just two exhausted people who need time with other.
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Well, to be honest I’m not surprised, between the career, then his passion for the charity work building schools for orphaned children in Africa & his time here at GLP its a wonder he has time to eat, let alone placate a wife.
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Hahahahahaha does any man have time to do that? I'd turn in 220 hour time sheets for two weeks and that still wasn't enough for the old bag. Hell even when I was off I'd have dinner waiting for Her and that still wasn't enough. I can see the mistakes I made for sure but She still think nothing is Her fault so how on earth can You reason with someone like that? I say let the next asshole have Her and when He dumps Her I hope Her heart is fully vested so it gets broken over and over then She might feel a little bit of the pain I went through.
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dtlol

I hear you matey but................. LOOK AT YOUR SIG..........lol.
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Hahahahaha I forgot about that. I'm really a perfect gentleman until I'm really with someone then behind closed doors I'm a freak. I really do respect women and I firmly believe they all want to be treated like ladies so I do that because a lot of men don't show that respect. I'm sorry but I was raised by a single mother and well lets just say She taught Me well.
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Well, to be honest I’m not surprised, between the career, then his passion for the charity work building schools for orphaned children in Africa & his time here at GLP its a wonder he has time to eat, let alone placate a wife.
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Hahahahahaha does any man have time to do that? I'd turn in 220 hour time sheets for two weeks and that still wasn't enough for the old bag. Hell even when I was off I'd have dinner waiting for Her and that still wasn't enough. I can see the mistakes I made for sure but She still think nothing is Her fault so how on earth can You reason with someone like that? I say let the next asshole have Her and when He dumps Her I hope Her heart is fully vested so it gets broken over and over then She might feel a little bit of the pain I went through.
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dtlol

I hear you matey but................. LOOK AT YOUR SIG..........lol.
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Hahahahaha I forgot about that. I'm really a perfect gentleman until I'm really with someone then behind closed doors I'm a freak. I really do respect women and I firmly believe they all want to be treated like ladies so I do that because a lot of men don't show that respect. I'm sorry but I was raised by a single mother and well lets just say She taught Me well.
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Yeah, I get that, it’s clear in your historic posting, that’s why it made me chuckle.

And I don’t wish to be flippant whatsoever in relation to what you went through, it’s absolutely brutal.

Many people suffer that absolute ‘contact cut & you no longer exist as a human entity’ & it becomes clear that the situation that is tearing you apart emotionally is now simply a financial transaction to resolve, and that is an incredible agony.

The ‘shock’ that the person you felt you knew so well can behave in suc a callous calculated way is inconceivable.
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Maybe the wife took off with the robber. ; )

yesterday a robber came to your house, today wife leaves you

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go see a Gipsy Fortune teller where u're wrong
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Maybe because the majority of Men go through this shit in their life. My EX cheated on Me and I'm still stuck with the cunt and She acts like nothing happened. She walked in and tried to talk to Me and I told Her that friend She used to have is dead so go talk to someone whom has value. Now She is going ballistic but guess what She is dead to Me and I'm going to ignore Her till I get enough money to move the fuck out. I'll also cut off all contact with Her and just go on with My life as if I never met the cunt and that has Her up in arms.
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Doesn’t look like there is any cheating going on with OP and his wife. Just two exhausted people who need time with other.
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Well, to be honest I’m not surprised, between the career, then his passion for the charity work building schools for orphaned children in Africa & his time here at GLP its a wonder he has time to eat, let alone placate a wife.
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Hahahahahaha does any man have time to do that? I'd turn in 220 hour time sheets for two weeks and that still wasn't enough for the old bag. Hell even when I was off I'd have dinner waiting for Her and that still wasn't enough. I can see the mistakes I made for sure but She still think nothing is Her fault so how on earth can You reason with someone like that? I say let the next asshole have Her and when He dumps Her I hope Her heart is fully vested so it gets broken over and over then She might feel a little bit of the pain I went through.
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You sound like a mechanic. Fellow wrench bender?
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Hahahahahaha does any man have time to do that? I'd turn in 220 hour time sheets for two weeks and that still wasn't enough for the old bag. Hell even when I was off I'd have dinner waiting for Her and that still wasn't enough. I can see the mistakes I made for sure but She still think nothing is Her fault so how on earth can You reason with someone like that? I say let the next asshole have Her and when He dumps Her I hope Her heart is fully vested so it gets broken over and over then She might feel a little bit of the pain I went through.
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dtlol

I hear you matey but................. LOOK AT YOUR SIG..........lol.
 Quoting: ayr phorce yuan


Hahahahaha I forgot about that. I'm really a perfect gentleman until I'm really with someone then behind closed doors I'm a freak. I really do respect women and I firmly believe they all want to be treated like ladies so I do that because a lot of men don't show that respect. I'm sorry but I was raised by a single mother and well lets just say She taught Me well.
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Yeah, I get that, it’s clear in your historic posting, that’s why it made me chuckle.

And I don’t wish to be flippant whatsoever in relation to what you went through, it’s absolutely brutal.

Many people suffer that absolute ‘contact cut & you no longer exist as a human entity’ & it becomes clear that the situation that is tearing you apart emotionally is now simply a financial transaction to resolve, and that is an incredible agony.

The ‘shock’ that the person you felt you knew so well can behave in suc a callous calculated way is inconceivable.
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No She didn't do a lot of it I actually went to the emergency room twice. Once I went because I was hiccupping for 3 days straight and couldn't take it anymore and the other time I blacked out while driving through Houston and totaled My car. The whole time I was going through hell I had scammers scamming Me the whole time so with all that I'm 120k in the hole. None of this would of happened if She wouldn't have cheated because I was faithful to the point I wouldn't even talk to women much less have them as friends but She didn't have the same respect for Me. The whole thing has destroyed Me and My self esteem is utterly destroyed which is going to take many years to fix so I won't be dating for a real long time. Honestly though I think Men are disposable in the west and I don't know if I can trust giving My heart to another woman because when I do My love doesn't have an expiration date which can't be said for the majority of women in the west.
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I'm having a low ebb day today, I really miss my kids, I was thinking about the times we spent together, before the kids, just us two, really nice times, and to turn to this, I can be fixed, I'm not going to beg, but I will do something grandiose.
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hahahah. stop talking about your pecker being grandiose. heh.

just apologize. listen to her rip you apart. apologize again. go to therapy and tell her your progress.
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I did, I sent her a text earlier, long ass one, poured my heart out.


Shes my princess, and I forgot that.
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WoW OP! You are making great strides!! Good for you!!

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Doesn’t look like there is any cheating going on with OP and his wife. Just two exhausted people who need time with other.
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Well, to be honest I’m not surprised, between the career, then his passion for the charity work building schools for orphaned children in Africa & his time here at GLP its a wonder he has time to eat, let alone placate a wife.
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Hahahahahaha does any man have time to do that? I'd turn in 220 hour time sheets for two weeks and that still wasn't enough for the old bag. Hell even when I was off I'd have dinner waiting for Her and that still wasn't enough. I can see the mistakes I made for sure but She still think nothing is Her fault so how on earth can You reason with someone like that? I say let the next asshole have Her and when He dumps Her I hope Her heart is fully vested so it gets broken over and over then She might feel a little bit of the pain I went through.
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You sound like a mechanic. Fellow wrench bender?
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No I work in the offshore oilfield as a hydrographic surveyor. I'd love to do something different though because I'm tired of spending My life on the water. The one thing Me and the EX argue about is how My life was utterly wasted while She went on a shopping spree because even after the day is over I'm still at the work site. She didn't respect My life that I sacrificed because She gets to come home every night and can't fathom someone trading their life for cash because in Her mind cash is just paper where as to me its life force.
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I hear you matey but................. LOOK AT YOUR SIG..........lol.
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Hahahahaha I forgot about that. I'm really a perfect gentleman until I'm really with someone then behind closed doors I'm a freak. I really do respect women and I firmly believe they all want to be treated like ladies so I do that because a lot of men don't show that respect. I'm sorry but I was raised by a single mother and well lets just say She taught Me well.
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Yeah, I get that, it’s clear in your historic posting, that’s why it made me chuckle.

And I don’t wish to be flippant whatsoever in relation to what you went through, it’s absolutely brutal.

Many people suffer that absolute ‘contact cut & you no longer exist as a human entity’ & it becomes clear that the situation that is tearing you apart emotionally is now simply a financial transaction to resolve, and that is an incredible agony.

The ‘shock’ that the person you felt you knew so well can behave in suc a callous calculated way is inconceivable.
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No She didn't do a lot of it I actually went to the emergency room twice. Once I went because I was hiccupping for 3 days straight and couldn't take it anymore and the other time I blacked out while driving through Houston and totaled My car. The whole time I was going through hell I had scammers scamming Me the whole time so with all that I'm 120k in the hole. None of this would of happened if She wouldn't have cheated because I was faithful to the point I wouldn't even talk to women much less have them as friends but She didn't have the same respect for Me. The whole thing has destroyed Me and My self esteem is utterly destroyed which is going to take many years to fix so I won't be dating for a real long time. Honestly though I think Men are disposable in the west and I don't know if I can trust giving My heart to another woman because when I do My love doesn't have an expiration date which can't be said for the majority of women in the west.
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Hahahahahaha does any man have time to do that? I'd turn in 220 hour time sheets for two weeks and that still wasn't enough for the old bag. Hell even when I was off I'd have dinner waiting for Her and that still wasn't enough. I can see the mistakes I made for sure but She still think nothing is Her fault so how on earth can You reason with someone like that? I say let the next asshole have Her and when He dumps Her I hope Her heart is fully vested so it gets broken over and over then She might feel a little bit of the pain I went through.
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dtlol

I hear you matey but................. LOOK AT YOUR SIG..........lol.
 Quoting: ayr phorce yuan


Hahahahaha I forgot about that. I'm really a perfect gentleman until I'm really with someone then behind closed doors I'm a freak. I really do respect women and I firmly believe they all want to be treated like ladies so I do that because a lot of men don't show that respect. I'm sorry but I was raised by a single mother and well lets just say She taught Me well.
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Yeah, I get that, it’s clear in your historic posting, that’s why it made me chuckle.

And I don’t wish to be flippant whatsoever in relation to what you went through, it’s absolutely brutal.

Many people suffer that absolute ‘contact cut & you no longer exist as a human entity’ & it becomes clear that the situation that is tearing you apart emotionally is now simply a financial transaction to resolve, and that is an incredible agony.

The ‘shock’ that the person you felt you knew so well can behave in suc a callous calculated way is inconceivable.
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No what's hard is having a home where You are accepted and then having nothing which hurts so much. I'm sorry but women do really make the home and without a woman the house is just a building. I hate it now because when I finally get free from Her I'll work those long hitches and come home to an empty apartment which really sucks.
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I love her


I'm going to fight for her
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Go for it my man, I wish I had never given up on one I loved.

Best of luck.

If you read and would like something to maybe digest your scenario/options, I could recommend a book or two.

But as always, keep calm and carry on.

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Maybe the wife took off with the robber. ; )

yesterday a robber came to your house, today wife leaves you

ffs

go see a Gipsy Fortune teller where u're wrong
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Hey, there could be a movie in this.

The cook, the thief, his wife & her lover.......... oh wait, already done. Damn. Maybe ‘Many Zero’s’ wrote it, let me see.......In the meantime......

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sorry for your loss, but damnnnnn she is good lay and takes an ass pounding like a pro
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Hey Ladies, just wondering if NZreva still treads these boards? If so I guess you would know.
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Well I fucked that post up, that was hard to do on an android
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you're fine. I hear you.
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I hear you too, OP. Thanks for sharing.
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At least you're not dead. As long as you're alive, life goes on in the meantime.
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See... a woman usually pulls the weight in a marriage. And a man doesn't bring 100%. happens with age.

So she doesn't need you. Unless you are 100% a person and giving that to the relationship.

Truth shouldn't offend anyone. Be honest with her.
 Quoting: MissCleo


You see this is score right here

Two young kids 3 and 6, both who do not listen, fight all the time, and scream constantly, and the 3 year old sleepwalks, and and sleeps screams... All fucking night.

We both work full time.

The in-laws provide baby sitting mon-fri for the school runs, and the mum picks them up.


So we don't get much time in the evenings together, and weekends we are shattered from work, but no one is willing to care for the kids so we can spend time together.

I donthe majority of the house work, she just preps the kids for school, uniforms etc, and mainly handles the 3 yearold for bed time, but all cleaning, cooking, getting up early at the weekends, thats me.


Normally in the evenings when the kids are down, she will chill on the sofa reading, and I will potter about the kitchen.


We don't argue, we do bitch and get stressed, bit that's life.


And I don't show her much affection as I could of done, and I dont interact much with her family, which she said other members of her family aren't too pleased about.


Then all this shit


I have been saying I feel neglected in the relationship, feel like a little bitch sometimes, but that's not to say I don't pop off, and handle it.

Like now, I miss her, I miss the kids, but that shit needs to stop, all of it, and that's a job and half.



Make the most of this, as this is getting personal, I dont normally open up like this.
 Quoting: 0000001


See... a woman usually pulls the weight in a marriage. And a man doesn't bring 100%. happens with age.

So she doesn't need you. Unless you are 100% a person and giving that to the relationship.

Truth shouldn't offend anyone. Be honest with her.
 Quoting: MissCleo


You see this is score right here

Two young kids 3 and 6, both who do not listen, fight all the time, and scream constantly, and the 3 year old sleepwalks, and and sleeps screams... All fucking night.

We both work full time.

The in-laws provide baby sitting mon-fri for the school runs, and the mum picks them up.


So we don't get much time in the evenings together, and weekends we are shattered from work, but no one is willing to care for the kids so we can spend time together.

I donthe majority of the house work, she just preps the kids for school, uniforms etc, and mainly handles the 3 yearold for bed time, but all cleaning, cooking, getting up early at the weekends, thats me.


Normally in the evenings when the kids are down, she will chill on the sofa reading, and I will potter about the kitchen.


We don't argue, we do bitch and get stressed, bit that's life.


And I don't show her much affection as I could of done, and I dont interact much with her family, which she said other members of her family aren't too pleased about.


Then all this shit


I have been saying I feel neglected in the relationship, feel like a little bitch sometimes, but that's not to say I don't pop off, and handle it.

Like now, I miss her, I miss the kids, but that shit needs to stop, all of it, and that's a job and half.



Make the most of this, as this is getting personal, I dont normally open up like this.
 Quoting: 0000001

Hey mate,

Here's the solution. Not sure if it's too late to implement yet or not. You and your wife both resent your kids. You might not admit it, and sure, the little fuckers are cute. But you're way better off EATING the bastards than raising them thinking they don't know you resent them.

Because they do. And they'll hate you when they become adults, because FUCK, who wants angry resentful parents when...THE KIDS RESENT YOU FOR BEING A SHITTY PARENT!

Then one day you'll wake up thinking it's time for those little shits to pay you back for all the shit you did when they were tiny cunts... and on that same motherfucking day, they'll wake up and think it's time for you to pay them back for giving them such a shitty childhood.

Think about it! Shouldn't have had kids, you daft prick!
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See... a woman usually pulls the weight in a marriage. And a man doesn't bring 100%. happens with age.

So she doesn't need you. Unless you are 100% a person and giving that to the relationship.

Truth shouldn't offend anyone. Be honest with her.
 Quoting: MissCleo


You see this is score right here

Two young kids 3 and 6, both who do not listen, fight all the time, and scream constantly, and the 3 year old sleepwalks, and and sleeps screams... All fucking night.

We both work full time.

The in-laws provide baby sitting mon-fri for the school runs, and the mum picks them up.


So we don't get much time in the evenings together, and weekends we are shattered from work, but no one is willing to care for the kids so we can spend time together.

I donthe majority of the house work, she just preps the kids for school, uniforms etc, and mainly handles the 3 yearold for bed time, but all cleaning, cooking, getting up early at the weekends, thats me.


Normally in the evenings when the kids are down, she will chill on the sofa reading, and I will potter about the kitchen.


We don't argue, we do bitch and get stressed, bit that's life.


And I don't show her much affection as I could of done, and I dont interact much with her family, which she said other members of her family aren't too pleased about.


Then all this shit


I have been saying I feel neglected in the relationship, feel like a little bitch sometimes, but that's not to say I don't pop off, and handle it.

Like now, I miss her, I miss the kids, but that shit needs to stop, all of it, and that's a job and half.



Make the most of this, as this is getting personal, I dont normally open up like this.
 Quoting: 0000001


See... a woman usually pulls the weight in a marriage. And a man doesn't bring 100%. happens with age.

So she doesn't need you. Unless you are 100% a person and giving that to the relationship.

Truth shouldn't offend anyone. Be honest with her.
 Quoting: MissCleo


You see this is score right here

Two young kids 3 and 6, both who do not listen, fight all the time, and scream constantly, and the 3 year old sleepwalks, and and sleeps screams... All fucking night.

We both work full time.

The in-laws provide baby sitting mon-fri for the school runs, and the mum picks them up.


So we don't get much time in the evenings together, and weekends we are shattered from work, but no one is willing to care for the kids so we can spend time together.

I donthe majority of the house work, she just preps the kids for school, uniforms etc, and mainly handles the 3 yearold for bed time, but all cleaning, cooking, getting up early at the weekends, thats me.


Normally in the evenings when the kids are down, she will chill on the sofa reading, and I will potter about the kitchen.


We don't argue, we do bitch and get stressed, bit that's life.


And I don't show her much affection as I could of done, and I dont interact much with her family, which she said other members of her family aren't too pleased about.


Then all this shit


I have been saying I feel neglected in the relationship, feel like a little bitch sometimes, but that's not to say I don't pop off, and handle it.

Like now, I miss her, I miss the kids, but that shit needs to stop, all of it, and that's a job and half.



Make the most of this, as this is getting personal, I dont normally open up like this.
 Quoting: 0000001

Hey mate,

Here's the solution. Not sure if it's too late to implement yet or not. You and your wife both resent your kids. You might not admit it, and sure, the little fuckers are cute. But you're way better off EATING the bastards than raising them thinking they don't know you resent them.

Because they do. And they'll hate you when they become adults, because FUCK, who wants angry resentful parents when...THE KIDS RESENT YOU FOR BEING A SHITTY PARENT!

Then one day you'll wake up thinking it's time for those little shits to pay you back for all the shit you did when they were tiny cunts... and on that same motherfucking day, they'll wake up and think it's time for you to pay them back for giving them such a shitty childhood.

Think about it! Shouldn't have had kids, you daft prick!
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 9338962


Well they have them and it isn’t too late to fix their problems. But yeah. Lots of people resent their kids and then the kids leave home as quickly as possible and put them away when the parents get old. Just like the parents did to them which is to basically tolerate them and sometimes ignore them.

So OP needs to fix any bad attitudes he has towards the kids. He needs to spend time with them and enjoy them. To let them know they are wanted.





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