The situation

so sorry to hear that.

i didn't initiate the break up, but i sure as hell will handle it.

ive been through two divorces


one after ten years

all i can say is...

travel


forget them woman for a while


you go do you for a while.

IGNORE HER.

id like to point out that mt previous replies all centered around the interests of the children..

#1, you are deffo allowed to spark a spliff over this.
she dumped him, folks. this is how men deal with shit.

spliff has remeasured me that i'm not some small fry, i do big things, and this is just the start.

im young

Mainly healthy ( apart from this last week)

ive got a good job


shit will work it self out, it allways does.


the wifes hot mate is single.....

exactly
now you're thinkin...

whatever keeps you being a successful person and father..

its nothing to do with gender roles or any shit like that..

you make a point to be okay and or happy... then give it time. in time you get....something. or something.
but tis all good. let us know if you need more Dub music.

She probably has found someone else. She’s probably been looking since you broke it off with her before.
Maybe she gave you something to make you sick?
Maybe she got someone to break in your house to harm you?
Sorry but I watch a lot of Dicovery ID. It seems like women do this a lot.
After that their friends and family are shocked that such a nice woman could do that! Be careful!
You will be fine in the long run. Your kids will be fine.

No wonder she dumped you.

You left here twice according to your posts. You have seriously damaged the relationship during those times. Now the shoe is on the other foot. Fight to save your marriage not by crying but by showing her what an awesome guy you are. Be interesting and romantic and a loving dad.

1) Do not move out- she can claim abandonment and it will hurt you in divorce proceedings.

2) Don’t send her any texts , emails or voicemails because if you lose your temper it’ll hurt you.

3) Record her if she starts hollering or making threats while you remain calm.

Everything now is about getting your fair share.

Sorry, bud. That really sucks and I hurt for you. 2020 is a bugger of a year so far

it was a joke fella

cheers mate, im sure we will.

see now i'm torn between doing that, but also just being my own man for once, i do love her i do, just sick of the bullshit you know? shes not happy, im not happy, you cant raise kids in that environment, i would take her back, but she even said it would just be the same once again.

You can go on a fuck fest nkw

i cant wait....

i certainly hope not, shes an honest girl.

i am the type of guy to go on a violent spree if she has done that.


so i need to avoid thinking like that at all costs

No! NO! NOOOOOOO!

you probably deserve it. Only a narc goes online to get sympathy and pity and profess how rough things are - on them.

Wasn’t a robber, Tyrone was sneaking out

first off big guy, fuck your misconceptions

I've been here a very a long time, and it turns out this week has been awful, and worth sharing.

Dude,

Two words for you:

INTERNET DATING

It's an absolute fanny fest and as my mate said to me in a text message once: "Thank you for getting me into internet dating. It is up there with fire, the telephone and aviation as man's greatest inventions"

Go get em.....

thanks big guy

give it a week or two and im all over it.

I've been dumped significantly twice in the past, after 3/5 years each. I bounced back massively with a much better bird after a decent period of singledom and fucking LOADS of skirt.

And remember, age doesn't matter. Older chicks fucking love it even more and DON'T give you any grief.

Go clothes shopping and get yourself a nice motor while you're at it.

fucking damn right

Been through it...it's the most important thing.

It doesn't even matter if you're an ugly cunt for internet dating. Get yourself pissed up with a mate and write a FUNNY internet dating profile. Check it the next day when you're sober.

Then post it up and watch them come flocking. Birds want you to make them laugh more than almost anything else.

^^^ Take the piss out of yourself in the profile when being funny. They love that.

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