The situation

No way. Too many Muslims there. But you can come to the USA.

I don't believe that explains the issue I'm having over this thread but I understand where you're coming from. That's the same conclusion I'd come to if I were you and had read my post. I'd say the same thing.

Sorry to hear about your shitty situation. I feel ya. Sucks to be in that predicament. Learn from your mistakes is what I tell myself. Some women are cruel and don't deserve good men. Better to be single than be with an ungrateful mess of a woman who is living for her happiness only. At the same time, I'm sure there is something you can improve. Take a look at yourself. And good luck.

Wait, are you the home wrecker?

haha. just kidding.

I did. Absolutely I did. And even after everyone said for me to go out and start finding the next victim, because we were split up for a long time before I finally filed the divorce, I could not date or even think about it until it was final.

Tbh...I still have not went on a date.

Yep, cut the in-laws out.
See if the little pumpkin improves.

Or change job shifts so one parent can be with the children at all times.

Maybe because the majority of Men go through this shit in their life. My EX cheated on Me and I'm still stuck with the cunt and She acts like nothing happened. She walked in and tried to talk to Me and I told Her that friend She used to have is dead so go talk to someone whom has value. Now She is going ballistic but guess what She is dead to Me and I'm going to ignore Her till I get enough money to move the fuck out. I'll also cut off all contact with Her and just go on with My life as if I never met the cunt and that has Her up in arms.

Doesn’t look like there is any cheating going on with OP and his wife. Just two exhausted people who need time with other.

I did. Absolutely I did. And even after everyone said for me to go out and start finding the next victim, because we were split up for a long time before I finally filed the divorce, I could not date or even think about it until it was final.

Tbh...I still have not went on a date.

I have a friend who is with the children during the day and works part time in the evening when the husband is at home. Parents should do what they can to raise the children. Then they know the children aren’t being abused.

Doesn’t look like there is any cheating going on with OP and his wife. Just two exhausted people who need time with other.

Well, to be honest I’m not surprised, between the career, then his passion for the charity work building schools for orphaned children in Africa & his time here at GLP its a wonder he has time to eat, let alone placate a wife.

Hahahahahaha does any man have time to do that? I'd turn in 220 hour time sheets for two weeks and that still wasn't enough for the old bag. Hell even when I was off I'd have dinner waiting for Her and that still wasn't enough. I can see the mistakes I made for sure but She still think nothing is Her fault so how on earth can You reason with someone like that? I say let the next asshole have Her and when He dumps Her I hope Her heart is fully vested so it gets broken over and over then She might feel a little bit of the pain I went through.

I hear you matey but................. LOOK AT YOUR SIG..........lol.

Hahahahaha I forgot about that. I'm really a perfect gentleman until I'm really with someone then behind closed doors I'm a freak. I really do respect women and I firmly believe they all want to be treated like ladies so I do that because a lot of men don't show that respect. I'm sorry but I was raised by a single mother and well lets just say She taught Me well.

yesterday a robber came to your house, today wife leaves you

ffs

go see a Gipsy Fortune teller where u're wrong

Hahahahahaha does any man have time to do that? I'd turn in 220 hour time sheets for two weeks and that still wasn't enough for the old bag. Hell even when I was off I'd have dinner waiting for Her and that still wasn't enough. I can see the mistakes I made for sure but She still think nothing is Her fault so how on earth can You reason with someone like that? I say let the next asshole have Her and when He dumps Her I hope Her heart is fully vested so it gets broken over and over then She might feel a little bit of the pain I went through.

Yeah, I get that, it’s clear in your historic posting, that’s why it made me chuckle.

And I don’t wish to be flippant whatsoever in relation to what you went through, it’s absolutely brutal.

Many people suffer that absolute ‘contact cut & you no longer exist as a human entity’ & it becomes clear that the situation that is tearing you apart emotionally is now simply a financial transaction to resolve, and that is an incredible agony.

The ‘shock’ that the person you felt you knew so well can behave in suc a callous calculated way is inconceivable.

I did, I sent her a text earlier, long ass one, poured my heart out.


Shes my princess, and I forgot that.

You sound like a mechanic. Fellow wrench bender?

No She didn't do a lot of it I actually went to the emergency room twice. Once I went because I was hiccupping for 3 days straight and couldn't take it anymore and the other time I blacked out while driving through Houston and totaled My car. The whole time I was going through hell I had scammers scamming Me the whole time so with all that I'm 120k in the hole. None of this would of happened if She wouldn't have cheated because I was faithful to the point I wouldn't even talk to women much less have them as friends but She didn't have the same respect for Me. The whole thing has destroyed Me and My self esteem is utterly destroyed which is going to take many years to fix so I won't be dating for a real long time. Honestly though I think Men are disposable in the west and I don't know if I can trust giving My heart to another woman because when I do My love doesn't have an expiration date which can't be said for the majority of women in the west.

Yeah, I get that, it’s clear in your historic posting, that’s why it made me chuckle.

And I don’t wish to be flippant whatsoever in relation to what you went through, it’s absolutely brutal.

Many people suffer that absolute ‘contact cut & you no longer exist as a human entity’ & it becomes clear that the situation that is tearing you apart emotionally is now simply a financial transaction to resolve, and that is an incredible agony.

The ‘shock’ that the person you felt you knew so well can behave in suc a callous calculated way is inconceivable.

I love her


I'm going to fight for her

Maybe the wife took off with the robber. ; )

you're fine. I hear you.

You see this is score right here

Two young kids 3 and 6, both who do not listen, fight all the time, and scream constantly, and the 3 year old sleepwalks, and and sleeps screams... All fucking night.

We both work full time.

The in-laws provide baby sitting mon-fri for the school runs, and the mum picks them up.


So we don't get much time in the evenings together, and weekends we are shattered from work, but no one is willing to care for the kids so we can spend time together.

I donthe majority of the house work, she just preps the kids for school, uniforms etc, and mainly handles the 3 yearold for bed time, but all cleaning, cooking, getting up early at the weekends, thats me.


Normally in the evenings when the kids are down, she will chill on the sofa reading, and I will potter about the kitchen.


We don't argue, we do bitch and get stressed, bit that's life.


And I don't show her much affection as I could of done, and I dont interact much with her family, which she said other members of her family aren't too pleased about.


Then all this shit


I have been saying I feel neglected in the relationship, feel like a little bitch sometimes, but that's not to say I don't pop off, and handle it.

Like now, I miss her, I miss the kids, but that shit needs to stop, all of it, and that's a job and half.



Make the most of this, as this is getting personal, I dont normally open up like this.

You see this is score right here

Two young kids 3 and 6, both who do not listen, fight all the time, and scream constantly, and the 3 year old sleepwalks, and and sleeps screams... All fucking night.

We both work full time.

The in-laws provide baby sitting mon-fri for the school runs, and the mum picks them up.


So we don't get much time in the evenings together, and weekends we are shattered from work, but no one is willing to care for the kids so we can spend time together.

I donthe majority of the house work, she just preps the kids for school, uniforms etc, and mainly handles the 3 yearold for bed time, but all cleaning, cooking, getting up early at the weekends, thats me.


Normally in the evenings when the kids are down, she will chill on the sofa reading, and I will potter about the kitchen.


We don't argue, we do bitch and get stressed, bit that's life.


And I don't show her much affection as I could of done, and I dont interact much with her family, which she said other members of her family aren't too pleased about.


Then all this shit


I have been saying I feel neglected in the relationship, feel like a little bitch sometimes, but that's not to say I don't pop off, and handle it.

Like now, I miss her, I miss the kids, but that shit needs to stop, all of it, and that's a job and half.



Make the most of this, as this is getting personal, I dont normally open up like this.

Hey mate,

Here's the solution. Not sure if it's too late to implement yet or not. You and your wife both resent your kids. You might not admit it, and sure, the little fuckers are cute. But you're way better off EATING the bastards than raising them thinking they don't know you resent them.

Because they do. And they'll hate you when they become adults, because FUCK, who wants angry resentful parents when...THE KIDS RESENT YOU FOR BEING A SHITTY PARENT!

Then one day you'll wake up thinking it's time for those little shits to pay you back for all the shit you did when they were tiny cunts... and on that same motherfucking day, they'll wake up and think it's time for you to pay them back for giving them such a shitty childhood.

Think about it! Shouldn't have had kids, you daft prick!