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Message Subject The situation
Poster Handle Anonymous Coward
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See... a woman usually pulls the weight in a marriage. And a man doesn't bring 100%. happens with age.

So she doesn't need you. Unless you are 100% a person and giving that to the relationship.

Truth shouldn't offend anyone. Be honest with her.
 Quoting: MissCleo


nope

when you demand all this 100% bullshit you lock your own mind and heart
with, assumptions, accusations, judgment, condemnation, grudges, bitterness, offenses, and resentment

no one is ever 100%

and it's never to be about owing, earning, demanding, etc.

it always has to be about freedoms
freely sharing all things together
giving out of oneself without expectation of return

if / when I do something for someone, it's because I want to,
not because I have to, or because I'm looking for something in return

as soon as one or the other assumes it's about owing, or earning,
or someone is assuming the other is being demanding

then it moves from freedoms and real
to totally performance based fakery

never do this, it's destructive

never demand 100% no one can meet this outrageous expectation of performance perfection
 Quoting: Red John


Really good point!

Expectations are a slow death of any relationship.

Gratitude and appreciation are what is needed.
 
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