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This is for any divorced people out there.

 
Just Passing Through.....
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First off, Mods feel free to move this to where it belongs in Sex and Relationships.

I am still good friends with my ex wife. We make better friends then spouses. We were just not ready for marriage. We had probably the friendliest divorce ever. We were even holding hands for support when our divorce was finalized. People looked at us like we were nuts. We dont have kids together, and we've tried very hard to maintain friendly boundaries. Now tonight she texted me and asked if we could sleep together. That in itself is not a problem, we had a great bedroom life. But....I'm worried. What if this rekindles feelings I've tried so hard to put down? Has anyone done this and been able to keep their feelings out of this?
I will always love her. I'm scared this could change our current course and make things weird or even ruin our friendship. She said it was just two friends helping each other out with "frustration". We've been divorced for 8 months. We were only married for 2 yrs. I still help her out financially and we still talk all the time. She is my best friend. Can anyone wiser than me share? I know this isnt really a forum for these kinds of things but there are some really good people on here and I hope one of you can help me out. I do have friends to ask but they'll interject their opinions instead of just good non biased advice. Thank you in advance and I hope no one gets upset for me posting this.
"She isn't real.....I can't make her real"

"Somewhere between the sacred silence and sleep...Disorder, Disorder, Disorder"

"The World is a business Mr Beale..."

"You depend on our protection yet you feed us lies from the tablecloth......"

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Maiya
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02/18/2020 11:43 PM

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I remarried my ex. DO NOT GO THERE. It never works out.
They never thought she would lose. Now they all lose.
Just Passing Through.....  (OP)
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02/18/2020 11:46 PM

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I remarried my ex. DO NOT GO THERE. It never works out.
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Ya? But you remarried. Isnt that a GOOD thing?
"She isn't real.....I can't make her real"

"Somewhere between the sacred silence and sleep...Disorder, Disorder, Disorder"

"The World is a business Mr Beale..."

"You depend on our protection yet you feed us lies from the tablecloth......"

ENFJ
Maiya
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02/20/2020 07:00 PM

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I remarried my ex. DO NOT GO THERE. It never works out.
 Quoting: Maiya


Ya? But you remarried. Isnt that a GOOD thing?
 Quoting: Just Passing Through.....


We got divorced a second time. It hardly ever works out the second go around.
They never thought she would lose. Now they all lose.
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02/20/2020 07:07 PM
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First off, Mods feel free to move this to where it belongs in Sex and Relationships.

I am still good friends with my ex wife. We make better friends then spouses. We were just not ready for marriage. We had probably the friendliest divorce ever. We were even holding hands for support when our divorce was finalized. People looked at us like we were nuts. We dont have kids together, and we've tried very hard to maintain friendly boundaries. Now tonight she texted me and asked if we could sleep together. That in itself is not a problem, we had a great bedroom life. But....I'm worried. What if this rekindles feelings I've tried so hard to put down? Has anyone done this and been able to keep their feelings out of this?
I will always love her. I'm scared this could change our current course and make things weird or even ruin our friendship. She said it was just two friends helping each other out with "frustration". We've been divorced for 8 months. We were only married for 2 yrs. I still help her out financially and we still talk all the time. She is my best friend. Can anyone wiser than me share? I know this isnt really a forum for these kinds of things but there are some really good people on here and I hope one of you can help me out. I do have friends to ask but they'll interject their opinions instead of just good non biased advice. Thank you in advance and I hope no one gets upset for me posting this.
 Quoting: Just Passing Through.....


OP,

If You are certain that yall should have Divorced in the first place, then it is over and it needs to stop.

If you a not certain that shall should have divorced then by all means rekindle.
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02/20/2020 07:10 PM
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Never married. Thank god.
My two cents,

It’s been Real, it’s been Nice, but I can’t say it’s been Real Nice! :anon:

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02/20/2020 07:10 PM
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Dont do it.
Remarried my ex THREE TIMES.
He is good ......
Sex cant fix DIVORCE.
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02/20/2020 07:14 PM

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grieving. five stages. go through all 5 of them. total closure. then you can start over.
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Dont do it.
Remarried my ex THREE TIMES.
He is good ......
Sex cant fix DIVORCE.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 73188307


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02/20/2020 07:30 PM
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I MIGHT marry my ex again - if he had a seven-figure life insurance policy and an incurable/fatal quick acting disease.
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02/20/2020 07:33 PM
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Never married. Thank god.
 Quoting: Legna Angel


hesright
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Tyrone must have been busy.
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I knew a couple that where married three times.

Third time was the charm. They stuck together until death did them part.
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02/20/2020 08:06 PM

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I have no experience in that matter, OP, BUT -- if you were one of my girlfriends, I'd tell you that you have lost your mind, take you out, get you drunk, and we would spend the evening rating the shoulder and butts of every dude that walks by until you put that dumb thought out of your mind.
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02/20/2020 08:11 PM

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What if she gets pregnant ?

If you love her - let her go - then she will find her true love and have her kids and become her true self

You are just a crutch for each other now

Only the full truth of loneliness will force you both to find the real life mate
"What are you helping with all this helping?" Buddhist saying
Just Passing Through.....  (OP)
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02/22/2020 08:28 PM

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I have no experience in that matter, OP, BUT -- if you were one of my girlfriends, I'd tell you that you have lost your mind, take you out, get you drunk, and we would spend the evening rating the shoulder and butts of every dude that walks by until you put that dumb thought out of your mind.
 Quoting: Lady Jayne Smith


Thank you for that LJS. I shouldve freaking listened to myself.....and this thread. We went out, we acted like we were married again, we hugged, we kissed, we checked into a hotel room a happy couple and checked out not even 4 hours later in tears with a ruined friendship. The universe has spoken. It just sucks. She is so beautiful and so easy to be around. I wish I had a friend like you (guywise) that couldve taken me out like that. Ah well, no end times Corona virus panic sex for me.
"She isn't real.....I can't make her real"

"Somewhere between the sacred silence and sleep...Disorder, Disorder, Disorder"

"The World is a business Mr Beale..."

"You depend on our protection yet you feed us lies from the tablecloth......"

ENFJ
Just Passing Through.....  (OP)
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So for anyone that cares, update...IT DIDNT FUCKING WORK OUT!!!! We shouldve left it alone. Friendship ruined. The universe has spoken. F.M.L. So I guess if there are any Orlando area ladies that would like to be a rebound for a muscular, bald and bearded doomtard feel free to holler.......I'm only kidding.........sort of. Alright back to DOOOM.
"She isn't real.....I can't make her real"

"Somewhere between the sacred silence and sleep...Disorder, Disorder, Disorder"

"The World is a business Mr Beale..."

"You depend on our protection yet you feed us lies from the tablecloth......"

ENFJ
Just Passing Through.....  (OP)
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I knew a couple that where married three times.

Third time was the charm. They stuck together until death did them part.
 Quoting: Redcat1


Yep, looks like that's not going to be the case here. We made a mistake.
"She isn't real.....I can't make her real"

"Somewhere between the sacred silence and sleep...Disorder, Disorder, Disorder"

"The World is a business Mr Beale..."

"You depend on our protection yet you feed us lies from the tablecloth......"

ENFJ





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