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ADVICE NEEDED: My girlfriend refusing to work for 30 days, should I be upset?

 
MissCleo

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03/24/2020 06:06 AM

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Re: ADVICE NEEDED: My girlfriend refusing to work for 30 days, should I be upset?
if you can't support a women, you don't deserve a woman.

She is not your slave. She is not a work horse. She is a person.
 Quoting: MissCleo


clappa
 Quoting: JimmyBones


Regarding our replies, you being a man will get a pat on the back.
Me as a woman will be ridiculed and punished.

funny how that works.
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03/24/2020 06:07 AM
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Re: ADVICE NEEDED: My girlfriend refusing to work for 30 days, should I be upset?
She has the opportunity to work, but she refuses to. This is a decision that may ultimately lead to our financial demise. I'm afraid I'm going to lose the house our cars.

I've attempted to speak with her about this on a few occasions, she instantly breaks out crying and it makes a rational conversation impossible. She claims she doesn't want to spread covid to people and be the reason a person dies.

How should I react to this? Am I being unsympathetic? Honestly I have no idea what to do right now. I've got less than $1k in the bank. Losing her contribution will destroy us.
 Quoting: SoberLife




Ever thought about that she actually lost her job but she's afraid to tell you?

News flash, she lost her job. Retard OP
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03/24/2020 06:12 AM
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Re: ADVICE NEEDED: My girlfriend refusing to work for 30 days, should I be upset?
Let the house and cars go. When you no longer have the means to live, dump her.
Psalm119

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03/24/2020 06:16 AM
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Re: ADVICE NEEDED: My girlfriend refusing to work for 30 days, should I be upset?
"...our financial demise." So you're playing house?

What does your girlfriends finances have to do with your demise? You're not married. You made a poor choice if you're living together and sharing rent.

YOU'RE ACTING LIKE A BOY. IT'S TIME TO GROW UP AND BE A MAN. STOP PLAYING HOUSE.

~ I'm Judge Judy bitch and I approve this message.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 69901219


You are living in sin if you 2 aren’t married. So Don’t expect God to bless that union anyway.

95% of people who live together before getting married BREAK UP , even if they get married eventually.

Sounds like you are using her for sex and for company and she is using you to live off of.

This isn’t going to last.
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03/24/2020 06:17 AM
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Re: ADVICE NEEDED: My girlfriend refusing to work for 30 days, should I be upset?
if you can't support a women, you don't deserve a woman.

She is not your slave. She is not a work horse. She is a person.
 Quoting: MissCleo


clappa
 Quoting: JimmyBones


Regarding our replies, you being a man will get a pat on the back.
Me as a woman will be ridiculed and punished.

funny how that works.
 Quoting: MissCleo

Replying through a song.

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James Brown - It's A Man's Man's Man's World (Official Video)
Freckle Face

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03/24/2020 06:20 AM
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Re: ADVICE NEEDED: My girlfriend refusing to work for 30 days, should I be upset?
All massage jobs have been ordered to cease in my state effective today. It really is a dangerous time to have that occupation.

Can she deliver food or do something different for awhile? Maybe help a mother or father with their kids homeschooling homework, etc?

I’m sorry Op. I feel for you and wish I could multiply your money in the bank. I hope the banks and mortgage company’s allow a few months grace under these dire conditions.
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03/24/2020 06:37 AM
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Time to split ways.

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Anonymous Coward
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03/24/2020 06:41 AM
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Re: ADVICE NEEDED: My girlfriend refusing to work for 30 days, should I be upset?
Let me guess. She wants a Sanders presidency too.
Anonymous Coward
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03/24/2020 06:46 AM
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Re: ADVICE NEEDED: My girlfriend refusing to work for 30 days, should I be upset?
She has the opportunity to work, but she refuses to. This is a decision that may ultimately lead to our financial demise. I'm afraid I'm going to lose the house our cars.

I've attempted to speak with her about this on a few occasions, she instantly breaks out crying and it makes a rational conversation impossible. She claims she doesn't want to spread covid to people and be the reason a person dies.

How should I react to this? Am I being unsympathetic? Honestly I have no idea what to do right now. I've got less than $1k in the bank. Losing her contribution will destroy us.
 Quoting: SoberLife

OP

ya gotta pimp her out
ya got no choice.
let her give handjobs
like 10 bucks a toss
i bet you could keep her
in work all day long
if you market her to
the hispanic migrant workers,
just go to the 7-11 or the WAWA
where they all hang out
and wait for the general contractors
to pick them up
for a day's hard work off the books.

i dunno, maybe your girl can
give a little lip service
probably could charge
a few more dollars
if she throws in a little suckhole action
but i guess to be fair
you should ask her if she
like the taste of chili peppers and paprika
bc the mexicans eat more burritos
than anything else
and some girls don't like spicy

/s

pigchef
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03/24/2020 06:51 AM
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Re: ADVICE NEEDED: My girlfriend refusing to work for 30 days, should I be upset?
Thanks for responding. She has no friends to go out with, she's a homebody. It's hard to the balance her needs vs our need to keep a roof over our heads. I can't imagine it's coming out of this scenario without major life changes. Even with this stimulus, which is still hypothetical, I can't see us coming out without being financially decimated.
 Quoting: SoberLife


You already know she's a homebody. Why haven't you married yet? She sounds like a good lifetime mate potential. Let her stay home and sell clothes on Poshmark.
Anonymous Coward
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03/24/2020 06:53 AM
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Re: ADVICE NEEDED: My girlfriend refusing to work for 30 days, should I be upset?
I have an unpopular opinion, but since you asked, I will give it.
I believe she should be able to stay home if she is scared. As her partner, you should be willing to care for her needs. And at this time, this is her need. Now, I would suggest that you have the right to make sure she is not just using you.

If she is telling the truth, her time off should not be time to go out with friends. because if you are going to take a chance of losing things over this decision, then she needs to be honest with you about her reasons.

But if she is scared and honest, then you should put her needs first. It is too bad that you are so dependent on both salaries to survive. Hopefully, the money the government has. promised will help you get through the tough spot and you can make decisions that will allow you both more. freedom in the event something happens.
 Quoting: wkk


If you really love and care for her, take this advice above.
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03/24/2020 07:06 AM
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Re: ADVICE NEEDED: My girlfriend refusing to work for 30 days, should I be upset?
If there is a community outbreak near your area it would be stupid for her to work. A massage therapist would be extremely vulnerable to the virus. I can see why she is fearful. You are not being protective or understanding. Her job is not “essential” (Dr. Nurse etc.) where one’s profession is a calling to self-sacrifice for the sake of others. It would be stupid risk to continue that kind of profession for herself AND for others.

Secondly, you are stupid to not have a months worth of savings in case of an emergency. If all she is paying is water and her car with her salary you should let her take the month off.

Thirdly, yes, you should not be “playing house” either you are dedicated to her or not. If I were her, after your behavior I would break up with you. You’re not the kind of man who can have the responsibility of a family if you can’t even plan ahead one month.

Is this someone you want to grow old with? Take care of her or her take care of you when you are old? You’re not even thinking of the value of your relationship and what it even means... companionship, partnership, in sickness and in health etc.

Lastly, what is the bottom line of your question... if your choice is the possible death of your girlfriend or financial demise and you are having a tough time making a decision about it... there is definitely something wrong with your priorities.
Red John

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03/24/2020 09:19 AM

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Re: ADVICE NEEDED: My girlfriend refusing to work for 30 days, should I be upset?
if you can't support a women, you don't deserve a woman.

She is not your slave. She is not a work horse. She is a person.
 Quoting: MissCleo


That is one way street "entitlementosis" and is a form of abuse

> why does the dude have to be a slave, a work horse, and not a person?

> why are her wants, needs, and feelings, 100% legit, and his are 100% shit?

> why is she "entitled" to a free ride, and he is supposed to provide that free ride?


also where the hell do you get off on using the word
Deserve ?

Last Edited by Red John on 03/24/2020 09:21 AM
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Anonymous Coward
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03/24/2020 09:41 AM
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Re: ADVICE NEEDED: My girlfriend refusing to work for 30 days, should I be upset?
Who stakes their financial future on someone they are not legally married too. I guess I am just old fashioned.
Happily married for 38 years.
Anonymous Coward
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03/24/2020 09:43 AM
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Re: ADVICE NEEDED: My girlfriend refusing to work for 30 days, should I be upset?
You have failed the man test
Anonymous Coward
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03/24/2020 09:51 AM
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Re: ADVICE NEEDED: My girlfriend refusing to work for 30 days, should I be upset?
My husband would never allow me to massage other men. EVER.
Anonymous Coward
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03/24/2020 09:51 AM
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Re: ADVICE NEEDED: My girlfriend refusing to work for 30 days, should I be upset?
What is her job?
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 78007325


Massage therapist at a chiropractor office.
 Quoting: SoberLife


Take it out in trade, see?
Happy ending for everyone!
Anonymous Coward
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03/24/2020 09:55 AM
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Re: ADVICE NEEDED: My girlfriend refusing to work for 30 days, should I be upset?
Let me guess. She wants a Sanders presidency too.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 78462633


Almost all of them do.

Free shit for booby owner-operators.
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03/24/2020 09:57 AM
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Re: ADVICE NEEDED: My girlfriend refusing to work for 30 days, should I be upset?
Does your wife still work?
 Quoting: EllenRipley


She works as a house wife, raising our little girl and taking care of the house. I am pulling a single income and able to support us fairly well, though we're by no means too far ahead of the curve. We've paid off our single vehicle (just this year) and are going to start absolving all of our debts as soon as everything stabilizes.
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03/24/2020 10:02 AM
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Re: ADVICE NEEDED: My girlfriend refusing to work for 30 days, should I be upset?
Your girlfriend needs a new boyfriend. You’re broke and a crybaby, get over yourself and man up.
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03/24/2020 10:24 AM
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Re: ADVICE NEEDED: My girlfriend refusing to work for 30 days, should I be upset?
if you can't support a women, you don't deserve a woman.

She is not your slave. She is not a work horse. She is a person.
 Quoting: MissCleo


That is one way street "entitlementosis" and is a form of abuse

> why does the dude have to be a slave, a work horse, and not a person?

> why are her wants, needs, and feelings, 100% legit, and his are 100% shit?

> why is she "entitled" to a free ride, and he is supposed to provide that free ride?


also where the hell do you get off on using the word
Deserve ?
 Quoting: Red John


You and everyone know where there 'deserve' comes from.

It's the implied exchange for taking the D, after which they get knocked up then cut you off or use it as a bargaining chip for everything ELSE they think they deserve.
In their minds it's compensation for making a deal, then changing the terms, getting vested in the 18 year lottery and then divorcing and taking the rest of whatever value is !eft.

This is an all too common, predictabile situation and it's pretty much a guarantee nowadays.
Red John

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03/24/2020 10:32 AM

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Re: ADVICE NEEDED: My girlfriend refusing to work for 30 days, should I be upset?
if you can't support a women, you don't deserve a woman.

She is not your slave. She is not a work horse. She is a person.
 Quoting: MissCleo


That is one way street "entitlementosis" and is a form of abuse

> why does the dude have to be a slave, a work horse, and not a person?

> why are her wants, needs, and feelings, 100% legit, and his are 100% shit?

> why is she "entitled" to a free ride, and he is supposed to provide that free ride?


also where the hell do you get off on using the word
Deserve ?
 Quoting: Red John


You and everyone know where there 'deserve' comes from.

It's the implied exchange for taking the D, after which they get knocked up then cut you off or use it as a bargaining chip for everything ELSE they think they deserve.
In their minds it's compensation for making a deal, then changing the terms, getting vested in the 18 year lottery and then divorcing and taking the rest of whatever value is !eft.

This is an all too common, predictabile situation and it's pretty much a guarantee nowadays.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 76626437


this
screwed
:pixie:

Hey gang-stalkers fuck off

General Failure Reading Drive A:
Who is General Failure?

There can be Only One

Team Swirl
Swirl Nation

instead of red, post in the thread, then I can respond.

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Anonymous Coward
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03/24/2020 10:41 AM
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Re: ADVICE NEEDED: My girlfriend refusing to work for 30 days, should I be upset?
I'm kind of surprised they even want her to work.





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