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REPORT ABUSIVE REPLY
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ADVICE NEEDED: My girlfriend refusing to work for 30 days, should I be upset?
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SoberLife |
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I have an unpopular opinion, but since you asked, I will give it.
I believe she should be able to stay home if she is scared. As her partner, you should be willing to care for her needs. And at this time, this is her need. Now, I would suggest that you have the right to make sure she is not just using you.
If she is telling the truth, her time off should not be time to go out with friends. because if you are going to take a chance of losing things over this decision, then she needs to be honest with you about her reasons.
But if she is scared and honest, then you should put her needs first. It is too bad that you are so dependent on both salaries to survive. Hopefully, the money the government has. promised will help you get through the tough spot and you can make decisions that will allow you both more. freedom in the event something happens.
Quoting: wkk :thismm: You're not married, why do both of you have bills together and rely on each other without the commitment? No commitment, no guarantee that each of you would commit to paying said bills. She doesn't want to work out of pure fear, don't expect her to work. I am also in the not popular opinion. I don't think a man should rely on a woman to get the bills paid Being in a relationship is a commitment, we've been together several years. You obviously live in some fantasy 1950's world where one salary supports a family.
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