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ADVICE NEEDED: My girlfriend refusing to work for 30 days, should I be upset? | |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 75958720  Canada03/24/2020 01:57 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 76312616  United States03/24/2020 01:59 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Whose fault is it you have a house and multiple cars and less then 1k in the bank? Not only that, but sounds like you can’t even depend on yourself at all you’ve been so financially irresponsible. So she has to compromise her safety right now because you’ve spent money like a child and can’t take care of yourself |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 78629917 United States03/24/2020 02:02 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Parasite women, hood rats. Yep, you should be upset with little princess. When times are tough, you expect your significant other to tighten the belt and step it up a level. You are not married, tell her to STFU or GTFO. This is a indicator what might happen during marriage. You buy a house, get some real assets and then she wants a divorce. The old pump and dump and you are in the slump. |
the deplorable ar-15 nut  User ID: 78054348 United States03/24/2020 02:07 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | [link to youtu.be (secure)]   We are a REPUBLIC.If we can keep it MORAN! A pissed off American Veteran! |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 77141761 United States03/24/2020 02:12 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | aren't relationships great? you just found out you will be tossed under the bus in times of crisis. bet you thought your significant other was suppose to be their for you in these times, because that's love, right? but then again you are worried about the stuff. so essentially you threw her under the bus first. I wonder who is going to get the last morsel of food? |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 5957191  United Kingdom03/24/2020 02:23 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 77901662 United States03/24/2020 02:29 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 31377200 United States03/24/2020 02:32 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | You have a few options if you or her have good credit. Cash advance your credit card or do a balance transfer check to yourself, you can get by paying minimum payments for a while. Or refi the house and extend the loan to lower payments. Costs a bunch in fees and interest but is better than the alternative. If you rent, move to a cheaper area. If they repo your car it gets sold at auction and they go after you for the difference. And you have no car to get to work. Its important to immediatly stop spending except necessities, cancel the cable/internet. If you have no credit or equity, you can hide the car untill you can pay it but they will probably find it, good luck. I wouldn't take on debt for a gf, she can decide to leave you anytime. If this is over the chinaVir, it's going to last alot longer (1yr +) than everyone thinks. |
| The Rickest Rick Sanchez User ID: 73168454 United States03/24/2020 02:35 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Sell her car. Too dangerous. She could kill someone with it. Better odds than WuFlu. The universe is basically an animal. It grazes on the ordinary. It creates infinite idiots just to eat them. The Rickest Rick Sanchez comments are meant for entertainment purposes only and should not be construed to reflect the feelings and opinions, implied or expressed, of the author. |
| Jungleboogie User ID: 76648271 Canada03/24/2020 02:41 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | She has the opportunity to work, but she refuses to. This is a decision that may ultimately lead to our financial demise. I'm afraid I'm going to lose the house our cars. Quoting: SoberLife I've attempted to speak with her about this on a few occasions, she instantly breaks out crying and it makes a rational conversation impossible. She claims she doesn't want to spread covid to people and be the reason a person dies. How should I react to this? Am I being unsympathetic? Honestly I have no idea what to do right now. I've got less than $1k in the bank. Losing her contribution will destroy us. Houston, we've found the problem Embrace the cognitive dissonance. |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 78650317 United Kingdom03/24/2020 02:42 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
| Mustydog User ID: 77893409 United Kingdom03/24/2020 03:23 AM  Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Men are twice as likely to die from the virus than women. She should be our working and making you stay at home! Last Edited by Mustydog on 03/24/2020 03:24 AM |
| the deplorable ar-15 nut User ID: 78054348 United States03/24/2020 03:25 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 78445863 United States03/24/2020 03:30 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
| goodsamaritan55 User ID: 78676952  Philippines03/24/2020 03:44 AM  Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | She has the opportunity to work, but she refuses to. This is a decision that may ultimately lead to our financial demise. I'm afraid I'm going to lose the house our cars. Quoting: SoberLife I've attempted to speak with her about this on a few occasions, she instantly breaks out crying and it makes a rational conversation impossible. She claims she doesn't want to spread covid to people and be the reason a person dies. How should I react to this? Am I being unsympathetic? Honestly I have no idea what to do right now. I've got less than $1k in the bank. Losing her contribution will destroy us. Welcome to a glimpse of the RED PILL world. Never depend on a woman for financial support. Women are USUALLY a luxury expense on MEN. Lucky if a woman makes any financial contribution to your life. Never expect. It just dries up their pussy when they have to pull out their wallets to contribute anything $$$. It's the way most women are wired. Last Edited by goodsamaritan55 on 03/24/2020 03:46 AM Real Healer for many years. Cancer is easily curable. Viruses are easily curable. Pharma made up diseases are intentional hoaxes. Vaccination is fraud genocide. Pharma medical industry is a control system to make your lives sickly, short, miserable and impoverished. |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 78034674  Sweden03/24/2020 04:06 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 73637686 United States03/24/2020 04:12 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Why don’t you work? Or pick up an extra job like at a grocery store? Your girlfriend is a saint to be with / stay with the likes of a bum who would even post something like this. You sound jealous to be honest. Man up little boy. |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 73637686 United States03/24/2020 04:13 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
| Billxam, ABATE, AWHA User ID: 56270897 United States03/24/2020 04:19 AM  Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | We went through the exact same thing. We survived it. It was tough, very tense and depressing. But I found the solution to the problems, allowed her to be at peace with her decision and we survived as a couple. Proud to be UnV'd There is one constant in life: If you build something worth having, someone will try to take it or destroy it. Proud member of A Brotherhood Against Totalitarian Enactments, Americans Who Hate Aging, proud supporter of attractive women. |
| I_am_who_I_am User ID: 77603895 United States03/24/2020 04:30 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Brainstorm hard about some work you guys can do from home. Maybe something on Fiverr or find something you can flip reselling. I don't think you have the right to pressure her to work right now. The reality of the situation is she probably won't be allowed to work within a week or two anyway. Instead of feeling sorry for yourself and blaming her do something about it. For example I make a ton of money selling beauty products that I buy online for good deals and then resell online. I am a single mom of a two year old and I never even considered getting child support because he didn't want to be involved so why would I want him to? I just had to figure out how to survive. Last Edited by I_am_who_I_am on 03/24/2020 04:31 AM |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 77437627  France03/24/2020 04:33 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I have an unpopular opinion, but since you asked, I will give it. Quoting: wkk I believe she should be able to stay home if she is scared. As her partner, you should be willing to care for her needs. And at this time, this is her need. Now, I would suggest that you have the right to make sure she is not just using you. If she is telling the truth, her time off should not be time to go out with friends. because if you are going to take a chance of losing things over this decision, then she needs to be honest with you about her reasons. But if she is scared and honest, then you should put her needs first. It is too bad that you are so dependent on both salaries to survive. Hopefully, the money the government has. promised will help you get through the tough spot and you can make decisions that will allow you both more. freedom in the event something happens. Thanks for responding. She has no friends to go out with, she's a homebody. It's hard to the balance her needs vs our need to keep a roof over our heads. I can't imagine it's coming out of this scenario without major life changes. Even with this stimulus, which is still hypothetical, I can't see us coming out without being financially decimated. sell her car. |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 77078415 United States03/24/2020 04:35 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
| JimmyBones User ID: 5313744 United States03/24/2020 05:51 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Simply do what I do. Have my wife and child stay home safely and go out an work my ass off to take care of them. You're the fucking man. Be one. I let them stay home safely and comfortably and I sleep in my daughters room or on the couch so they can be together and I can try to limit what exposure if any I have on them. Grow a set and let that woman be safe. What kind of limp wristed bitch are you? |
| bcjams User ID: 78109542 United States03/24/2020 05:58 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | She’s already Gone you lost her she won’t lift a finger to help and 20 bucks says she already has a victim to pay her bills lined up Last Edited by Hydromage on 03/24/2020 05:59 AM I control the water |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 4751261 United States03/24/2020 06:00 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | She has the opportunity to work, but she refuses to. This is a decision that may ultimately lead to our financial demise. I'm afraid I'm going to lose the house our cars. Quoting: SoberLife I've attempted to speak with her about this on a few occasions, she instantly breaks out crying and it makes a rational conversation impossible. She claims she doesn't want to spread covid to people and be the reason a person dies. How should I react to this? Am I being unsympathetic? Honestly I have no idea what to do right now. I've got less than $1k in the bank. Losing her contribution will destroy us. I'd tell her to hit the road. Bc ages putting all the pressure on you. She's lazy. Simple as that. Make her pack up and go back to her parents. She ain't ready to grow up yet. |
| Bush Master User ID: 78032587 03/24/2020 06:02 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | No |
| MissCleo User ID: 77082640 United States03/24/2020 06:03 AM  Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
| JimmyBones User ID: 5313744 United States03/24/2020 06:04 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
| MissCleo User ID: 77082640 United States03/24/2020 06:04 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Simply do what I do. Have my wife and child stay home safely and go out an work my ass off to take care of them. Quoting: JimmyBones You're the fucking man. Be one. I let them stay home safely and comfortably and I sleep in my daughters room or on the couch so they can be together and I can try to limit what exposure if any I have on them. Grow a set and let that woman be safe. What kind of limp wristed bitch are you? yep. Many men over value themselves. And feel entitled to own and boss around women. |
| ashra User ID: 75233825 United States03/24/2020 06:06 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
