ADVICE NEEDED: My girlfriend refusing to work for 30 days, should I be upset?

Regarding our replies, you being a man will get a pat on the back.
Me as a woman will be ridiculed and punished.

funny how that works.

Ever thought about that she actually lost her job but she's afraid to tell you?

News flash, she lost her job. Retard OP

Let the house and cars go. When you no longer have the means to live, dump her.

You are living in sin if you 2 aren’t married. So Don’t expect God to bless that union anyway.

95% of people who live together before getting married BREAK UP , even if they get married eventually.

Sounds like you are using her for sex and for company and she is using you to live off of.

This isn’t going to last.

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All massage jobs have been ordered to cease in my state effective today. It really is a dangerous time to have that occupation.

Can she deliver food or do something different for awhile? Maybe help a mother or father with their kids homeschooling homework, etc?

I’m sorry Op. I feel for you and wish I could multiply your money in the bank. I hope the banks and mortgage company’s allow a few months grace under these dire conditions.

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Time to split ways.

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Let me guess. She wants a Sanders presidency too.

OP

ya gotta pimp her out
ya got no choice.
let her give handjobs
like 10 bucks a toss
i bet you could keep her
in work all day long
if you market her to
the hispanic migrant workers,
just go to the 7-11 or the WAWA
where they all hang out
and wait for the general contractors
to pick them up
for a day's hard work off the books.

i dunno, maybe your girl can
give a little lip service
probably could charge
a few more dollars
if she throws in a little suckhole action
but i guess to be fair
you should ask her if she
like the taste of chili peppers and paprika
bc the mexicans eat more burritos
than anything else
and some girls don't like spicy

/s

You already know she's a homebody. Why haven't you married yet? She sounds like a good lifetime mate potential. Let her stay home and sell clothes on Poshmark.

If you really love and care for her, take this advice above.

If there is a community outbreak near your area it would be stupid for her to work. A massage therapist would be extremely vulnerable to the virus. I can see why she is fearful. You are not being protective or understanding. Her job is not “essential” (Dr. Nurse etc.) where one’s profession is a calling to self-sacrifice for the sake of others. It would be stupid risk to continue that kind of profession for herself AND for others.

Secondly, you are stupid to not have a months worth of savings in case of an emergency. If all she is paying is water and her car with her salary you should let her take the month off.

Thirdly, yes, you should not be “playing house” either you are dedicated to her or not. If I were her, after your behavior I would break up with you. You’re not the kind of man who can have the responsibility of a family if you can’t even plan ahead one month.

Is this someone you want to grow old with? Take care of her or her take care of you when you are old? You’re not even thinking of the value of your relationship and what it even means... companionship, partnership, in sickness and in health etc.

Lastly, what is the bottom line of your question... if your choice is the possible death of your girlfriend or financial demise and you are having a tough time making a decision about it... there is definitely something wrong with your priorities.

That is one way street "entitlementosis" and is a form of abuse

> why does the dude have to be a slave, a work horse, and not a person?

> why are her wants, needs, and feelings, 100% legit, and his are 100% shit?

> why is she "entitled" to a free ride, and he is supposed to provide that free ride?


also where the hell do you get off on using the word
Deserve ?

Last Edited by Still-Here on 03/24/2020 09:21 AM

Who stakes their financial future on someone they are not legally married too. I guess I am just old fashioned.
Happily married for 38 years.

You have failed the man test

My husband would never allow me to massage other men. EVER.

Take it out in trade, see?
Happy ending for everyone!

Almost all of them do.

Free shit for booby owner-operators.

She works as a house wife, raising our little girl and taking care of the house. I am pulling a single income and able to support us fairly well, though we're by no means too far ahead of the curve. We've paid off our single vehicle (just this year) and are going to start absolving all of our debts as soon as everything stabilizes.

Your girlfriend needs a new boyfriend. You’re broke and a crybaby, get over yourself and man up.

You and everyone know where there 'deserve' comes from.

It's the implied exchange for taking the D, after which they get knocked up then cut you off or use it as a bargaining chip for everything ELSE they think they deserve.
In their minds it's compensation for making a deal, then changing the terms, getting vested in the 18 year lottery and then divorcing and taking the rest of whatever value is !eft.

This is an all too common, predictabile situation and it's pretty much a guarantee nowadays.

this

I'm kind of surprised they even want her to work.