Some people are sadistic trolls, roaming the web looking for anyone under stress to kick when down. This is a hard time for parents, shame on you for insulting and kicking the downtrodden.
How dare you........ insult these exhausted stressed out parents by saying it is so easy for me, there must be something wrong with you. Not all situations are the same. Some people are content being a full time cook and maid, a slave to constant demanding children. It is harder for some others to make that adjustment.

I am so sorry you have to put up with these asses. It should be a time to support each other, not tear each other down, they are already stressed and need a little encouragement and support, compassion.

It is a very hard job.
Hugs from a great grandma