Narcissist thinks he has mysterious power to make everybody think he is special. You have to prove to him he ain't sh!t

Everyone is special, or no one is.

Kind of an ambiguous claim there. Sounds a little like jealousy of someone else.

Why are you labeling somebody as such? Maybe you are the narcissist because they are not paying enough attention to you?

You're a narcissist if you don't agree with people these days. If you've spent your life researching and searching for truths your a narcissist for sharing and putting their false beliefs in question.

Recent example, sharing info about dyed mulch. When I found out they bought I simply said the store bought stuff is made of junk wood and isn't good for a garden. >.>

My whole family is narcissist. I came out of it and cut tie with all of them.

So my principle is this: Nobody is special unless you have something that others want. Like you invented something worthwhile, or you have a business and have customers, or you have talent like you are an actor or artist. But even if you do have something others want, you have to keep it professional. Watch your manners at all time.

But narcissist think they are always special although they have absolutely nothing. They are usually scum bags that offer nothing to others. But they tell themselves they are so hot.

Good opinion. Didnt make much sense but well done.

So they have to impress you to be special? Sounds narcissistic.

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Wow, did the real Vladimir start posting again?

Naw, it's just a dumb psychological tool people throw around these days to put people that don't agree with them down.

What I mean is people who deserved to be liked or even worshipped should be special in real like. I mean like Michael Jackson, or Trump. People worship them, and that's totally understandable.

But a narcissist is like this: They are absolute bums, have no real jobs, but in their minds they think they deserved to be worshipped. And they demand that from people around them. The closer you are to him, the more he wants from you. And he thinks he does not even need to have good manners or give you anything back in exchange for your grace. If you meet somebody like that, just cut tie and walk away. They are absolute scumbags

Society is completely narcissist in that you can't go and build your own cabin on unused land. A lot of these kinds of people you describe don't believe in working for others to live, or at least the rewards should be shared among a small community that all works together.

You know for a fact he has "it" and you're mad he wants nothing to do with you. Suffer.

If you're not a narcissist, you're a cuck.

Truth.

Yes. A narcissist thinks like that. Just because he is tall, or is handsome, or is rich, or has a wife, or has a family. He thinks he is so much better, and you have to worship him.

But the truth is, nobody is perfect. Just because you have a family and I don't want to get married, who tells you I am lower than you?

Nowadays, being a narcissist don't pay. The reason is nobody is that lonely anymore. Everybody is hooked on the internet. I don't even need to go out with friends or meet my relatives anymore and I feel just fine. So in this modern age, you want to be a dick head? No, you gonna get banned by all sides. Nobody is lonely anymore. There are no more side kicks. Narcissists just don't seem to understand the impact of modern era,.

There are a couple of obvious narcs at work. You can spot the social climbing a mile off. It makes me cringe. You can see them working the room, only talking to people they find useful. Sleazing up to management. There's a dude who only talks to me when he needs something. Turns his charm on and off like a light switch. Cold as f**k inside. What's funny, is that type of behaviour is not so easy to hide. Other colleagues have noticed it. The way our business is set up... it makes no difference if you're "in" with management. If you don't hit your targets, you are not good, pure and simple. We run our business on figures, not grease and charm.

I noticed recently these manipulator types are losing the sheen of cool they had in times past. It's like their collective glamour spell is wearing off and they know it. I walked past Mr Charmer the other day. This was after he had tried to yo-yo me and screw me around for a couple of months. I caught a glimpse of him and saw him for the empty social climbing man-witch he was.

They need our energy. So not giving them loosh is devastating to them. Politely ignore the living f**k out of them. Smile, nod, a couple of friendly words in the elevator, then go do something else.

The hex is wearing off.

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Only crybaby lefties call people narcissists, fact.

If someone is doing their best and not hitting targets? What then?

Yeah. Narcissist just don't seem to understand in the modern era, people are a lot smarter. If you fucked up, everybody knows right away. Everything is online and on computer files. You can't hide anything. And narcs think they can still use their charm or lies or propaganda to move people and to make people die for them. They are so out dated.

You can't claim someone is a narcissist unless you genuinely approach them, explain things and give them a chance.

Narcissist spelled backwards is asshole

In my experience people consider you an asshole for doing your best to share facts and truths.

Especially the drinkers, they seem to love blissful ignorance and humor/fake positive attudes above all.

trust me I tried. You don't think I would cut tie with my entire family without trying to speak to them first. I tried. But they just don't seem to understand why you are not willing to die for them. They don't understand why you can't lose everything for their sake.

Sure ho

Then management will support you. People rarely get given the chop, and they understand there's a steep learning curve. We are client facing... so if the client doesn't want to continue working with you, they cut the contract. Happens to everyone.

The point is... cos the client makes 100% of decisions... getting cosy with management is next to useless. They can't protect you from a client who doesn't like you. I saw this dude a couple of years back... he rocked up and started 'working the office' for a couple of months. Greased his way onto a special project. Always walking round with the development staff like he was the high prince regent of Narnia. Had this confident swagger about him. Obvious social climber. Started looking down at his colleagues. Even making jokes to management bout some of us. Ouch. That is dangerous. Then he got too cocky... had an argument with management. I dunno what happened. They either fired him or he rage quit... I saw him talking in the toilets about how he 'lost his job'. Then he was gone.

All those hours he spent sleazing and shaking hands. All for nothing.

Humans are peaceful people. We want to farm and play music. We don't need this Wolf of Wall Street BS any more. They need to leave us alone and stop predating on us. Don't fight it, don't try and change them.. walk away. You win the game by not playing.

They aren't a narcissist, you're a wuss

Yeah I know. They have this strange confidence. Like they think they the royal heir of Britain. Their confidence usually cause them to make mistake. Argue with your superior or even insult people. Nobody wants somebody like that around.

The people that take up for a narcissist are usually narcissist.