Saying you aren’t racist just because you’re dating a black man doesn’t mean anything. Your entire comment is completely prejudice toward black women or anyone that isn’t white with blonde hair. I am black and personally I have never been jealous of white women or blonde hair. Most black women I know don’t have a problem with white women dating black men. I could care less about who men date in general. Maybe it’s because I’m gay and even then I dont prefer blonde white women. It’s a lie to say that all blonde white women are better. Sure I’ve seen pretty white blonde women but I’ve also seen many unattractive ones too. I’ve seen plenty of black and non white women that were more attractive than blonde white women. There’s beautiful and unattractive people in every race. Plenty of black women I know aren’t single and get men easily. Men of every race try to get with me not knowing that I am gay. Of course I don’t like men so I turn them down. Women hit on me too. Mostly white women. Expressing how much you think you’re better than everyone else makes you seem insecure. There are ways to be confident in yourself without bringing other women down. You also say that you wish racist would be less ignorant but you sound very ignorant and narrow minded yourself.