How were you conceived?

That I don't know. I suspect either an accident or drunk rape. My sire (can't really call him a father, he was never there) was very abusive to my mother.

Did they both tell you that?

Do you find yourself being protective of mom?
Have you healed your inner child?

Being unwanted isn't something that should happen to a child. But it's very common.
Particularly around the WWII era.

What are men thinking when they are conceiving a child???

She's passed. He was never a part of my life as I knew it. My earliest memories were well past when she left him. I don't believe I suffered any as a result.

Now mine and my older brother's stint in foster care is an entirely different story, but that's for another time.

In the past orphans came from pandemics and war. Now, way too many orphans come from casual sex conception and parents abandoning children, seems. It's disturbing.

My mom was about to get her tubes tied after she had her 3rd child and was on the table about to be put under and said something wouldnt let her so she got up left. met my dad and had me. she kind of always resented me because i was not a child born of love but in her mind of necessity.

my parents met at church so thats that. My dad left when I was 4 and my sister basically raised me

at a party lol

i was an accident.

!935.Mom married dad because he had a job.Dad didn't guts enough to go to a whorehouse.1965.The hookers in California were dollies.Some with no tan lines.

A rape on the Halloween following the 'SUmmer of Love' back in the 60's and then given up for adoption.

Like I said no big deal. Me and my old gal of 40 yrs have 3 kids, 9 grandchildren and our first great granddaughter will be here in a few days.
I always thought babys are a good thing.
I always tell people it's been 40 yrs of pure hell. Lol

Out of my older brother and younger sister, I was my parents only planned pregnancy. I've over heard my mom telling people that she swallowed more than Freddie mercury on a binger to make it happen.. I'm also my mother's least favorite out of all my siblings. I guess it left a bad taste in her mouth

I think my mom and dad were drunk and he had just been in a knife fight and a bar over her

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Great posts.

Not as romantic as it is in the movies, eh?

Not really, nope!

Probably because Mom skipped her birth control, should have been around the time of their anniversary

This is an interesting topic. I have met many people who were conceived in one country, but born and raised in another country. They have discussed their lifelong obsession with the culture and country of conception. They learned this foreign language, traveled there on holidays, and ultimately, were resolute and steadfast in their belief it was their "true soul's homeland".

I'm unwanted byproduct of unprotected sex, they married when my moom was 7th month, and passed me some uneasiness,anxiety, uncertainty she sure experienced during pregnancy.

My dad sold my mom a car and then called her up to see if she needed any help learning to drive manual. She said she was fine but then he said he wanted to get to know her.

Agreed. We have DNA memory.

I was a magical miracle baby.

I was conceived by a peodo

My dad was 29. My mother was supposed to be 17 but family secret came out she was in fact only 14! He knew her age.

Wasn’t his first young girl

Before me he impregnates another 14 year old before my mum

That's how it used to be back in the day, and that is still legal in many countries. Also that is not a pedophile, as they are into young prepubescent children.

One happy Christmas eve, might have been Santa Claus

He’s a bloody peodo!

And it’s never been ok in my country.

Plus after my mum he got convicted of being a pervert. He was caught watching girls through there windows with a telescope

He then went on to marry his very young wife. 25 years gap then cheated on her with someone even younger.

You think that’s ok then u just the same

It’s gross and wrong

My parents were camping when I was conceived. They are still in love.

God lucky u!

Nah he sounds like a dirtbag, but age isn't a huge issue, it's just a# of times you lived rotating around the sun.

I don't know.