How do you gain a woman's trust back | |
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Nexus-9 User ID: 60409235 Germany 08/08/2020 10:01 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Once the trust is broken it's really hard to build that bond we both once had. I've just really messed up by breaking words and promises. So how can I fix this? Quoting: Anonymous Coward 49216184 You cannot. Just learn from it, wish her well and say good bye. "Fiery the Angels rose, & as they rose deep thunder roll'd Around their shores: indignant burning with the fires of Orc" - William Blake, America a Prophecy (...also misquoted in Blade Runner by Roy Batty) "Tempus est optimus iudex" - "Time is the best judge" "The very word "'secrecy'" is repugnant in a free and open society; and we are as a people inherently and historically opposed to secret societies, to secret oaths and to secret proceedings." - John F. Kennedy, New York City, April 27, 1961 |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 78583529 United States 08/08/2020 10:13 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | That's part of being in a relationship, the mask comes down and you realize that they are just as bad as you are. The only way I know is to pretend for a while that it didn't happen. It sounds weird, but the longer you can hold out without bringing it up, then trust just kinda builds up, but it does take time. Good luck OP, remember you don't need validation by anyone else, but atleast you are wanting to change yourself and perhaps learn from experience.. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 69599468 United States 08/08/2020 10:15 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | A lady will if she sincerely loves you. Say 1. I screwed up. 2. I hurt your feelings. 3. That was wrong. 4. You are important to me. 5. It will never ever happen again. 6. Can you find it in your heart to forgve me. I bet she cries and you hold her and she'll forgive you. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 77242162 Switzerland 08/08/2020 10:15 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Once the trust is broken it's really hard to build that bond we both once had. I've just really messed up by breaking words and promises. So how can I fix this? Quoting: Anonymous Coward 49216184 that you can not come back from. YOU CAN TRY but your relationship has done been destroyed the question will be how many fights and accusations and living in turmoil before you see it. |
LittleMe I don’t want flowers when I die… User ID: 74943696 United States 08/08/2020 10:22 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
LittleMe I don’t want flowers when I die… User ID: 74943696 United States 08/08/2020 10:24 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | You don't. Quoting: Phoenix. Game some other bitch and don't show any of your weak qualities or she won't fuck you or respect you. She'll start nagging, calling you names and ruining your self esteem. If you lose the respect of a female, you're fucked. I've had women eating out of my hand and fucking me 3x a day, but as soon as your feelings get involved she'll see you as weak and you will lose her. They lose respect and start treating you like shit so you end up fucking your neighbor on your wife's bed when she goes out to dinner with her auntie. |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 69599468 United States 08/08/2020 10:30 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | It sounds dumb but play a tickling game where you play wrestle and tickle her. Then she will laugh and pout. So say, "Trust me." So then bring your hands close to tickle her, but stop and kiss her PASSIONATELY instead. Rinse repeat. You make it a little game and trust is reestablished. |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 59310310 United States 08/08/2020 10:31 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | It sounds dumb but play a tickling game where you play wrestle and tickle her. Then she will laugh and pout. So say, "Trust me." Quoting: Anonymous Coward 69599468 So then bring your hands close to tickle her, but stop and kiss her PASSIONATELY instead. Rinse repeat. You make it a little game and trust is reestablished. :wth: |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 78892158 Australia 08/08/2020 10:33 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | A lady will if she sincerely loves you. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 69599468 Say 1. I screwed up. 2. I hurt your feelings. 3. That was wrong. 4. You are important to me. 5. It will never ever happen again. 6. Can you find it in your heart to forgve me. I bet she cries and you hold her and she'll forgive you. In reply to that being said to me, I'd say what a load of bs, and who told you to say that? It's a man's ACTIONS that show the real man, not a bunch of meaningless words. |
Anonymous Coward (OP) User ID: 49216184 United States 08/08/2020 10:35 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Women will also use "is typing a message" against you. Quoting: Phoenix. Do not, I repeat do not write something and delete it and then start typing a new message because they will see that you started over from what you were going to say. ;) They see every single detail your stupid male brain doesn't register. Your not helpful at all. I'm trying to gain trust back not fck it all up and lose her. Most def wouldn't cheat on her. Lied to her about stuff yes I have but I wouldn't fck up on her. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 69599468 United States 08/08/2020 10:36 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | You can try appealing to her best friends. "You got to help me. She's my whole world. I really am crazy in love with her. What can I do to remedy this?" They will say, "Oh I won't tell her." and they will 100% of the time tell her. They like it when you humble yourself like that. It shows contrition. |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 69599468 United States 08/08/2020 10:38 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | A lady will if she sincerely loves you. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 69599468 Say 1. I screwed up. 2. I hurt your feelings. 3. That was wrong. 4. You are important to me. 5. It will never ever happen again. 6. Can you find it in your heart to forgve me. I bet she cries and you hold her and she'll forgive you. In reply to that being said to me, I'd say what a load of bs, and who told you to say that? It's a man's ACTIONS that show the real man, not a bunch of meaningless words. Why would what a man says be meaningless??? |
DesertAngel696 User ID: 38290365 United States 08/08/2020 10:38 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | When someone shows you who they are...believe them. Quote When you have messed up...show them you are working on change. It takes time to earn back trust. Words are, meh. And, never expect the one you have hurt to be open to your change. Sometimes, we have a lesson to learn, and with that lesson, can be a painful consequence. Best of luck DesertAngel696 |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 69599468 United States 08/08/2020 10:46 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | A guy wouldn't care, but they sure do. Take her to get new very high thread count linens (Egyptian cotton), pillows, a down comforter for the bed. It'll be fou-fou but make her happy. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 69599468 United States 08/08/2020 10:50 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | When was the last time you washed, waxed, polished, vaccumed, detailed her vehicle? Do that and get her some music she wants but hasn't bought yet. Do all the fluids, tires, and gas her up. They say this stuff isn't important, but it is as they feel taken care of. |
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