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How do you gain a woman's trust back

 
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How do you gain a woman's trust back
Once the trust is broken it's really hard to build that bond we both once had. I've just really messed up by breaking words and promises. So how can I fix this?
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Re: How do you gain a woman's trust back
Once the trust is broken it's really hard to build that bond we both once had. I've just really messed up by breaking words and promises. So how can I fix this?
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Its too late to save your relationship, learn from it and move on.
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08/08/2020 10:01 AM
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Re: How do you gain a woman's trust back
Once the trust is broken it's really hard to build that bond we both once had. I've just really messed up by breaking words and promises. So how can I fix this?
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You cannot.

Just learn from it, wish her well and say good bye.
"Fiery the Angels rose, & as they rose deep thunder roll'd
Around their shores: indignant burning with the fires of Orc" - William Blake, America a Prophecy
(...also misquoted in Blade Runner by Roy Batty)

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08/08/2020 10:07 AM
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Re: How do you gain a woman's trust back
According to hollywood you destroy your sitting room .
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08/08/2020 10:08 AM
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Re: How do you gain a woman's trust back
A woman never forgets
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08/08/2020 10:13 AM
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Re: How do you gain a woman's trust back
meh! I disagree with everyone else here, once you get to know ANYONE, you will find reasons to mistrust them.
That's part of being in a relationship, the mask comes down and you realize that they are just as bad as you are.

The only way I know is to pretend for a while that it didn't happen. It sounds weird, but the longer you can hold out without bringing it up, then trust just kinda builds up, but it does take time.

Good luck OP, remember you don't need validation by anyone else, but atleast you are wanting to change yourself and perhaps learn from experience..

hf
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08/08/2020 10:15 AM
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Re: How do you gain a woman's trust back
A lady will if she sincerely loves you.

Say
1. I screwed up.
2. I hurt your feelings.
3. That was wrong.
4. You are important to me.
5. It will never ever happen again.
6. Can you find it in your heart to forgve me.

I bet she cries and you hold her and she'll forgive you.
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Re: How do you gain a woman's trust back
Once the trust is broken it's really hard to build that bond we both once had. I've just really messed up by breaking words and promises. So how can I fix this?
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that you can not come back from. YOU CAN TRY but your relationship has done been destroyed the question will be how many fights and accusations and living in turmoil before you see it.
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08/08/2020 10:22 AM

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Re: How do you gain a woman's trust back
Once the trust is broken it's really hard to build that bond we both once had. I've just really messed up by breaking words and promises. So how can I fix this?
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Next life?
LittleMe
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Re: How do you gain a woman's trust back
You don't.

Game some other bitch and don't show any of your weak qualities or she won't fuck you or respect you.

She'll start nagging, calling you names and ruining your self esteem.

If you lose the respect of a female, you're fucked.

I've had women eating out of my hand and fucking me 3x a day, but as soon as your feelings get involved she'll see you as weak and you will lose her.

They lose respect and start treating you like shit so you end up fucking your neighbor on your wife's bed when she goes out to dinner with her auntie.
 Quoting: Phoenix.


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08/08/2020 10:27 AM
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Re: How do you gain a woman's trust back
Only if her trusted surroundings (like direct family or very deeply trusted friend) will discuss YOU and give her the go or stay call.
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08/08/2020 10:29 AM
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Re: How do you gain a woman's trust back
Give her money
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It sounds dumb but play a tickling game where you play wrestle and tickle her. Then she will laugh and pout. So say, "Trust me."

So then bring your hands close to tickle her, but stop and kiss her PASSIONATELY instead. Rinse repeat. You make it a little game and trust is reestablished.
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08/08/2020 10:31 AM
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Re: How do you gain a woman's trust back
Stop pining over a single woman. I guarantee you she's moved on and had sex with several other men by now. She's not your soul mate.
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Re: How do you gain a woman's trust back
It sounds dumb but play a tickling game where you play wrestle and tickle her. Then she will laugh and pout. So say, "Trust me."

So then bring your hands close to tickle her, but stop and kiss her PASSIONATELY instead. Rinse repeat. You make it a little game and trust is reestablished.
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:wth:
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08/08/2020 10:33 AM
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Re: How do you gain a woman's trust back
Stop the hitting.
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Re: How do you gain a woman's trust back
In your spare time, write a sincere romantic note, and leave it on her pillow, when she showers, in her purse, in her lunch box, in the book she is reading.

She'll tease and mock you, but will like it, if it's sincere.
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Re: How do you gain a woman's trust back
A lady will if she sincerely loves you.

Say
1. I screwed up.
2. I hurt your feelings.
3. That was wrong.
4. You are important to me.
5. It will never ever happen again.
6. Can you find it in your heart to forgve me.

I bet she cries and you hold her and she'll forgive you.
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In reply to that being said to me, I'd say what a load of bs, and who told you to say that?

It's a man's ACTIONS that show the real man, not a bunch of meaningless words.
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08/08/2020 10:35 AM
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Re: How do you gain a woman's trust back
Women will also use "is typing a message" against you.

Do not, I repeat do not write something and delete it and then start typing a new message because they will see that you started over from what you were going to say.
;)

They see every single detail your stupid male brain doesn't register.
 Quoting: Phoenix.


Your not helpful at all. I'm trying to gain trust back not fck it all up and lose her. Most def wouldn't cheat on her. Lied to her about stuff yes I have but I wouldn't fck up on her.
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Re: How do you gain a woman's trust back
You can try appealing to her best friends.
"You got to help me. She's my whole world. I really am crazy in love with her. What can I do to remedy this?"

They will say, "Oh I won't tell her." and they will 100% of the time tell her. They like it when you humble yourself like that. It shows contrition.
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Re: How do you gain a woman's trust back
It has to be earned and that will take time and hard work, but sometimes you will never get trust back. Also understand, you might get away with the "forgiveness" once, but not twice.
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08/08/2020 10:38 AM
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Re: How do you gain a woman's trust back
A lady will if she sincerely loves you.

Say
1. I screwed up.
2. I hurt your feelings.
3. That was wrong.
4. You are important to me.
5. It will never ever happen again.
6. Can you find it in your heart to forgve me.

I bet she cries and you hold her and she'll forgive you.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 69599468



In reply to that being said to me, I'd say what a load of bs, and who told you to say that?

It's a man's ACTIONS that show the real man, not a bunch of meaningless words.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 78892158


Why would what a man says be meaningless???
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Re: How do you gain a woman's trust back
When someone shows you who they are...believe them.

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When you have messed up...show them you are working on change. It takes time to earn back trust. Words are, meh. And, never expect the one you have hurt to be open to your change. Sometimes, we have a lesson to learn, and with that lesson, can be a painful consequence. Best of luck rose
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Re: How do you gain a woman's trust back
Brag about your sweetheart's qualities in front of her parents.

Do the same in front of her friends and your friends.

Both matter more than compliments.
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08/08/2020 10:44 AM
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Re: How do you gain a woman's trust back
Find a new woman cuz the one who's trust you broke will never let you forget it!
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08/08/2020 10:46 AM
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Re: How do you gain a woman's trust back
Ladies like when they have a decent sitting room for reading, a nicer bathroom, an organized walk-in closet, or a way better sewing room. Do these for her if you are handy with tools. Ain't hard. It'll make her happy. Not expensive either.

A guy wouldn't care, but they sure do.

Take her to get new very high thread count linens (Egyptian cotton), pillows, a down comforter for the bed. It'll be fou-fou but make her happy.
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Re: How do you gain a woman's trust back
When was the last time you washed, waxed, polished, vaccumed, detailed her vehicle? Do that and get her some music she wants but hasn't bought yet.

Do all the fluids, tires, and gas her up.

They say this stuff isn't important, but it is as they feel taken care of.
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08/08/2020 10:52 AM
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If you really screwed up, well a Coach purse, orchids or gardenias, a fur, a bracelet, these things help.
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08/08/2020 10:56 AM
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Re: How do you gain a woman's trust back
Take her to go get or order online some fancy silk pajamas. They love longing in them and they feel like a princess.
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Re: How do you gain a woman's trust back
will never happen.....write it off and find a new one.
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Re: How do you gain a woman's trust back
If she's a foodie, sit with her and peruse a Harry and David catelogue and have specialty chocolates or fruit or whatever she wants sent every month for a year. They look forward to it.





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