My mother calls me a psycho :(

She's mixing science and religion to get the double strength manipulation. She's lying right off the bat.

Are they all like that in the family?

Have you ever tortured any animals op?

Or threatened your family members?

That's my brother's job.

I think that Ryan Reynolds is a pole smoker.

does 1+1=2?
if you say yes,then you are sane.
if you care what a religitard thinks,then you are an idiot.
are you a sane idiot?

I have not talked to my mom in over a year

She said some nasty things about me and my wife for no particular reason other then upset me. We do not even live in the same state

There is no rule in life that you need to befriend your parents. You were stuck with them, but they chose to have you. Parents should love their children.

If not, walk away. No big deal

Tell her to take that religious bs down the road . Next time walk in on her showering and just look at her like a weirdo.

Log in Rey

you should hang out with your brother more.

Maybe this will bring clarity to what your mother is trying to explain to you OP:

Maybe shes afraid, and projecting her feelings about herself onto you. The mind is a scary place for may people, and being lost in the mind is worse.