How to deal with being unwanted by women?

But he's not a cuck lol. He has no SO.

It's damn funny how much the word "cuck" is misused.

Brother,

You don't find the woman.
The woman finds you.

1. Try going to church for yourself. For me praying meditating doing something spiritual helps. For me praying Jesus is awesome. This is the way.

2. Any issue in your life that looks like a mountain, break it down into boulders or large rocks. Make Goals, and work towards changing stuff.

3. Self pity begets more self pity and depression. It is a cycle that gets you nowhere. Some people begin to like it and it really prevents you from going nowhere. So going back to my first point, go to church and your first spiritual goal is to forgive yourself and others who may have wronged you and let any emotional baggage of your past go. Really let it go... The biggest issue i see in America is we do not know how to forgive.

4. Begin to Love yourself. How can someone love you if you don't love yourself? Be grateful for your life. Believe you will be prosperous in your endeavors. Pray for it. Think about it through out your day. Keep your thoughts positive.
What you think in your head space is what you will be.

5. Be helpful to others.

At some point when things are going well in your life. A woman will reveal herself to you.

Pickup lines, bars, hair-do, mouth wash and a popped collar... this is not the way.

Making something of yourself and being happy with yourself and loving yourself will naturally draw a woman to you.

You can be a eye patch wearing, peg leg, fat-ass and it will still work because she sees you as solid guy.

Now when she finds you, you have to decide if she is right for you or not.

That's another topic...

Box, you're going to have a real sharp learning curve coming up.

First of all, I think the OP is a Troll. But, that's okay because the topic is worthy of discussion.

However, almost everyone in this thread has FAILED to answer the OPs question. The question posed is NOT how to get a woman, but how to deal with being unwanted.

So, OP you are unwanted...right?

The fact that the OP is 30 and says he, "Lives with Mommy and Daddy." is a big tip that he is not serious, about this thread or life in general.

OP, you NEED to accept that you are fucked. That's right, you are in deep shit. Anyone who is 30 years old and living at home is in deep shit.

You don't need nor deserve a woman right now. You NEED a job! You don't need to buy a home right now, rent an apartment...but you need to make some cash.

But, fuck that, because you don't care. You like living in your parent's home at 30 years old. Now, you want to know with how you deal with being horny and not getting any loving.

You do what you did when you were 16. You do what you did when you were 20. You do what you did when you were 25. You don't do shit! You just live with it, and you suffer. You can watch free porn, and fantasize about hot women all day. And you will suffer!

Nobody is unwanted.

Get that through your head OP.

There is somebody for everyone.

But, if you think you are going to get a porn star for a girlfriend...you will suffer.

You deal with being unwanted by ACCEPTING your situation, and your situation SUCKS.

Being unwanted and feeling like a loser is who you are right now. ACCEPT that fact.

Some people on this thread claim women are just a pain in the ass, and to a large extent, sadly due to feminism and brainwashing, is largely true. But, good women do exist. They do! And a man will function better with a good woman as his mate. Hard to find in today's world, but it is the way we were created. You do like women OP...right? I hope so.

The desire to find a good woman can drive a man to do great things. Are you undesirable OP? What makes you undesirable? Forget about women for the moment. Does anyone like you? If so...why?

Right now I don't like you because I think you are a troll, and you are 30 years old, on GLP, asking for advice. Are you a fucking idiot OP? Asking for advice on GLP? Shit, consider yourself very lucky, because the comments on this thread have been very kind to you. It could be MUCH worse. Trust me!

Imagine wanting to be nagged, distracted, annoyed, your time with friends taken away, not being able to enjoy your hobbies and never again have a free fucking life...

BECAUSE YOU WANT PUSSY THIS BAD.

Christ OP, just bang some hoes and go back to your hobbies. Build a business, build your body, live your life.

Stay away from them. Period.

Dude you’re close to living the dream. You already don’t have to deal with them on a daily basis. Find yourself a playmate. If the virus ever ends go down to the t1tty bar and throw some money around. Ask the bartender if she will break a $100. Word gets out. The key here is to find women for fun, not for relationships. Keep them around on *your* terms, not theirs. Make it clear you won’t pay them a dime. You won’t pay their rent regardless of the sob story. You’re there for fun. You’ll find someone. Just don’t fall in to the trap bc remember the goal is to live the dream. You don’t want them around much.

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I feel so bad for you.

Praying for help for ya.

You always pay for sex and companionship.
The trick is to find a female that will cheat you less than most will cheat you for it.

This.

They ultimately want your money.

You sound like a high class guy.

Good advice there. I sometimes make homemade perfumes, but jewellery is even better... My Dad makes cigar box guitars...

Start mewing.

There are good women out there.

You losers just need to leave the trailer court once in awhile.

Cool story dink does he use cat guts for the strings?......

Now that you're 30 and "undamaged" by another woman I am sure that there are thousands of single mom's out there OP.
Have at it.

Go Fuck Yourself.....


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You probably think the Government is spraying chemicals in the air or the Earth is flat huh retard. LULZ!

I'm almost 40 and have never had a girlfriend or a date. But at the same time, the females not being interested has allowed me to chase the paper. I make six figures and get a raise every year. My last paycheck this year should put me over the payroll tax limit, so I should even be scoring a few extra hundred at the end. If the females aren't interested, then they don't get any of it. That means its all for me. No child support, no nothing!
At the same time the aliens torture the hell out of me night and day, so I don't even know if a girlfriend would work out. Part of the reason the females have never been interested is that the aliens that chase me all over the place control what they're thinking, so that kind of instantly means a permanent dry spell for me.
And, also... with the apocalypse looming anytime, there's exactly 3 ways to score pussy.

There are lots of answers besides money. You can be a dick. Girls love that. Or be bold. Or be both. Buy a nice watch and pretend like you’re rich. I owned a breitling and Rolex years before I was prosperous for this very reason. Extra effective in strip clubs.

Look I’m 50 years old and 2 years ago I picked up two 21 year olds while walking back from a bar to my hotel in ft lauderdale beach. It didn’t cost me buying them a single drink. Not one. It was late at night, I was drunk, I saw them walking and I simply walked in between them and gave each girl a swat and within 20 feet it was a done deal. I don’t recommend this for all cases unless the signals are right and I could tell they were right away, they dug me. Girls with daddy issues. Lol.

Point is you don’t need a lot of money. Girls are stupid. Buy a nice watch and trick them into thinking you’re wealthy and/or be an opportunist like I was in ft lauderdale. I’d start with a nice watch. Buy a used breitling or omega. Something shiny. Not too big. Wish I could help you more.

You might need to research rooshiv.

begin working out:work up to 50 pushups, sit-ups, and pullups daily for three weeks.
begin testosterone i.m. injection cycling... get gym membership and continue working out with test for 9 more weeks.
begin noticing girls notice you as you move through the world.

The F!

Dude, you sound like a SUPERNOVA of negativity.

You always hear all this magical BS about affirmation, yada yada yada.

Find a speech counselor.

Learn to talk in the affirmative!!!

W/o busting you 'nads too much...

For example...

>Currently I have no job.

Makes it sound like you're from Allentown, PA.

(Youz ben owt hauntin houzes?)

How about...

I don't currently have a job. (Which is insanely negative, but it doesn't sound like you are dragging around a TRAIN of sea trunks)

Screw all that!

It is 100% a mind set.

Just BE what you want to be.

(It's crazy subtle...)

Don't 'work' towards anything. Don't 'plan' on being ( ) based on ( ).

Just BE it.

DING!

It applies to almost everything!

You will INSTANTLY be that person.

Smarter. Funnier. Sexier. Attractive. Muscular... (ad infinitum)

Your appearance will morph into your self image.

(It's magic and you WILL be shocked)

I've reprogrammed a LOT of people. Usually, crippled by self-inflicted ANXIETIES, usually brought by parents, sometimes oblivious, more often abusive. Most people don't really even notice. :)

Starting RIGHT NOW... You WILL like yourself.

You WILL also find a way to change your isolationist tendencies up... Find a reason to just hang out.

And ENJOY every minute.

Somewhere. Anywhere.

And start watching people.

REALLY WATCHING people.

And if you just happen to make eye contact, you will explode with the biggest smile ever.

If it's becomes inappropriate and someone comes over and is giving your grief. You will LIE right to their face and tell them: "I'm sorry... I mistook you for a friend of mine."

And strike up a conversation...

And smile. It changes everything.

We'll talk later... If that's what YOU want.

And when the opportunity comes... And it will come... PAY IT FORWARD.

;)

I have never loved a woman in my entire life and I have no regrets. Even the Christian women that I have known have been so tainted by feminism that they are nearly as delusional as unbelievers.

I gave up on it years ago and I've never looked back.

Don't care. Because I know the only reason is because I'm a Christian. I know it for a fact so I have no regrets.

I wrote off Romance when I was 23 years old because I saw the writing on the wall even then.

Women do not want a good man but they do want a good old boy.



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Female here, happily married to the same guy for 40+ years.

From a woman's perspective:

You're work-shy because many jobs are beneath you. And 30 and living with Mommy and Daddy who no doubt support you. That is a huge, huge, red flag.

That tells a woman several things: a) not normal b) childish and c) she will be the only wage-earner and be expected to take care of the house and any kids too, while dealing with a man-baby.

Most women will run like hell. Dollars to donuts, there's a weight issue to boot which is just diarrhea icing on a shit cake.

I know there's lots of crappy women out there (ditto for men), but if you're unemployed or underemployed, obese, and feeling sorry for yourself, why WOULD a woman be interested?

People want to be with other people because they're interesting in some way. Maybe it's as shallow as looks. Maybe it's confidence in themselves. Maybe they're funny, or great talkers or one of a million things.

If you don't have something to give to another because you fill unfilled, you won't attract someone. It sounds dumb, but you have to like yourself. That means getting off of your ass, getting a job, taking care of yourself physically (most women don't mind some extra weight - I prefer a bit extra in fact but a fat man-baby doesn't do it for us.)

When young, I was pretty, vivacious and educated. People thought I was fun and I could talk. My husband was attractive (to me), showed early on he'd be a good daddy (seeing him with my nieces/nephews), and he was on the path to have a stable job. A stable job can be anything from a trade to an office job to a management job. In other words, enough to support a family. I was on a path to that too.

That's how it is. I had to learn the hard way as a young teen that no one likes whiners or people who feel sorry for themselves. Those types get bullied. You have to bring something to the table. That's human nature.

I consider that I married up. He's a gem.

This is the honest hard truth from a regular woman. Not a woman who plays games or a woman who likes to play the field (staying single) or a woman who is a gold-digger. The kind of woman many of you guys want is like this. We're here. But you have to get out of the house to find us.

Listens to Ozzy, blames women because he can't have a relationship.... LOLZ LOLZ LOLZ LOLZ LOLZ.

OK Cuck

some inspiration for op



get your crap together, you have a life to live

Ok fuck everything ^^^^^^^^^^ This guy.. This guy!

I blame Satan for being Satan.

But I'm not going to change who I am so that Satan will be my girlfriend.

Understand?

They're free to go be who they are. As long as I'm free to be who I am. We are completely incompatible.

I took enough horseshit when I was growing up. I'm sure not taking it as an adult.

It's better this way. It's lonely but it's free. And I value my freedom above all Else.

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No man is to be alone. God told us that he will give us a help meat, a companion. Who are we to doubt God? You will find love, at 29 or 79, God is looking out for you. Help him in his decision. Don’t drink or smoke. Do not covet another mans wife or life. He gave you your(life). Live it with Jesus on your side. I have been without female comfort for 11 years.

I not only hold hope, I know it’s for a reason. God bless!