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Anonymous Coward User ID: 79689797 United States 11/27/2020 01:18 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I think maybe I didn’t get my point across very well. I’m a respectable person, I have strong morals even if I’m not a virgin, I don’t flaunt my sexuality around, and people at the church we both attended knew and liked me. So why was he keeping me a secret from his friends and family? Like he was embarrassed of me. The chick he’s with now is skanky, anyone can see that. But he’s proud of her and showing her off to all his good Christian friends and coworkers? That’s what I don’t get. Why isn’t he keeping her a secret too? Quoting: Anonymous Coward 78911762 Because she is hot most likely I think maybe I didn’t get my point across very well. I’m a respectable person, I have strong morals even if I’m not a virgin, I don’t flaunt my sexuality around, and people at the church we both attended knew and liked me. So why was he keeping me a secret from his friends and family? Like he was embarrassed of me. The chick he’s with now is skanky, anyone can see that. But he’s proud of her and showing her off to all his good Christian friends and coworkers? That’s what I don’t get. Why isn’t he keeping her a secret too? Quoting: Anonymous Coward 78911762 Because she is hot most likely She’s overweight and doesn’t wash her hair or wear makeup and dresses like a train wreck, is that hot? Not being petty. But you have a penis. |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 72558093 United States 11/27/2020 01:25 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Explain this to me, please. Ex boyfriend (he worked at my church, that's how I met him) who claims to be religious dumped me a few months ago because he said I was taking his focus off of God. He said I was distracting him and he felt guilty about the sex stuff. He was a virgin, I wasn't, and we never had sex but we did some stuff. He told me to leave him alone and blocked all communication with me, said he needed to pray more and I should pray more too. I'm not a hoe and I never pressured him to do anything, in fact I set boundaries in our relationship--boundaries he crossed repeatedly and then blamed me for. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 78911762 So here's the thing I don't get, he's now dating a complete hoe. For the record, I am not a hoe; I'm hot, smart, fun, wildly entertaining, educated, employed, classy, and humble. This chick he's with, she's a hoe. She posts nakie pics on her insta in the name of art. She's super liberal. She loves to flash the third finger anytime any place (so classy). She's not religious at all. And she most definitely ain't a virgin, yo. So in a few months he goes from "I gotta focus on God" to focusing on some classless broad. Ok then. He kept me his dirty little secret throughout our entire relationship, but he's flaunting his relationship with her all over the internet. He still works for the church (I don't go there anymore) and he still claims to be devoutly religious. So why did he use me, then discard me like trash, but now he's dating trash, and is proud of it? (Like she's a hoarder, she literally hoards trash.) All his church peoples are gonna approve of her? I don't think so. But somehow it's ok to flaunt the hoe but he didn't want anyone to know he was with me? I don't get it, someone please tell me. And no I don't want him back, I already had that, and besides he's gotten fat. i am avail if you are in colorado? |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 79689797 United States 11/27/2020 01:26 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Explain this to me, please. Ex boyfriend (he worked at my church, that's how I met him) who claims to be religious dumped me a few months ago because he said I was taking his focus off of God. He said I was distracting him and he felt guilty about the sex stuff. He was a virgin, I wasn't, and we never had sex but we did some stuff. He told me to leave him alone and blocked all communication with me, said he needed to pray more and I should pray more too. I'm not a hoe and I never pressured him to do anything, in fact I set boundaries in our relationship--boundaries he crossed repeatedly and then blamed me for. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 78911762 So here's the thing I don't get, he's now dating a complete hoe. For the record, I am not a hoe; I'm hot, smart, fun, wildly entertaining, educated, employed, classy, and humble. This chick he's with, she's a hoe. She posts nakie pics on her insta in the name of art. She's super liberal. She loves to flash the third finger anytime any place (so classy). She's not religious at all. And she most definitely ain't a virgin, yo. So in a few months he goes from "I gotta focus on God" to focusing on some classless broad. Ok then. He kept me his dirty little secret throughout our entire relationship, but he's flaunting his relationship with her all over the internet. He still works for the church (I don't go there anymore) and he still claims to be devoutly religious. So why did he use me, then discard me like trash, but now he's dating trash, and is proud of it? (Like she's a hoarder, she literally hoards trash.) All his church peoples are gonna approve of her? I don't think so. But somehow it's ok to flaunt the hoe but he didn't want anyone to know he was with me? I don't get it, someone please tell me. And no I don't want him back, I already had that, and besides he's gotten fat. i am avail if you are in colorado? You like dudes, huh? |
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Nipples McGee User ID: 78132725 United States 11/27/2020 01:28 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Explain this to me, please. Ex boyfriend (he worked at my church, that's how I met him) who claims to be religious dumped me a few months ago because he said I was taking his focus off of God. He said I was distracting him and he felt guilty about the sex stuff. He was a virgin, I wasn't, and we never had sex but we did some stuff. He told me to leave him alone and blocked all communication with me, said he needed to pray more and I should pray more too. I'm not a hoe and I never pressured him to do anything, in fact I set boundaries in our relationship--boundaries he crossed repeatedly and then blamed me for. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 78911762 So here's the thing I don't get, he's now dating a complete hoe. For the record, I am not a hoe; I'm hot, smart, fun, wildly entertaining, educated, employed, classy, and humble. This chick he's with, she's a hoe. She posts nakie pics on her insta in the name of art. She's super liberal. She loves to flash the third finger anytime any place (so classy). She's not religious at all. And she most definitely ain't a virgin, yo. So in a few months he goes from "I gotta focus on God" to focusing on some classless broad. Ok then. He kept me his dirty little secret throughout our entire relationship, but he's flaunting his relationship with her all over the internet. He still works for the church (I don't go there anymore) and he still claims to be devoutly religious. So why did he use me, then discard me like trash, but now he's dating trash, and is proud of it? (Like she's a hoarder, she literally hoards trash.) All his church peoples are gonna approve of her? I don't think so. But somehow it's ok to flaunt the hoe but he didn't want anyone to know he was with me? I don't get it, someone please tell me. And no I don't want him back, I already had that, and besides he's gotten fat. i am avail if you are in colorado? You want to see his Boulders? Nipples McGee |
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Rainbow7 User ID: 79143241 United States 11/27/2020 01:30 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Explain this to me, please. Ex boyfriend (he worked at my church, that's how I met him) who claims to be religious dumped me a few months ago because he said I was taking his focus off of God. He said I was distracting him and he felt guilty about the sex stuff. He was a virgin, I wasn't, and we never had sex but we did some stuff. He told me to leave him alone and blocked all communication with me, said he needed to pray more and I should pray more too. I'm not a hoe and I never pressured him to do anything, in fact I set boundaries in our relationship--boundaries he crossed repeatedly and then blamed me for. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 78911762 So here's the thing I don't get, he's now dating a complete hoe. For the record, I am not a hoe; I'm hot, smart, fun, wildly entertaining, educated, employed, classy, and humble. This chick he's with, she's a hoe. She posts nakie pics on her insta in the name of art. She's super liberal. She loves to flash the third finger anytime any place (so classy). She's not religious at all. And she most definitely ain't a virgin, yo. So in a few months he goes from "I gotta focus on God" to focusing on some classless broad. Ok then. He kept me his dirty little secret throughout our entire relationship, but he's flaunting his relationship with her all over the internet. He still works for the church (I don't go there anymore) and he still claims to be devoutly religious. So why did he use me, then discard me like trash, but now he's dating trash, and is proud of it? (Like she's a hoarder, she literally hoards trash.) All his church peoples are gonna approve of her? I don't think so. But somehow it's ok to flaunt the hoe but he didn't want anyone to know he was with me? I don't get it, someone please tell me. And no I don't want him back, I already had that, and besides he's gotten fat. Muslim mothers tell their daughters "If you don't take care of your Husband, someone else will" |
3643297 User ID: 76832232 United States 11/27/2020 01:43 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | so by your own words. you're a well experienced hoe who didn't have sex with him? Quoting: Anonymous Coward 74322544 roflmao. so what use were you? and you wonder why he replaced you with a hoe who does have sex with him? come on. you can't be that dense! He didn’t want to have sex, he said no sex before marriage so I respected that. And I’m not a hoe just because I’d had sex before and he hadn’t. I never pushed him to do anything, or tried to seduce him. He initiated the physical stuff we did. I was always respectful and considerate of his boundaries. Was I supposed to throw myself at him or something? Your only mistake was dating a man who didn’t want to have sex before marriage. You should have dropped him the first time he said no. |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 2917619 Canada 11/27/2020 01:53 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | He gave you a message that he wanted out. Let him live his live and you live yours. You will meet someone else more your type, whatever your type is. ^This! OP is holding onto something and someone who doesn't matter at all. Obsession is a terrible waste of energy. Fuck that. |
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Interested_1 User ID: 79065899 United States 11/27/2020 02:43 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I had a friend like you once. She was critical of anyone her ex-boyfriend chose to date. She once said "He can barely pick out his clothes, how is he going to be able to pick a wife?" I was talking with him once and he acknowledged that she was too "in his life" for an ex, but "whatcha gonna do." Well, funny thing is, once she moved three states away, he finally found his soulmate...someone my friend would never "approve" of. So, mind your own business and live your own life. You aren't part of his any longer. Take the red pill now...later it will come as a suppository. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 78729715 United States 11/27/2020 02:47 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I had a friend like you once. She was critical of anyone her ex-boyfriend chose to date. She once said "He can barely pick out his clothes, how is he going to be able to pick a wife?" Quoting: Interested_1 I was talking with him once and he acknowledged that she was too "in his life" for an ex, but "whatcha gonna do." Well, funny thing is, once she moved three states away, he finally found his soulmate...someone my friend would never "approve" of. So, mind your own business and live your own life. You aren't part of his any longer. It isn't her fault. She's in love or something that feels like it. Likely has father or mother issues clouding her emotions too. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 72503748 United States 11/27/2020 02:51 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Explain this to me, please. Ex boyfriend (he worked at my church, that's how I met him) who claims to be religious dumped me a few months ago because he said I was taking his focus off of God. He said I was distracting him and he felt guilty about the sex stuff. He was a virgin, I wasn't, and we never had sex but we did some stuff. He told me to leave him alone and blocked all communication with me, said he needed to pray more and I should pray more too. I'm not a hoe and I never pressured him to do anything, in fact I set boundaries in our relationship--boundaries he crossed repeatedly and then blamed me for. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 78911762 So here's the thing I don't get, he's now dating a complete hoe. For the record, I am not a hoe; I'm hot, smart, fun, wildly entertaining, educated, employed, classy, and humble. This chick he's with, she's a hoe. She posts nakie pics on her insta in the name of art. She's super liberal. She loves to flash the third finger anytime any place (so classy). She's not religious at all. And she most definitely ain't a virgin, yo. So in a few months he goes from "I gotta focus on God" to focusing on some classless broad. Ok then. He kept me his dirty little secret throughout our entire relationship, but he's flaunting his relationship with her all over the internet. He still works for the church (I don't go there anymore) and he still claims to be devoutly religious. So why did he use me, then discard me like trash, but now he's dating trash, and is proud of it? (Like she's a hoarder, she literally hoards trash.) All his church peoples are gonna approve of her? I don't think so. But somehow it's ok to flaunt the hoe but he didn't want anyone to know he was with me? I don't get it, someone please tell me. And no I don't want him back, I already had that, and besides he's gotten fat. The religious ones sin the most. They’re fake, backstabbing, lying, adulterous pedos. But repent. Accept Jesus and all will be ok. Only if you fit their needs. |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 77279842 United States 11/27/2020 03:11 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | this aint were gods chosen ones hang out dear this is where god hating people hang out so your response will be of the nature that suits you, not to good learn to not become co-dependent dear, but its the premise of the christian religion , so take your pick ps just be a goddess who nees a god then |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 2917619 Canada 11/27/2020 03:12 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | this aint were gods chosen ones hang out dear Quoting: Anonymous Coward 77279842 this is where god hating people hang out so your response will be of the nature that suits you, not to good learn to not become co-dependent dear, but its the premise of the christian religion , so take your pick ps just be a goddess who nees a god then Huh? |
Keilani User ID: 77232079 United States 11/27/2020 03:12 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Go get him. Rebuke him. Dont let him fall off the deep end. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 79677721 Tell him, "now that you got sex out of the way, its time you come back to me because I will not ruin your life like she will. If you knock her up, she will be a horrible mother and a cheating partner. If you knocked me up at least Id make a good wife with similar values." She's a Jezebel and Im not. Make him verbalize a yes or no answer to a question like, Dont you know that she is no good, and Im a better choice for your life and job etc. something like that. just make him say yes or no. When he agrees with you, kiss him then say," Im your girlfriend now so break it off with her". You'll live happily ever after. Tell him plain and simple just like that. I really hope to God you're joking and being sarcastic. |
Keilani User ID: 77232079 United States 11/27/2020 03:14 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | People make excuses to leave. Like any rejection what's said very rarely matters at all. He didn't want you around anymore that's the long and short of it. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 79691678 You're wasting energy thinking about either of them. Keep pushing forward. Yeah, best answer yet. People WILL make any excuse in the book to move on, especially not to hurt the other person, OR just to be left along. Clearly, that's what he wanted, so don't waste your time and energy. Also, if he's the whoremonger type, which he obviously is, why are you even wasting like two minutes thinking about him. He sounds gross. |
Keilani User ID: 77232079 United States 11/27/2020 03:19 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Go get him. Rebuke him. Dont let him fall off the deep end. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 79677721 Tell him, "now that you got sex out of the way, its time you come back to me because I will not ruin your life like she will. If you knock her up, she will be a horrible mother and a cheating partner. If you knocked me up at least Id make a good wife with similar values." She's a Jezebel and Im not. Make him verbalize a yes or no answer to a question like, Dont you know that she is no good, and Im a better choice for your life and job etc. something like that. just make him say yes or no. When he agrees with you, kiss him then say," Im your girlfriend now so break it off with her". You'll live happily ever after. Tell him plain and simple just like that. I posted this because I once was like this man. Deeply Christian, went celebrate for several years , then met a Jezebel. ruined my life. If I only had someone who would have intervened! A Jezebel will dull the still quite voice of God's wisdom. This is why a strong forward approach is needed. You know you still care for him, maybe love him or else you would not of posted this. Proverbs 27:5 "Better is open rebuke than hidden love". Honestly, even though I don't know you, BUT I don't think anything in the world would have changed your mind back then, just like this man. When men are young and have no sense and think with their d/k, you can't change that. All that will do is set this girl up for more hurt, and he will use her even more, so totally bad idea, and sorry for your luck, but you make bad choices, and then you have to sleep in the bed you made, quite literally. I have seen far too many girls with this mindset, and they continually take the whoremonger man back, and they NEVER stop, I'm saying it NEVER, so that is complete hogwash. Go get yourself a truly nice, Christian man, that is actually thoughtful. BUT make sure you're equally nice and not full of yourself. Last Edited by Keilani on 11/27/2020 03:19 PM |
President Elect oniongrass User ID: 79436619 United States 11/27/2020 03:20 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Go get him. Rebuke him. Dont let him fall off the deep end. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 79677721 Tell him, "now that you got sex out of the way, its time you come back to me because I will not ruin your life like she will. If you knock her up, she will be a horrible mother and a cheating partner. If you knocked me up at least Id make a good wife with similar values." She's a Jezebel and Im not. Make him verbalize a yes or no answer to a question like, Dont you know that she is no good, and Im a better choice for your life and job etc. something like that. just make him say yes or no. When he agrees with you, kiss him then say," Im your girlfriend now so break it off with her". You'll live happily ever after. Tell him plain and simple just like that. I posted this because I once was like this man. Deeply Christian, went celebrate for several years , then met a Jezebel. ruined my life. If I only had someone who would have intervened! A Jezebel will dull the still quite voice of God's wisdom. This is why a strong forward approach is needed. You know you still care for him, maybe love him or else you would not of posted this. Proverbs 27:5 "Better is open rebuke than hidden love". I do still care about him, but he’s made his bed and now he’s doing who knows what in it. I’ll pray for him but I don’t think talking to him would do any good at this point. He’s completely infatuated with her. Please try to put him out of your mind totally, I mean dump him and any thought of him. This is the same advice I give to guys. If it helps, think about him in the natural way. This is certainly not a sin. He's an idiot and can go to hell for all you care. I can't explain this behavior either. But if you keep trying to figure it out, you'll waste your life. It's not your problem, it's his, you can't and WON'T EVEN TRY TO save him. . DON'T VAX, PROPHYLAX! ____________ There is no anger in Me: If one offers Me thorns and thistles, I will march to battle against him, And set all of them on fire. But if he holds fast to My refuge, He makes Me his friend; He makes Me his friend. (Isaiah 27:4-5) |
Keilani User ID: 77232079 United States 11/27/2020 03:22 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | He just wasn't that into you. Move on and stop snooping around into what he's doing after he split ways with you Quoting: EllenRipley Yeah, sometimes that's hard advice for some people to take, but the sooner you do, the happier you will be. It's not very attractive to appear to be concerned at all about his dumb a/ss, especially since he sounds like a total idiot. In fact, I don't think you really like him anymore, but it was just the idea that it wasn't you, so you're just giving him more of an ego boost thinking about him, so just move on in a classy way and have nothing to do with him. |