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Family Court is a disgrace

 
LooneyBin
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03/12/2021 12:11 AM
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Family Court is a disgrace
I need to vent.

My daughter turns 19 in a couple of weeks. She is in college. I'm paying 100% of her college because my state requires that the non-custodial parent pay.

But why is the mother the "custodial" parent for an adult? Furthermore, why am I paying my ex Child Support when I'm paying for her college, room, board, food, clothes, healthcare costs, and splitting time 50/50 with the ex when my daughter is not in college.

It's criminal and legalized theft.
LooneyBin  (OP)

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The court is requiring me to pay Child Support to my ex even though my daughter will be 23 at the time.

Holy crap this is insanity.
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03/12/2021 12:23 AM
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The court is requiring me to pay Child Support to my ex even though my daughter will be 23 at the time.

Holy crap this is insanity.
 Quoting: LooneyBin


What are you retarded? Your daughter is an adult now.


Get the fuck out of the state and live your life.
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03/12/2021 12:49 AM
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I cut a deal with my son paid direct. Your gonna pay anyway may as well look like a champ.

Not sure about college expenses, tough state.
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03/12/2021 12:57 AM
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Hmmm... one would think that you would want to do anything for your daughter, over 18 or not. One would also assume that that both parents would wish to do anything for their child, adult or not.

All that brutal posturing over being grown, an adult, yet two two people met and found something about the other attractive enough to marry and have children. I understand that sometimes that life doesnt work out and relationships fail.

You have claimed repeatedly that both you and wife are the adults. Why not behave like one, and work together to provide everything your children need so that develop to be worthless whiners like you.

You complain of not spending time with your daughter as in 50/50. Chances are your exwife has not enjoyed the company of your daughter 50% of her time. Children reach an age when they would rather spend time with friends and working on developing becoming adults.

This does not mean they no longer need us, nor that they no longer want us. It certainly does not mean we dont need them either. Funny how as we get older, and our children reach adulthood how in reality we need them more than ever and even though they are able to fend for themselves and even provide comfort for us at times, yet there still need the parent on occasion, even if its watching grandchildren, sometimes financial, or just someone to smile and say how proud they are.

Stand up and be proud, not only of your little girl going to school to better herself, but be proud that you are there and helping make it happen it and that you are in a position to help her, as there are many Fathers never there, some that are, are not able to be as big a financial help, or just like you, unable to be the adult and work together with the Mother of your child to ensure both parents are in the picture and are actually adults, even though because of no fault of her own, her Mother and Father couldn't keep it working between them.

No court should ever need to force parents to pay for their children to grow up with what they need, each parent should be ready to be the Adult and provide more than they need. They should be able to do that without bitching, moaning, or crying. That's what being an adult is, now why don't you finally become an adult for your daughter
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I got lucky. I only payed for 4 years. 850 a month. Not bad for 2 kids. But I moved out of state after divorce. Ex.turned into a junkie and sent the kids to me . Haven't heard from her in since they been with me for 4 or 5 years. I got full custody. Was easy cause she wasn't contesting it. But what was hard is waiting. I had to put it in her local newspaper. Send someone to her last known address which was her mom. And the process server took a statement from her. Basically she's a homeless junkie. Then I had her mugshots I got online as evidence too. Was a slam dunk besides the waiting so long cause u have to attempt to serve her. Was 6k but the lawyer only charged me 3 cause it was an easy case. As a man having full custody its rare. And I hated paying that child support every month knowing not all of it was going to the kids.
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03/12/2021 01:25 AM
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Hmmm... one would think that you would want to do anything for your daughter, over 18 or not. One would also assume that that both parents would wish to do anything for their child, adult or not.

All that brutal posturing over being grown, an adult, yet two two people met and found something about the other attractive enough to marry and have children. I understand that sometimes that life doesnt work out and relationships fail.

You have claimed repeatedly that both you and wife are the adults. Why not behave like one, and work together to provide everything your children need so that develop to be worthless whiners like you.

You complain of not spending time with your daughter as in 50/50. Chances are your exwife has not enjoyed the company of your daughter 50% of her time. Children reach an age when they would rather spend time with friends and working on developing becoming adults.

This does not mean they no longer need us, nor that they no longer want us. It certainly does not mean we dont need them either. Funny how as we get older, and our children reach adulthood how in reality we need them more than ever and even though they are able to fend for themselves and even provide comfort for us at times, yet there still need the parent on occasion, even if its watching grandchildren, sometimes financial, or just someone to smile and say how proud they are.

Stand up and be proud, not only of your little girl going to school to better herself, but be proud that you are there and helping make it happen it and that you are in a position to help her, as there are many Fathers never there, some that are, are not able to be as big a financial help, or just like you, unable to be the adult and work together with the Mother of your child to ensure both parents are in the picture and are actually adults, even though because of no fault of her own, her Mother and Father couldn't keep it working between them.

No court should ever need to force parents to pay for their children to grow up with what they need, each parent should be ready to be the Adult and provide more than they need. They should be able to do that without bitching, moaning, or crying. That's what being an adult is, now why don't you finally become an adult for your daughter
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 76509910



I think you're missing what I said. We split time 50/50. So the ex DOES get to enjoy our child.

Anyway, it takes two to tango. We spoke about child support ending and me continuing to pay for her college and healthcare. We had the conversation 2 weeks ago. She then went behind my back and filed for an extension of support.

Get it? You can't have 2 adults working together when one only cares about money. Furthermore, the state giving her 6 months to decide to extend and me 5 days to object is ridiculous.

Last Edited by LooneyBin on 03/12/2021 01:28 AM
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03/12/2021 02:08 AM
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Hmmm... one would think that you would want to do anything for your daughter, over 18 or not. One would also assume that that both parents would wish to do anything for their child, adult or not.

All that brutal posturing over being grown, an adult, yet two two people met and found something about the other attractive enough to marry and have children. I understand that sometimes that life doesnt work out and relationships fail.

You have claimed repeatedly that both you and wife are the adults. Why not behave like one, and work together to provide everything your children need so that develop to be worthless whiners like you.

You complain of not spending time with your daughter as in 50/50. Chances are your exwife has not enjoyed the company of your daughter 50% of her time. Children reach an age when they would rather spend time with friends and working on developing becoming adults.

This does not mean they no longer need us, nor that they no longer want us. It certainly does not mean we dont need them either. Funny how as we get older, and our children reach adulthood how in reality we need them more than ever and even though they are able to fend for themselves and even provide comfort for us at times, yet there still need the parent on occasion, even if its watching grandchildren, sometimes financial, or just someone to smile and say how proud they are.

Stand up and be proud, not only of your little girl going to school to better herself, but be proud that you are there and helping make it happen it and that you are in a position to help her, as there are many Fathers never there, some that are, are not able to be as big a financial help, or just like you, unable to be the adult and work together with the Mother of your child to ensure both parents are in the picture and are actually adults, even though because of no fault of her own, her Mother and Father couldn't keep it working between them.

No court should ever need to force parents to pay for their children to grow up with what they need, each parent should be ready to be the Adult and provide more than they need. They should be able to do that without bitching, moaning, or crying. That's what being an adult is, now why don't you finally become an adult for your daughter
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 76509910


Problem in the story is not that he complains having to care about her daughter. Problem is that he pays for all the costs coming with bringing up a kid and let her go to school and NE XT to that pays child support to his ex who has ZERO costs as she does not pay for school, clothes,.... And it is that last part he does not want to do anymore. He is willing to take care of his kid without any problem, but he is not willibg to pay to his ex as she is not carrying any of the costs coming with raising an almost adult child
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03/12/2021 04:53 AM
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what a load of bullchit-
age 18 is considered the age of emancipation under The LAW ,
and the exact same LAW this chithaus ,family law parrots for kids in their foster care system-18.
once they are 18,they ARE DUMPED- no nothin no more -
so how the hell IS anyone responsible for shyte,never mind COLLEGE FEES ? which today are astronomical--

are the same azzzards demanding a HOUSE to be financed for an adult ?
why not ? price is comparable.
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03/12/2021 04:54 AM
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Stop breeding then no problem.

DUH
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03/12/2021 04:58 AM
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You act like sex is meant for fun. Then act “surprised” when a kid pops out

Don’t want the drama, wear a condom.

So many kids up for adoption already. Ridiculous
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03/12/2021 05:27 AM
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Shiiiieeet
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Thanks for the reminder.





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