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Anonymous Coward User ID: 77860072 United States 04/21/2021 09:35 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I really ‘felt you’ like I’ve never felt anyone here and I’ve been here since 2004. I think you should consider preparing to serve in the militia that will be built soon. It will be a national nationalist ‘Patriot’ militia that will attempt to stop the Marxist overthrow of this country, similar to what happened in China 1945 to 53. That nationalist militia lost though. Hopefully ours will win. The militia will need good men like you. There will also be a split in the military and law enforcement with the Patriot part of those splits working alongside the Patriot citizen militia. Following the US lead, the same thing will happen also in numerous other Western countries. That’s what’s coming and you should prepare in all ways possible to serve alongside your fellow good men. |
1guynAz User ID: 2229693 United States 04/21/2021 09:47 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Op, this states it the way it is: Ecclesiastes 1:18 For in much wisdom is much grief, And he who increases knowledge increases sorrow.... What that means is, you see the world for what it is. But you are unto yourself, you are not the world. You have life, you're life is meant to be lived, and where life is lived, there is love! Don't worry about the past, there is nothing you can do about it. Don't worry about the future, it is yet to be determined. Live in the present. And remember, where ever you are, that's where God wants you. For He has a plan, and you're only job is to live and learn in this life. If all you have are memories, that is what is most important, because all other things will fade away. But what you know, never leaves you, and this is not the end, we go on from here Op... God Bless you and bring you Living has taught me one thing; nothing is certain...except salvation through Jesus Christ! |
Tess. User ID: 78323421 Ireland 04/21/2021 09:54 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | You sound very down OP. You are still young enough to get married and have children. Quoting: Sterling88 Who in their right mind would want to bring innocent children into this depraved world? It's getting more like Hell every day. . Civilisation is at a crossroads "Unfortunately the Barbarians dwell among us and our country is grown so weak and pathetic that the Barbarians must be appeased in the name of diversity and cultural sensitivity" ~ Allison Pearson |
Crunch62 User ID: 80182239 United States 04/21/2021 10:05 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Alone? I have been for nearly three months. My wife of 35 years has been in Texas since February, helping our youngest daughter get set up after a military transfer from Hawaii. Household goods delivery finally happened a couple of days ago. They are still unpacking. I have been here by myself, pacing in circles and talking to myself (and the cats, dogs and chickens). I am getting tired of hearing the sound of my own voice. I am 58 years old and have always been a 'loner'. Aside from my wife, I have 2 people I would consider 'friends'. One lives 500 miles away and the other is 74 years old and doesn't get out much. Yeah, being alone can suck. I had a UPS delivery scheduled for today, but it got rescheduled for tomorrow. Damn. I was looking forward to talking to the UPS guy. Last Edited by Crunch62 on 04/21/2021 10:05 PM I've been married so long, I don't even look both ways when I cross the street. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 71162057 United States 04/21/2021 10:17 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | The tribulation began in 2017 with the solar eclipse over the heart of the us and will end with the second coming of the solar eclipse in 2024, a 7 year period split down the middle with hope and anguish. Quoting: eyeDR3 Nope. The Tribulation is not in any way based on America. ~~~~ I believe OP is correct. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 79455170 United States 04/21/2021 10:20 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Proverbs 3:5 |
rccola User ID: 79830924 United States 04/21/2021 10:31 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | OP, I read several pages of post on your thread. I haven't yet discovered what it is that you want from life, other than some general philosophical hope. Pardon me if I missed other items. I'll throw in my two cents. Tomorrow is the first day of the rest of your life. Make a physical list of your needs, desires, goals and the outcome you hope to achieve. Post that list where you see it every day. Prioritize the the items in your list for the above. Every day, week, month and year, make an assessment of your effort in crossing off one or more of those things. Ask yourself "what did I do today.. this week ... toward my goals. This is something that I have done my self, counseled my sons and my friends that are your age to do. It's like getting organized to do a project, your life is your project. Seeing how you ignore the trolls on this thread speaks highly to your integrity and tolerance, as well as your commitment to persevere. at another level: Think about things that make you belly laugh, pursue it. Think about things that make you tear-up, maybe it's some little kid that hears sound for the first time or sees colors for the first time .. fill in the blank with your emotional weakness, then study why it does that for you . Maybe it will check one of those boxes on your list. Someone else mentioned needing 10 hours of conversation with you rather than this silly text. He's right you know! Carry-on OP! Oh those people suggesting God will help are right! Last Edited by rccola on 04/21/2021 10:49 PM |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 70998508 United States 04/21/2021 10:34 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | We all have problems, you're no different or special. You are just a KOOK who is taking up space with your Debbie Downer rant. Kill yourself for all I care and do us all a big favor pussy! ~~~ He is only 29 years old! You do NOT need to be insensitive & rude! The only DOWNER was YOUR comment! I despised bullies that were mean to other kids growing up & you remind me of them! OP has some valid points. I think of my own children around his age & they all deserve to live their lives out without the psychopaths of the World jacking it up for everyone! I can see why he doesn’t want children, as the freaks roll out the trans human enslavement NWO BS !! We are living in challenging times! We know it will unfortunately worsen.., Its a harsh reality. You are not alone OP... Many of us fully understand exactly what you are saying. We need to push in Spiritually... More reading, prayer & trying to help so many lost that are everywhere. Possibly join a like minded group? You can order “Training Manuals” to teach on using the Gift of Healing... John G. Lake Ministries in Dallas, TX. Watch the overseer Curry Blake on YouTube... He is excellent & it’s not a FAKE Church. God could use a young man like you in His Army. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 70998508 United States 04/21/2021 10:38 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | "Christ" ain't gonna do jack sh!t for you, look at the state of the world, which is full of people praying to christ 24/7...where are the results?!? Quoting: Anonymous Coward 80202486 ~~~~ You are 100% wrong & fully ignorant! Biblical Revelation is unfolding... Hopefully we have more time than World factors indicate, but each individual is responsible for their walk with Jesus or not. If you don’t know him, then your comment applies to yourself & not OP. |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 80271462 United States 04/21/2021 10:39 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Hi all, I just wanted to point out that if anyone is struggling, whether it be because of the pandemic, family, friends, loneliness, or just some general depression, it is possible to find the help needed to continue :) Seek out a therapist who can help you talk through your feelings and thoughts. My fiancee had troubled thoughts but having weekly therapy appointments has completely changed her for the better and made her a stronger, more capable woman. If you believe in God then that's wonderful, but understand that God has also put into place physical, tangible measures by which you can also seek assistance, whether that be doctors for physical ailments or therapists for emotional or mental ailments. Hope y'all have a good rest of your week! |
horticulture User ID: 76456814 United States 04/21/2021 10:40 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Thats a lot to chew on. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 80226978 I imagine the 9 yr olds of today, the smart ones anyways, are going to look back on 2020 & coronavirus much as you look back on 2001 & 9/11.....with scarring & irreversible trauma. And their communist indoctrination will be mandatory & complete. Sad state of affairs for sure. Yes, I think the 9-yr olds of today will have significant difficulty forming inter-personal relationships because of the isolation. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 79422414 United States 04/21/2021 10:45 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I lost everything and am alone in life, I'm in my early 60s. I have money and it matters little, I can't even find people to help me spend it. the difference is your are still very young and can rebuild. My suggestion to you is that you immediately begin trying to build any relationships. Start now it is far from to late for a 29 year old. Recontact anyone from high school or college or anyone you loved or clicked with. Work to maintain your relationships, and don't forsake people. Start now to build new ones, and really work at it. Join clubs, get outside, start a social calendar, meet people to eat meals with. Start a group of guys that Bowl or play cards or bike or just walk once a week or month. I am now alone because my grief and rage push everyone away. People don't generally try hard enough to get through to a depressed or grieving person. They respond to the first rejection and walk away. It far from over for a 29 year old. If you have to try an SSRI. And build medical relationships now as well, try to find a Doctor or Drs. your own age you have a real relationship with that can build over decades and help take care of you. I've been bounced around all my life and currently have no support and lost my Dr. again during 2020. They want anyone over 60 dead, so life is just a jumble of grief and loss and suicidal feelings. Learn now not to be the turd in the punch bowl everywhere. Fake it. Take Anti depressants. Do whatever to build a life, don't let it fade away in front of the PC like I did the past 20 years, posting on GLP and the Velvet Rope and being summarily ignored and banned until I wanted to die. Go where there are good people and bond with them. Get out and live while you are young. Now in my early 60s, I see almost no reason to go on. |
ZigZag Man User ID: 75826135 United States 04/21/2021 10:45 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | what to feel alone how bout sailing into the middle of the pacific ocean by your self of corse and just sit there and look up at the stars at night a truly scary but a beautiful experience. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 77016676 Exactly, spend some time in the wilderness, until you get the shit scared out of yourself and you ask God to protect you and you get addicted to the pure beauty of it all and you'll realize why God put you here |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 70998508 United States 04/21/2021 10:47 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Hi all, I just wanted to point out that if anyone is struggling, whether it be because of the pandemic, family, friends, loneliness, or just some general depression, it is possible to find the help needed to continue :) Quoting: Anonymous Coward 80271462 Seek out a therapist who can help you talk through your feelings and thoughts. My fiancee had troubled thoughts but having weekly therapy appointments has completely changed her for the better and made her a stronger, more capable woman. If you believe in God then that's wonderful, but understand that God has also put into place physical, tangible measures by which you can also seek assistance, whether that be doctors for physical ailments or therapists for emotional or mental ailments. Hope y'all have a good rest of your week! ~~~ Yes.., Talk Therapy after the traumatic death of my child years ago was helpful. We both had the same Faith & your input is appreciated. My heart goes out to OP. My daughter would be about his age if she were still alive. The Mother in me is always there. |
panther0621 User ID: 27944307 United States 04/21/2021 10:50 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | OP like you said Give it up to God. Jesus has risen to save you. I know tough times along with the other posters. I have been alone for 3 years. My wife passed 3 years ago. I was 38. Longest I have been on my own. I needed this time to recalibrate my mind. Nothing is final. no story is over till you go to be with God. Just keep your faith and do not give up. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 75412842 United States 04/21/2021 10:54 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Our rent is increasing by 300, but we each still only pay 615. That is still more affordable than if I were on my own. But I've never felt the want or need to be so alone as I do now. Quoting: eyeDR3 Every warning is being ignored. I do not wish to impose, but I cannot help but feel a rather altruistic need to wake people up just as Noah was told to do. But I'm not specifically in communication with God, at least not in a language type communication form. For me, it has been more in the relics of the teachings of the past, of the moral staples in my life and the scars of past calamity. When Trump was elected, I believe that actually made me lose a bit of focus on myself and on God because it threw me for the loop of unrealistic optimism. Somehow, he was going to fix it. Now we know that just isn't the case. He did so much good, fought tooth and nail, walked through the valley of the shadow of death, but something eventually changed even in him. When expecting martyrdom, in the end I feel like we were actually lead into something far worse... We had expectations and thought the world could turn around, but it was false peace. The tribulation began in 2017 with the solar eclipse over the heart of the us and will end with the second coming of the solar eclipse in 2024, a 7 year period split down the middle with hope and anguish. I feel it is my duty to spread the word and to wake people up, but as Jesus taught, even mentioning him to others causes them to build their mental walls before me. I was lost in hope, in optimism, but now realize that i am found in an inescapable destruction coming. So what is there to do but to embrace it? I chose to be single and to remain without children for some altruistic and some selfish reasons. I realized the lust and pleasure wouldn't outweigh the burden of a wife and children going through this world, with me as their protector. That makes me both a coward and a savior to having never produced that potential outcome as I can see many of my peers, brothers and sisters included, have. So I sit in this meat suit awaiting an inevitable end, wishing it would come already like sitting through a really bad 3 hour long movie (I'm looking at you Batman vs Superman). And that breaks my heart. Not only for me, but for the wife and children I never had, for all the opportunity I not only gave up but willingly prevented or destroyed. And I believe that breaks God's heart even more. There are other "God's" but none come before the one true creator. They will certainly try, and rather soon at that. But what to do now? Just write? Make books? Print out my photos and everything else that is predominantly digital anymore? Is preservation even necessary if we are to understand and believe what is impending? Meditation, grounding, getting away from it and them all... So lonely yet so ready to just be done with it... You put your faith in an incredibly evil and satanic Orange Bastard and during that time you put God dead last. Now you're wondering what's wrong with your picture? Not to worry...we've all made horrible mistakes and if you truly repent of your sins and turn to Jesus...Jesus will forgive you. Do yourself a favor and read the Bible in its entirety and meditate on His word...He will guide your guide on the path that He wants you to take. |
Etta User ID: 78205315 United States 04/21/2021 10:55 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | There are a lot of beautiful things in the world to go see, and mysteries to explore and try to solve. You and dog can have a lot of fun together, still. Enjoy it until you can't. While you're doing that you may find a person, who is a lot like you, and their dog too. “Expectations are the root of all heartache” "I like all of the races, even the bad ones." |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 70972148 United States 04/21/2021 10:55 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I lost everything and am alone in life, I'm in my early 60s. I have money and it matters little, I can't even find people to help me spend it. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 79422414 the difference is your are still very young and can rebuild. My suggestion to you is that you immediately begin trying to build any relationships. Start now it is far from to late for a 29 year old. Recontact anyone from high school or college or anyone you loved or clicked with. Work to maintain your relationships, and don't forsake people. Start now to build new ones, and really work at it. Join clubs, get outside, start a social calendar, meet people to eat meals with. Start a group of guys that Bowl or play cards or bike or just walk once a week or month. I am now alone because my grief and rage push everyone away. People don't generally try hard enough to get through to a depressed or grieving person. They respond to the first rejection and walk away. It far from over for a 29 year old. If you have to try an SSRI. And build medical relationships now as well, try to find a Doctor or Drs. your own age you have a real relationship with that can build over decades and help take care of you. I've been bounced around all my life and currently have no support and lost my Dr. again during 2020. They want anyone over 60 dead, so life is just a jumble of grief and loss and suicidal feelings. Learn now not to be the turd in the punch bowl everywhere. Fake it. Take Anti depressants. Do whatever to build a life, don't let it fade away in front of the PC like I did the past 20 years, posting on GLP and the Velvet Rope and being summarily ignored and banned until I wanted to die. Go where there are good people and bond with them. Get out and live while you are young. Now in my early 60s, I see almost no reason to go on. ~~~~ Many good ideas here, but years ago a brief attempt with antidepressants & I tossed them in the trash. God didn’t want me on them. Exercise, sunshine & prayer worked for me. Later I learned Spiritual Warfare prayer, so I would recommend (since OP knows the Bible).., “Rebuke the Spirit of Depression in Jesus Name!” ~ No depression or Anxiety can stay... It’s worked very well for me. This is after my child, husband, home, money stolen.., On & on. I had NO DEPRESSION! Praise His Holy Name! |
ScrumpTheTexan Forum Administrator 04/21/2021 10:56 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | You sound very down OP. You are still young enough to get married and have children. Quoting: Sterling88 Who in their right mind would want to bring innocent children into this depraved world? It's getting more like Hell every day. . Word. I am a Christian. Christian does not equal doormat or pushover "I Have Sworn upon the Altar of God... Eternal Hostility against every form of Tyranny over the mind of man." -Thomas Jefferson, Sep. 23, 1800 The Election of Donald John Trump: [link to www.godlikeproductions.com] For previous Newsletters, click 'Scrump's News Letters' @ [link to www.godlikeproductions.com] |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 76383617 United States 04/21/2021 11:01 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | The missing part of every equation is God, not because he isn't there, but because we choose to ignore him. Quoting: eyeDR3 We all perish and so too will this world, but our souls and their choices are forever. OP, I have similar thoughts and feelings as you describe. I’m older than you. Nonetheless, I saw things coming even before your time. We’ve been given insight to this time, regardless of when we entered this realm. The feelings you describe are a normal and healthy mourning of what might’ve been and what we’ll never have. I too had hope in Trump’s presidency. When we vote, we are putting our faith in the candidate to do what they say they will. Doesn’t matter who you vote for, you’re operating under faith. We have no way of knowing if they’re sincere until they do or don’t deliver on their promises. It’s okay to have hope, so long as you admit when they dont follow through. That’s the difference between hope vs bring a sucker. Many persist in their belief despite all evidence to the contrary, that’s irresponsible. It is hard to watch those we love make decisions where we see the pitfalls, but love him and support *him* despite his faults. It’s how we are to love one another as Christ loves us. You’re not alone. Pray to find like-minded friends, even if a woman. You can agree to not have children if it becomes more than friendship. Remember, God sets the lonely in families. |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 78701318 04/21/2021 11:08 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | 'Come, my people, enter thou into thy chambers, and shut thy doors about thee: hide thyself as it were for a little moment, until the indignation be overpast. For, behold, the LORD cometh out of his place to punish the inhabitants of the earth for their iniquity: the earth also shall disclose her blood, and shall no more cover her slain.' If the Lord has something specific for you, believe me .. you won't miss it. You'll walk through that door. Until then, please be patient and wait on the Lord in faith. Prepare, of course .. but be ready to move when He opens that door. Clearly He has preserved your morals and 'core' from intrusion by marxist modern education. I followed a similar course, but stayed away from Uni to opt for trade school. You were protected from all that for a reason ... |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 73728701 United States 04/21/2021 11:09 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Don't spend your time worrying about things you cannot change. It is already written. Quoting: EllenRipley Live everyday like it is your last, no regrets That is so much easier said than done for me. I've tried and tried again. It's inescapable. I could just tune out of everything but that still doesn't change the outcome. I know, I know. So what? I get it, trust me. But I am very confident in saying my best days are WAAAAY behind me, and I appreciate them all the same. But I'm just very impatiently awaiting the escape. Not escape but LIVE your life until someone takes it away from you. Do not trap yourself on the waiting game. There’s so much wonder and beauty if open your heart to see. As you had mentioned, You were given a choice in this life. If you don’t know how to make your life better then help others who has less then you. Sometimes happiness is to give. |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 73845680 United States 04/21/2021 11:13 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | OP like you said Give it up to God. Jesus has risen to save you. I know tough times along with the other posters. I have been alone for 3 years. My wife passed 3 years ago. I was 38. Quoting: panther0621 Longest I have been on my own. I needed this time to recalibrate my mind. Nothing is final. no story is over till you go to be with God. Just keep your faith and do not give up. ~~~~~ I’m so sorry for your loss... I understand. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 80271462 United States 04/21/2021 11:16 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | You sound very down OP. You are still young enough to get married and have children. Quoting: Sterling88 Who in their right mind would want to bring innocent children into this depraved world? It's getting more like Hell every day. . WELL SAID...I COULDN'T AGREE MORE! I'm thinking it's always been like this but with advances in technology it's a billion times easier to share how crazy it can get lol plus I think the innocent children will be fine I mean they can do the floss! I watched a video tutorial and still can't do that shit lmao |