Dating is horrendous in this era. Im a 5'5 Man who cant get any chances. Dont tell me its my personality | |
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BBQ BOY™ User ID: 72493816 United States 06/11/2021 07:54 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: Dating is horrendous in this era. Im a 5'5 Man who cant get any chances. Dont tell me its my personality "Never underestimate the pain of a person. In all honesty, everyone is struggling. Just some people are better at hiding it than others." Everyone has to work out their own salvation. Life can only be understood backwards, but it must be lived forwards. |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 3033383 United States 06/11/2021 08:00 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: Dating is horrendous in this era. Im a 5'5 Man who cant get any chances. Dont tell me its my personality I know for a fact that I would have had better luck dating in the 70s, 80s, 90s, and early 2000s. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 73522148 This is making me miserable. Ive tried all the online dating apps with barely any matches. The matches I get are like 5'8 women who are 200lb. Like come on, also even they wont give me any chances. Dont tell me its my personality because I made a fake dating account with a hot guy and acted the exact same to my results and they were head over heels over me. It sucks being short. At 23, i might just have to accept my fate and understand being with a woman isnt meant for every guy. This is sad as hell. Dont tell me to meet women in real life. Women who are 5'1 want a 6ft guy. They then breed and some of the results will be a short son who will suffer the same fate as me. Dont tell me its mt confidence or personality. Has nothing to do with that cause in my spoof dating account, i didnt even try to be funny and they were giggly over the smallest thing i said. Its all about face and overall looks. Being 5'5 has caused a blockade that wont allow me to surpass their lools threshold. If you cant get pass the looks threshold, theres no chance to show your personality. Step 0 is the most important step. Look man, understand you're looking for a woman, and who doesn't want a woman? Most women are a lot of trouble they're selfish and only after what men have or have to offer the woman. Find yourself an Asian or Peruvian woman who's about 4' 10, she'll think you're a giant and a handsome man, you have no time for these American women. And stop going on dating sites, that is ridiculous get out in the real world and meat people. This also. Good advice. |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 39516942 United States 06/11/2021 08:01 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: Dating is horrendous in this era. Im a 5'5 Man who cant get any chances. Dont tell me its my personality go to a dating site and say you don't want any gals > 5'5"..problem solved. I dated a gal 6'2 for a while..6'5" in heels..tall glass of water..people stared..I didn't care. we were the same height in the sack |
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Jcappelano User ID: 80135690 United States 06/11/2021 08:04 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: Dating is horrendous in this era. Im a 5'5 Man who cant get any chances. Dont tell me its my personality I know for a fact that I would have had better luck dating in the 70s, 80s, 90s, and early 2000s. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 73522148 This is making me miserable. Ive tried all the online dating apps with barely any matches. The matches I get are like 5'8 women who are 200lb. Like come on, also even they wont give me any chances. Dont tell me its my personality because I made a fake dating account with a hot guy and acted the exact same to my results and they were head over heels over me. It sucks being short. At 23, i might just have to accept my fate and understand being with a woman isnt meant for every guy. This is sad as hell. Dont tell me to meet women in real life. Women who are 5'1 want a 6ft guy. They then breed and some of the results will be a short son who will suffer the same fate as me. Dont tell me its mt confidence or personality. Has nothing to do with that cause in my spoof dating account, i didnt even try to be funny and they were giggly over the smallest thing i said. Its all about face and overall looks. Being 5'5 has caused a blockade that wont allow me to surpass their lools threshold. If you cant get pass the looks threshold, theres no chance to show your personality. Step 0 is the most important step. Wish I could feel for you but my Dad was 5' 0" and marched into the bank every Saturday morning with six sons and a daughter. You should have watched the ladies swoon. I'm 5'4" and haven't been alone for more than six weeks in 31 years. Maybe it's not the size of your pencil but how you use your sharpie. have you thought about the Marine Corps? |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 80472278 United States 06/11/2021 08:07 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: Dating is horrendous in this era. Im a 5'5 Man who cant get any chances. Dont tell me its my personality I know for a fact that I would have had better luck dating in the 70s, 80s, 90s, and early 2000s. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 73522148 This is making me miserable. Ive tried all the online dating apps with barely any matches. The matches I get are like 5'8 women who are 200lb. Like come on, also even they wont give me any chances. Dont tell me its my personality because I made a fake dating account with a hot guy and acted the exact same to my results and they were head over heels over me. It sucks being short. At 23, i might just have to accept my fate and understand being with a woman isnt meant for every guy. This is sad as hell. Dont tell me to meet women in real life. Women who are 5'1 want a 6ft guy. They then breed and some of the results will be a short son who will suffer the same fate as me. Dont tell me its mt confidence or personality. Has nothing to do with that cause in my spoof dating account, i didnt even try to be funny and they were giggly over the smallest thing i said. Its all about face and overall looks. Being 5'5 has caused a blockade that wont allow me to surpass their lools threshold. If you cant get pass the looks threshold, theres no chance to show your personality. Step 0 is the most important step. open a hip bar on the beach down south. i thought every guy under 5'8" moves overseas by 30. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 78310900 United States 06/11/2021 08:08 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: Dating is horrendous in this era. Im a 5'5 Man who cant get any chances. Dont tell me its my personality I know for a fact that I would have had better luck dating in the 70s, 80s, 90s, and early 2000s. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 73522148 This is making me miserable. Ive tried all the online dating apps with barely any matches. The matches I get are like 5'8 women who are 200lb. Like come on, also even they wont give me any chances. Dont tell me its my personality because I made a fake dating account with a hot guy and acted the exact same to my results and they were head over heels over me. It sucks being short. At 23, i might just have to accept my fate and understand being with a woman isnt meant for every guy. This is sad as hell. Dont tell me to meet women in real life. Women who are 5'1 want a 6ft guy. They then breed and some of the results will be a short son who will suffer the same fate as me. Dont tell me its mt confidence or personality. Has nothing to do with that cause in my spoof dating account, i didnt even try to be funny and they were giggly over the smallest thing i said. Its all about face and overall looks. Being 5'5 has caused a blockade that wont allow me to surpass their lools threshold. If you cant get pass the looks threshold, theres no chance to show your personality. Step 0 is the most important step. Well, you might need to wait until some of the younger women grow up and stop looking for a Chad and decide to choose a real man who is nice, has a decent job, goes to church, has a future ahead of him, and isn't an 8 or higher. |
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Desert Dude User ID: 5099247 United States 06/11/2021 08:10 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: Dating is horrendous in this era. Im a 5'5 Man who cant get any chances. Dont tell me its my personality All you need is a big expensive car, a big expensive house, and nice clothes. Women will flock to you. You'll have to beat them off with a stick there'll be so many women interested in you. Yeah I did it, and it can't be undone. |
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NWO_Lizard_Killer User ID: 74876736 United States 06/11/2021 08:13 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: Dating is horrendous in this era. Im a 5'5 Man who cant get any chances. Dont tell me its my personality I know for a fact that I would have had better luck dating in the 70s, 80s, 90s, and early 2000s. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 73522148 This is making me miserable. Ive tried all the online dating apps with barely any matches. The matches I get are like 5'8 women who are 200lb. Like come on, also even they wont give me any chances. Dont tell me its my personality because I made a fake dating account with a hot guy and acted the exact same to my results and they were head over heels over me. It sucks being short. At 23, i might just have to accept my fate and understand being with a woman isnt meant for every guy. This is sad as hell. Dont tell me to meet women in real life. Women who are 5'1 want a 6ft guy. They then breed and some of the results will be a short son who will suffer the same fate as me. Dont tell me its mt confidence or personality. Has nothing to do with that cause in my spoof dating account, i didnt even try to be funny and they were giggly over the smallest thing i said. Its all about face and overall looks. Being 5'5 has caused a blockade that wont allow me to surpass their lools threshold. If you cant get pass the looks threshold, theres no chance to show your personality. Step 0 is the most important step. Get you a gym membership and wear pheromones been red pilled since before it was cool |
InfiniTea User ID: 80241920 Spain 06/11/2021 08:13 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: Dating is horrendous in this era. Im a 5'5 Man who cant get any chances. Dont tell me its my personality Mew. Mew like you never mewed in your life. I have known men of your stature that were confident and had no trouble finding women with honesty. If you insist on the dating profile route, play up your shortness. You can also wait to be very successful before seeking love, but this is a sort of throwing the baby out with the bath water sort of nuclear option, if you are psychologically prepared for a Longterm or lifelong relationship. If you have insecurities about your height, it will surface and scare women away. You have to be okay with yourself first, and I mean that with the best intentions. The person I chose to be with didn’t tell me his height for over a year, and when he did, I didn’t believe him because he looked short in the pictures he had sent me (older style suits, worn more loosely than modern days)…his height had no bearing on my interest in him. I think someone short should avoid being evasive in that way. There are also some taller women that are comfortable with their height and willing to marry someone shorter than them. There was someone I worked with once who did this. She was Amazonian in height and size and her hubby was skinny and much shorter. It’s not impossible, and I don’t think the era has anything to do with your success (no dating apps in the 70s and 80s, old fashioned, going out and meeting people was the way). At 23, you may find some attractive older women that look past height due to dating field issues (older successful men may tend to go after younger women), but you might be careful the age gap isn’t too great. The plus side is if you find yourself a good woman, she may already be established and successful, so your immediate success may not be as important. Tl;dr: mew. Also, I don’t see height alone as the making of a lost cause. Beliefs are the making of lost causes, though. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 80473243 06/11/2021 08:15 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: Dating is horrendous in this era. Im a 5'5 Man who cant get any chances. Dont tell me its my personality Dude when you going to learn Life goddamn sucks and nobody's going to hand you a fuckin thing so you might as well just go out and take it Sorry about that my pockets are full of sour and gunpowder |
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Archaic Smile User ID: 73766492 United States 06/11/2021 08:19 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: Dating is horrendous in this era. Im a 5'5 Man who cant get any chances. Dont tell me its my personality People are dating their screens. People live online and live to stare into a screen. Filters and artificial creations. The world's screwed up. And at another time, when they raised a question about fortifications, he said that a city is not unfortified whose crowning glory is men and not bricks and stones. -Plutarch, Moralia |
Archaic Smile User ID: 73766492 United States 06/11/2021 08:21 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: Dating is horrendous in this era. Im a 5'5 Man who cant get any chances. Dont tell me its my personality I know for a fact that I would have had better luck dating in the 70s, 80s, 90s, and early 2000s. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 73522148 This is making me miserable. Ive tried all the online dating apps with barely any matches. The matches I get are like 5'8 women who are 200lb. Like come on, also even they wont give me any chances. Dont tell me its my personality because I made a fake dating account with a hot guy and acted the exact same to my results and they were head over heels over me. It sucks being short. At 23, i might just have to accept my fate and understand being with a woman isnt meant for every guy. This is sad as hell. Dont tell me to meet women in real life. Women who are 5'1 want a 6ft guy. They then breed and some of the results will be a short son who will suffer the same fate as me. Dont tell me its mt confidence or personality. Has nothing to do with that cause in my spoof dating account, i didnt even try to be funny and they were giggly over the smallest thing i said. Its all about face and overall looks. Being 5'5 has caused a blockade that wont allow me to surpass their lools threshold. If you cant get pass the looks threshold, theres no chance to show your personality. Step 0 is the most important step. Well, you might need to wait until some of the younger women grow up and stop looking for a Chad and decide to choose a real man who is nice, has a decent job, goes to church, has a future ahead of him, and isn't an 8 or higher. After sleeping around and messing up their mind on matters of sex and relationships? It pertains to both sexes. Sexual immorality is bad. Instant gratification society. And at another time, when they raised a question about fortifications, he said that a city is not unfortified whose crowning glory is men and not bricks and stones. -Plutarch, Moralia |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 80471230 06/11/2021 08:22 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: Dating is horrendous in this era. Im a 5'5 Man who cant get any chances. Dont tell me its my personality Mew. Mew like you never mewed in your life. Quoting: InfiniTea I have known men of your stature that were confident and had no trouble finding women with honesty. If you insist on the dating profile route, play up your shortness. You can also wait to be very successful before seeking love, but this is a sort of throwing the baby out with the bath water sort of nuclear option, if you are psychologically prepared for a Longterm or lifelong relationship. If you have insecurities about your height, it will surface and scare women away. You have to be okay with yourself first, and I mean that with the best intentions. The person I chose to be with didn’t tell me his height for over a year, and when he did, I didn’t believe him because he looked short in the pictures he had sent me (older style suits, worn more loosely than modern days)…his height had no bearing on my interest in him. I think someone short should avoid being evasive in that way. There are also some taller women that are comfortable with their height and willing to marry someone shorter than them. There was someone I worked with once who did this. She was Amazonian in height and size and her hubby was skinny and much shorter. It’s not impossible, and I don’t think the era has anything to do with your success (no dating apps in the 70s and 80s, old fashioned, going out and meeting people was the way). At 23, you may find some attractive older women that look past height due to dating field issues (older successful men may tend to go after younger women), but you might be careful the age gap isn’t too great. The plus side is if you find yourself a good woman, she may already be established and successful, so your immediate success may not be as important. Tl;dr: mew. Also, I don’t see height alone as the making of a lost cause. Beliefs are the making of lost causes, though. tripe. dating research shows your dating pool shrinks drastically at 5'7" and lower. it's just how it is. women seek a man about 6 inches taller, on average. . |
Granny Shitposter User ID: 78320891 United States 06/11/2021 08:26 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: Dating is horrendous in this era. Im a 5'5 Man who cant get any chances. Dont tell me its my personality I love short men. Especially the ones who don't mind being tossed around in the sack of you know what I mean. My better half is shorter than me and I love it. I haven't owned a pair of high heels in 30 years! Phil Murphy is a Marxist asshole. |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 79871996 United Kingdom 06/11/2021 08:28 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: Dating is horrendous in this era. Im a 5'5 Man who cant get any chances. Dont tell me its my personality Manny Pacquiao 5ft 5in Bruno Mars 5ft 5 Bono 5'5 1/2" Prince 5'2" Tom Cruise 5ft 5 And many more probably plenty of billionaire business men or at least millionaires. its not really about height its about money, fame, image, popularity etc. |