Is your wife a narcissist?

I'm familiar with the first type of narcissist (grandiose). Self-centerd, self-absorbed, blameless, uncaring.

Never heard of this vulnerable narcissism, which sounds to me to be more like neuroticism.

There is a very significant degree of overlap between neuroticism and vulnerable narcissism, but the overlap is not complete. He has another video on the subject of vulnerable narcissistic abuse that is worth watching as a follow up.

wife?

Never marry, gents