eliminating sexual desire?

First of all, what you described in paragraph two is merely an example of people who AREN'T really thinking, but rather letting someone else do the thinking for them. They simply align with whichever concept they deem the lesser evil or the path of least resistance. The problem there is people not thinking enough for themselves. Then they want to blame someone else for the choices they made. Real thinkers take personal responsibility for themselves and their actions and don't blame others for their own weaknesses.


So, if you believe all that, what are you getting out of interacting with people of widely divergent views on a debate oriented message board? One would think you would spend your time meditating in an Ashram somewhere, or channeling a higher order of beings ala Nancy Lieder.

I'm in a similar boat.

My girlfriend and I had a child, but now she doesn't want to have sex until we're married. She feels we're sinning in God's eyes, though I tend to think we're probably already married in His eyes.

To make matters worse, she doesn't want to get married for a very long time, if ever. We live together, we sleep together, we see each other naked every single day but I have to eliminate my sexual desire because it's driving me insane.

I honestly wish I could be castrated but for only a few months.

Few years I mean.

pray for it.

Smoke Menthol Cigarettes

If you are a Christian, this will work: pray to Jesus. If the sexuality you are seeking to get rid of is a sin( adultery, fornicaion, homosexuality, or perversion) He will take it from you.

Sex in a marital bed (your own!) is a great and very spiritual thing. God gave us sex. Pleasure between a husband and wife is a good thing and procreation comes of it ...and children are dear to the Lord.

The bad kind of sexual impulses are Satan's work. Lust is a powerful motivator to set God aside and live for the flesh. And we know that in the flesh we are dead in our sins.

So if you truly feel the Holy Spirit is leading you away from that, or that you need help in this area, then pray to Jesus to lift that burden from you and ask for discernment as to what or how to do the work He has asked you to do.

God bless.

I have homeopathic remedies to remove sexual desire. Take Origanum Majorana 200 and Bufo Rana 200fo at least 3 months and surely u will be devoid of any sexual desire.

Yes it can be done, would recommend studing "A Course in Miracles".

op, all saints in the old days, all had to deal with their sexuality.
God create male+female to unite get married in that union have beautiful kids, and make love with that person you love and married.
if you dont want to have sex like the religious, just dont watch movies, avoid movies and tv.
pray, the rosary helps, mass, holy communion, reading the psalms, take walks, do activities when you get desires. we are all sinners, we can never eliminate sexual desire 100% cause its in us.
but we could learn to master our thoughts, and reject and not feed into those thoughts to fall, for the kingdom of heaven.
you should love yourself the way are, God made you with your sexuality, does not mean you have to obess about it.
like the great saints, all had temptations, sexual desire, cause we are human, but we avoid everything that could make us fall.
are you married!
i dont eliminate my sexuality it is there, and is not healthy if you do so, we are human, cause it is a part of me, it is there, but i avoid tv movies that would lead me to sin.
i have always being considered a pretty woman, but i dont give in, cause our body is the temple of the holy spirit. and i am not married. and i follow God`s commandements, sex before marriage is a sin in God`s eyes. God is the same, yesterday today and forever.
it takes a will, and you have to set your mind to it. and for the love of God and the kingdom of heaven it gives me courage.
and i pray, read the bible, go to church, receive holy communion, and i dont obess about that.
read the lives of the saints, they could help you out. and pray to God, to show you His will...
good luck

My goodness!...

Some really want to help THEM make US into a bunch of CONTROLLED DRONES/ROBOTS...

K..Go on back to Pleasantville..But I won't be coming with ya...

I'd much rather have SEX..Than lay eggs...


I think I'll stay HUMAN...No thanx...

Practise desiring God MORE than a woman/man.
Stop masturbating. It strengthens desire and weakens your will.
Become detached from temporary pleasures.
Sublimate your energies by focussing on a long-term project or activity.





































More than anything else: desire only God.

are you still there op

Most anti-depressants completely shut off your sex system, basically. Zoloft does it really effectively, and pretty much everyone that I know who has experienced that agrees. I have heard that Zoloft is sometimes prescribed for sex-offenders, it totally illuminates hard-ons/ makes sex hurt.

WTF has Dr.Kellogg re-emerged from the dead? Sexuality and Spirituality are tied together. Achieve slack my brother or sister and "BOB" will set you free!

come say that to my face

Get a hooker!

i want every single human being to understand this simple fact.....
females are the root cause of every evil on this planet ...
money, lust for power, never ending greed are their weapons
by which the have caused massive destructions everywhere...
so just stop this shit...and stop thinkin about woman from now on .....don't marry (it's worthless anyway)..nobody gets nothin from a marriage..

get a ride....push the pedal 2 d floor
and jump some red lights...when u'll find a cop tailing u.
all of u'r sexual thoughts will be gone in no time.

this shit really works if u manage 2 lose the cops..

sorry it cant be done.Unless u remove gland producing sexual desires or testicles it will never go away.Its really impossible.Better than fighting it ,make use of it.I dont know how but thats the only way

OP... just look at a mirror.

DAMN!

That was effective.

Oh, this girl is f*cking you alright, in your head.

If you have a child together then get married, if she says no, she will probably never say yes. Get out, do yourself a favor.

There's good advice in here, but hidden in a very insidious way.

Heh heh, if you DO marry, make sure it's with some chick who wants to engage in disgusting sexual acts, and frequently. It rules.

does saltpeter work on women?

Fasting is the quickest way to overcome "fleshly" desires. Sex drive will never go away 100% without surgery, but you can train yourself to ignore any kind of discomfort. That's what fasting is all about.

I've often felt that it is our sex hormones that are the cause of most of our Earthly problems.

Maybe think of your sexual desire as "thoughts". It is our thoughts about anything that keep us "stuck", so to speak, and not in the present. So, the method might be the same. When you have a sexual thought or image, don't resist it (because resistance in itself is powerful energy), but at the same time don't choose to give it anymore thought energy. Eventually, it should float away on it's own if not focused on just like any other thought.

Utter crap, even by glp standards.

What happens if the OP jumps the red just as you are crossing on the green 15?

Go take your meds.

I just have to say, if God intended for me to have no sexual desire he would not have made females so damned attractive.

Fantastic post, and very timely. Would work for any or no religion.
Also, I would add keep busy doing constructive things. Give to others, do volunteer work, sit for a child, help an elderly person, take a class, take up a hobby, rescue a homeless animal. Much more rewarding anyway.