Just found out Daughter and Son in law did not pay rent for 1 year!!!!! | |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 77658784 United States 08/01/2021 08:17 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | They are both young, early twenties. They just came over and asked if they could move in for a few months so they could save money. I asked why they did not pay their rent for a year? They both work. They could not give me a straight answer. They both looked ashamed and promised they would stay only a few months. Mind you neither one of them lost their job or became unemployed due to covid. I am so pissed off at them. Quoting: Nojab Landlord came to them on Friday and handed them a 30 day notice. They live in a 100 unit apartment complex. Landlord had 67.....30 day notices to hand out. My husband caved and is letting them stay. What would you have done in this situation? Let them be homeless? I just can’t do that to my daughter. You realize they are never leaving. By not paying rent, no one will ever rent to them. They will have to buy or stay with you. Then they will pay rent to the parents and follow the parent’s rules. |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 77948266 United States 08/01/2021 08:19 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | They are both young, early twenties. They just came over and asked if they could move in for a few months so they could save money. I asked why they did not pay their rent for a year? They both work. They could not give me a straight answer. They both looked ashamed and promised they would stay only a few months. Mind you neither one of them lost their job or became unemployed due to covid. I am so pissed off at them. Quoting: Nojab Landlord came to them on Friday and handed them a 30 day notice. They live in a 100 unit apartment complex. Landlord had 67.....30 day notices to hand out. My husband caved and is letting them stay. What would you have done in this situation? Let them be homeless? I just can’t do that to my daughter. I'm a property manager and your daughter and son in law are losers. You know it. They bought other things rather than paying their rent and hence were squatters for a year. I would have let them move in like you did, but you have to know they are pretty much selfish materialistic loser fucks. Have fun. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 80686749 United States 08/01/2021 08:20 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | How are you so stupid. They didn’t pay rent for an entire fucking year. Yeah they have no money no savings and are flat broke. Take it from someone who is a recovering addict myself. Only I never got so bad that I ended up getting evicted and had to ask mommy to move in. Although I got it admit, Even if she did get that bad I would easily find a way to stack up $3000 in a months time to move into another place and would not resort to moving in with my parents. Your daughter is a loser. Your son-in-law is a loser. You raised a couple of loser drug addicts. |
wkk User ID: 80688329 United States 08/01/2021 08:20 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Thank you everyone for the good and bad advice. Gotta Love GLP I appreciate the good and bad and honestly I needed to hear it. Quoting: Nojab They do not have any children They do not use drugs I have faith that they are learning their lessons and that I’m grateful I can help them do it in a responsible and loving manner. I am sure I would have been one of the ones on here telling the OP not to let them move in however we never know until we are in the situation what we will do. It’s been a long day!!!! I have a hard time having sympathy for everyone who want to kick kids out on the street Their generation has enjoyed a much different social setting. Finding an affordable non-toxic house or rental is next to impossible Even those in the traditionally high paying fields (law, medicine) are struggling and living in unhealthy homes Not too long ago, women weren't expected to work So they were able to have children without placing a huge toll on their body (and on their babies). We still have a fantasy that babies are easily made at any time and simply pop out with no trouble after nine months. I can't tell you how many hard working responsible moms struggled for years to find a responsible dad, struggled then to get pregnant, had rough pregnancies and then their babies required icu care. Parents consider this if you want grandchildren Thank you everyone for the good and bad advice. Gotta Love GLP I appreciate the good and bad and honestly I needed to hear it. Quoting: Nojab They do not have any children They do not use drugs I have faith that they are learning their lessons and that I’m grateful I can help them do it in a responsible and loving manner. I am sure I would have been one of the ones on here telling the OP not to let them move in however we never know until we are in the situation what we will do. It’s been a long day!!!! I have a hard time having sympathy for everyone who want to kick kids out on the street Their generation has enjoyed a much different social setting. Finding an affordable non-toxic house or rental is next to impossible Even those in the traditionally high paying fields (law, medicine) are struggling and living in unhealthy homes Not too long ago, women weren't expected to work So they were able to have children without placing a huge toll on their body (and on their babies). We still have a fantasy that babies are easily made at any time and simply pop out with no trouble after nine months. I can't tell you how many hard working responsible moms struggled for years to find a responsible dad, struggled then to get pregnant, had rough pregnancies and then their babies required icu care. Parents consider this if you want grandchildren If they need a downpayment to get into an apartment, they give them that. But apartments are always available--they might have to travel a bit longer to the job. They showed their colors by not paying the landlord. Uhmmm--just so you know--it is best to find the dad and THEN have the kids. It does not always work out and I was one of those women whose husband left after three kids---so I do understand. wkk |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 80383054 United States 08/01/2021 08:25 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | A stark sign of the times. Quoting: Loup Garou ZERO responsibility ZERO consequences ZERO remorse ZERO effort to make restitutions ZERO effort on their part and YOU are enabling this BAD behavior. This is the ZERO GENERATION.. nothing, zero, zilch. Garbage in... garbage out -0_ And the wheel goes round and round.... And 100% BAD PARENTING. Yep and these adult children will do the same. . |
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AvaBot User ID: 80312608 United States 08/01/2021 08:27 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Then they can pay you back while living with you, plus put in for utilities and food. Problem solved and you can keep an eye on your daughter. As a Christian I have no duty to allow myself to be cheated, but I have the duty to be a fighter for truth and justice. I believe today that my conduct is in accordance with the will of the Almighty. |
hsimg User ID: 75605896 United States 08/01/2021 08:27 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | This is a great lesson for them to learn. Most of us have been young and made poor choices. I say, like everyone else, charge them a little rent. Look, The powerful made this an easy process for people to make money. They made everything FREE FREE FREE. Now is the time you can teach them that nothing is free. EVER. |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 78979170 United States 08/01/2021 08:29 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | You need to make them take drug tests before they move in. If they test positive take over their finances as a condition of them moving in or else they'll keep spending every dime they get on heroin or whatever bullshit they're doing. |
AvaBot User ID: 80312608 United States 08/01/2021 08:31 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Why the hell would you put them into a career that fights for banker wars?? One that absolutely despises them if they are white. Indoctrinates them with propaganda and vaccines which cause all types of problems. You don't get it yet do you? You all don't get what is taking place, what is happening and how this is not the America you grew up in. As a Christian I have no duty to allow myself to be cheated, but I have the duty to be a fighter for truth and justice. I believe today that my conduct is in accordance with the will of the Almighty. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 79232058 United States 08/01/2021 08:32 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Wow. Just wow… Quoting: Anonymous Coward 78008456 I’m interested to hear why. I want them to admit why. Then if it was because they bought other things, I’d start taking them away. Idk, that’s so tough. Living in an apartment and not paying rent just because has got to be the most liberal thing I’ve ever seen. Curious, did they vote for Biden? huh? why dont you focus on your own kids ya worthless tweit |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 50737257 United States 08/01/2021 08:33 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Let them stay, and don't let them forget that family always comes first. Also make them pay, in whatever way seems appropriate to you. If you don't let them stay, you risk letting them fall into the hands of people and groups who will use and manipulate them even more than they already have been |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 80684488 United States 08/01/2021 08:33 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | To me it sounds like rents are going to go down for responsible renters, that's good news because there is a rental shortage. If that 67% is accurate there is a lot of people hitting the streets soon. Uncle Joe has a place for them in mind, one catch of many is they have to line up for weekly sniffing's. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 79232058 United States 08/01/2021 08:34 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Congratulations Op. your daughter is definitely addicted to heroin or even worse possibly fentanyl. Yeah go ahead and let them move in with you and then when things start missing and your cash starts to pleading and you’re tired of learning them 50 bucks every week with the promise I’m getting paid back next month because they swear next month will be different you’ll have no one to blame but yourself. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 80686749 How are you so stupid. They didn’t pay rent for an entire fucking year. Yeah they have no money no savings and are flat broke. Take it from someone who is a recovering addict myself. Only I never got so bad that I ended up getting evicted and had to ask mommy to move in. Although I got it admit, Even if she did get that bad I would easily find a way to stack up $3000 in a months time to move into another place and would not resort to moving in with my parents. Your daughter is a loser. Your son-in-law is a loser. You raised a couple of loser drug addicts. is your son in law from the darker species? |