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IfYouInsist User ID: 41011373 United States 09/03/2021 07:11 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Wait your saying people who are loved and treated properly are not useful to you? Or am I misunderstanding your post? I'm saying you neither love nor treat people properly from the beginning. You break and allow to be broken in order to be the one to 'fix.' You never make whole, never make better, and never apologize for the things you do on purpose. The accusation of projection is built into all your spiritual sayings as probably the oldest form of psychological abuse and gaslighting. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 78326793 09/03/2021 07:12 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Wait your saying people who are loved and treated properly are not useful to you? Or am I misunderstanding your post? I'm saying you neither love nor treat people properly from the beginning. You break and allow to be broken in order to be the one to 'fix.' You never make whole, never make better, and never apologize for the things you do on purpose. The accusation of projection is built into all your spiritual sayings as probably the oldest form of psychological abuse and gaslighting. |
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Anonymous Coward (OP) User ID: 77948266 United States 09/03/2021 07:14 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Wait your saying people who are loved and treated properly are not useful to you? Or am I misunderstanding your post? I'm saying you neither love nor treat people properly from the beginning. You break and allow to be broken in order to be the one to 'fix.' You never make whole, never make better, and never apologize for the things you do on purpose. The accusation of projection is built into all your spiritual sayings as probably the oldest form of psychological abuse and gaslighting. Are you talking about me personally? |
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IfYouInsist User ID: 41011373 United States 09/03/2021 07:15 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Wait your saying people who are loved and treated properly are not useful to you? Or am I misunderstanding your post? I'm saying you neither love nor treat people properly from the beginning. You break and allow to be broken in order to be the one to 'fix.' You never make whole, never make better, and never apologize for the things you do on purpose. The accusation of projection is built into all your spiritual sayings as probably the oldest form of psychological abuse and gaslighting. Are you talking about me personally? Collectively and personally, yes. Your insistence on nullifying the ego makes that unavoidable. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 78326793 09/03/2021 07:17 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Treat someone like shit for long enough and you will age that person and also make that person sick. It is so damaging.... Quoting: Iset Love them and treat them with mutual respect and that person will be healthy and happy human who will then pass on that energy to the next person :) I was thinking about this deeper. It's an incomplete thought. The person you abuse must view it as abuse. It's a cooperative. |
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Anonymous Coward (OP) User ID: 77948266 United States 09/03/2021 07:17 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | ... Quoting: Iset Wait your saying people who are loved and treated properly are not useful to you? Or am I misunderstanding your post? I'm saying you neither love nor treat people properly from the beginning. You break and allow to be broken in order to be the one to 'fix.' You never make whole, never make better, and never apologize for the things you do on purpose. The accusation of projection is built into all your spiritual sayings as probably the oldest form of psychological abuse and gaslighting. Are you talking about me personally? Collectively and personally, yes. Your insistence on nullifying the ego makes that unavoidable. Oh okay... |
Anonymous Coward (OP) User ID: 77948266 United States 09/03/2021 07:18 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Treat someone like shit for long enough and you will age that person and also make that person sick. It is so damaging.... Quoting: Iset Love them and treat them with mutual respect and that person will be healthy and happy human who will then pass on that energy to the next person :) I was thinking about this deeper. It's an incomplete thought. The person you abuse must view it as abuse. It's a cooperative. Even if they don't view it as abuse...its still abuse and it still affects either way. |
IfYouInsist User ID: 41011373 United States 09/03/2021 07:21 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Treat someone like shit for long enough and you will age that person and also make that person sick. It is so damaging.... Quoting: Iset Love them and treat them with mutual respect and that person will be healthy and happy human who will then pass on that energy to the next person :) I was thinking about this deeper. It's an incomplete thought. The person you abuse must view it as abuse. It's a cooperative. Yeah, so it's their fault for saying they have a right not to be treated that way but not having the power to stop it. And who offers that power? Why you, of course. All roads lead back to you. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 78326793 09/03/2021 07:23 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Treat someone like shit for long enough and you will age that person and also make that person sick. It is so damaging.... Quoting: Iset Love them and treat them with mutual respect and that person will be healthy and happy human who will then pass on that energy to the next person :) I was thinking about this deeper. It's an incomplete thought. The person you abuse must view it as abuse. It's a cooperative. Even if they don't view it as abuse...its still abuse and it still affects either way. It affects, but abuse is a subjective term. It must be agreed upon for karma (so to speak) to move forward. Your intentions may be ill but if I knowingly subject myself to it then the burden is on me. See "forgive them they know not what they do" and "judge not lest ye be judged". Like dripping hot candle was on your lovers back...for instance. |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 78326793 09/03/2021 07:26 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Treat someone like shit for long enough and you will age that person and also make that person sick. It is so damaging.... Quoting: Iset Love them and treat them with mutual respect and that person will be healthy and happy human who will then pass on that energy to the next person :) I was thinking about this deeper. It's an incomplete thought. The person you abuse must view it as abuse. It's a cooperative. Yeah, so it's their fault for saying they have a right not to be treated that way but not having the power to stop it. And who offers that power? Why you, of course. All roads lead back to you. I'm agreeing with you and you are agreeing with me, but I arrived at my conclusion differently. If you don't feel abuse, then abuse isn't happening. You have the right to be treated how you want to be treated nonetheless. What one intends doesn't always happen, but golden rule applies to the ruler. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 78326793 09/03/2021 07:29 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Treat someone like shit for long enough and you will age that person and also make that person sick. It is so damaging.... Quoting: Iset Love them and treat them with mutual respect and that person will be healthy and happy human who will then pass on that energy to the next person :) I was thinking about this deeper. It's an incomplete thought. The person you abuse must view it as abuse. It's a cooperative. Yeah, so it's their fault for saying they have a right not to be treated that way but not having the power to stop it. And who offers that power? Why you, of course. All roads lead back to you. I'm agreeing with you and you are agreeing with me, but I arrived at my conclusion differently. If you don't feel abuse, then abuse isn't happening. You have the right to be treated how you want to be treated nonetheless. What one intends doesn't always happen, but golden rule applies to the ruler. Upon further inspection I have concluded I made an incomplete thought. One doesn't have the right to be treated how they want to be treated, you only have the right to be treated justly. |
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IfYouInsist User ID: 41011373 United States 09/03/2021 07:42 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | ... Quoting: Anonymous Coward 78326793 I was thinking about this deeper. It's an incomplete thought. The person you abuse must view it as abuse. It's a cooperative. Yeah, so it's their fault for saying they have a right not to be treated that way but not having the power to stop it. And who offers that power? Why you, of course. All roads lead back to you. I'm agreeing with you and you are agreeing with me, but I arrived at my conclusion differently. If you don't feel abuse, then abuse isn't happening. You have the right to be treated how you want to be treated nonetheless. What one intends doesn't always happen, but golden rule applies to the ruler. Upon further inspection I have concluded I made an incomplete thought. One doesn't have the right to be treated how they want to be treated, you only have the right to be treated justly. Sorry, given that the same groups of people have determined what is 'just' and the word itself is just one that people made up and changes from culture to culture. I can expect only word games here, and nothing has changed in almost a decade--another one which you guys have stolen from me--there hasn't been any signs of forward progress, and the goalposts of 'correct' behavior and thinking keep being moved. On top of that, a lot of what constitutes a good attitude depends on a healthy immune system, and that depends on medical treatment, not just eating religiously-approved food. This isn't going anywhere, and my original gut feeling about you based on prior experience was correct. You will even call me evil for not playing along, despite hiding what playing along even means. I don't think any further effort on my part is merited, and have a strong suspicion, mostly built up by you, that if I grow a strong resolve on that count, you will make definite moves to hurt me in a serious way. My conclusion is that you aren't good people and don't know what justice is and never will. |
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IfYouInsist User ID: 41011373 United States 09/03/2021 07:51 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | And when they learn to treat theirself as such. Aside from being in the vulnerable position of a child, others solely can't do it for one, but can share in the ride. Right and proper are determined by others. There is no self-love involved here, but a different take on the same old cultural institutions and social roles that have already caused so much pain. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 78326793 09/03/2021 07:53 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | ... Quoting: IfYouInsist Yeah, so it's their fault for saying they have a right not to be treated that way but not having the power to stop it. And who offers that power? Why you, of course. All roads lead back to you. I'm agreeing with you and you are agreeing with me, but I arrived at my conclusion differently. If you don't feel abuse, then abuse isn't happening. You have the right to be treated how you want to be treated nonetheless. What one intends doesn't always happen, but golden rule applies to the ruler. Upon further inspection I have concluded I made an incomplete thought. One doesn't have the right to be treated how they want to be treated, you only have the right to be treated justly. Sorry, given that the same groups of people have determined what is 'just' and the word itself is just one that people made up and changes from culture to culture. I can expect only word games here, and nothing has changed in almost a decade--another one which you guys have stolen from me--there hasn't been any signs of forward progress, and the goalposts of 'correct' behavior and thinking keep being moved. On top of that, a lot of what constitutes a good attitude depends on a healthy immune system, and that depends on medical treatment, not just eating religiously-approved food. This isn't going anywhere, and my original gut feeling about you based on prior experience was correct. You will even call me evil for not playing along, despite hiding what playing along even means. I don't think any further effort on my part is merited, and have a strong suspicion, mostly built up by you, that if I grow a strong resolve on that count, you will make definite moves to hurt me in a serious way. My conclusion is that you aren't good people and don't know what justice is and never will. Just because someone claims what just is, doesn't mean that it is just. Just is objectified by non harm. If I feel no harm you aren't harming me. That is taking responsibility for my own actions. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 78326793 09/03/2021 07:55 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | ... Quoting: Anonymous Coward 78326793 I'm agreeing with you and you are agreeing with me, but I arrived at my conclusion differently. If you don't feel abuse, then abuse isn't happening. You have the right to be treated how you want to be treated nonetheless. What one intends doesn't always happen, but golden rule applies to the ruler. Upon further inspection I have concluded I made an incomplete thought. One doesn't have the right to be treated how they want to be treated, you only have the right to be treated justly. Sorry, given that the same groups of people have determined what is 'just' and the word itself is just one that people made up and changes from culture to culture. I can expect only word games here, and nothing has changed in almost a decade--another one which you guys have stolen from me--there hasn't been any signs of forward progress, and the goalposts of 'correct' behavior and thinking keep being moved. On top of that, a lot of what constitutes a good attitude depends on a healthy immune system, and that depends on medical treatment, not just eating religiously-approved food. This isn't going anywhere, and my original gut feeling about you based on prior experience was correct. You will even call me evil for not playing along, despite hiding what playing along even means. I don't think any further effort on my part is merited, and have a strong suspicion, mostly built up by you, that if I grow a strong resolve on that count, you will make definite moves to hurt me in a serious way. My conclusion is that you aren't good people and don't know what justice is and never will. Just because someone claims what just is, doesn't mean that it is just. Just is objectified by non harm. If I feel no harm you aren't harming me. That is taking responsibility for my own actions. Upon further inspection I have concluded this is incomplete. If I know your intent and feel no harm still, and I am aware of the natural contract, then it is on me. If that lack of justice is by deception then it would be on the perpetrator. |