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LTHN. User ID: 80994392 Canada 10/14/2021 01:13 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: Please help me. My wife just divorced me after 23 years of marriage and I don't know what to do next. She hates me because of my conspiracy beliefs and because I wont get vaxxed. She became very uncaring after she got vaxxed in March. She also just started hormones after a hysterectomy and she is acting like a teenager at 50 years old. New car, new clothes, new jewelry. I'm not the ideal husband but I was a great father to our child and never cheated. I think she did once and I just couldn't let it go. I have $120,000 and a car to my name. No job. Can't lift anything slightly heavy due to hernia. Moving to an overpriced apt. tomorrow. Quoting: Rodney Spaceman She told her friends I'm a useless narcissist and trash. I saw her text it. I am so tired of Oklahoma. I really want to move to California even though that is absolutely insane right now. Maybe a small town like San Luis Obispo? I can do radio if I can find a gig. But then my 20 year old kid would have to choose. I don't know what to do. I'm sick with the thought that she is going to be having sex with another man someday soon. Her friends can't wait to hook her up. They hate me. I can't stand that I've lost my family. I am in a perpetual state of trauma. I should have been nicer to her and done more with her and shut up about conspiracies around her. She can be annoying but damn this is so much worse. Ive never cried this much in my life. Once the river of tears have dried up, enjoy reacquainting and learning to fall in love from within your own self. Last Edited by LTHN. on 10/14/2021 01:33 AM "A wise man listens to the message and uses his logic and discernment to process it, a fool negates the message by prejudging the messenger." "He whose centre is everywhere and whose circumference is nowhere." |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 74682214 United States 10/14/2021 01:14 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: Please help me. My wife just divorced me after 23 years of marriage and I don't know what to do next. Actually she divorced you to star in bbc porn. Sorry for your loss. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 74682214 No but she'll probably find a black dude. Sorry I'm not buying it. And I'm drunk as hell. Sorry for my asinine humor if you're legit. I sure as hell don't want to be sober these days with the shit that's going on. |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 80993080 Finland 10/14/2021 01:15 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: Please help me. My wife just divorced me after 23 years of marriage and I don't know what to do next. Dude, this is probably the best thing that has happened to you in a VERY long time! Sure, it will be pain to get through the divorce, but then you're free! If she doesn't love you anyway, you'll be much better off without her. So what if she has sex with someone else? Who cares? Not your problem. Everything has a purpose. Just pray for guidance and TRUST in our Lord, good things are waiting for you! |
Anonymous Coward (OP) User ID: 79625954 United States 10/14/2021 01:15 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: Please help me. My wife just divorced me after 23 years of marriage and I don't know what to do next. Actually she divorced you to star in bbc porn. Sorry for your loss. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 74682214 No but she'll probably find a black dude. Sorry I'm not buying it. And I'm drunk as hell. Sorry for my asinine humor if you're legit. I sure as hell don't want to be sober these days with the shit that's going on. I mean, the guy I think she cheated on me with is black so... |
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Anonymous Coward (OP) User ID: 79625954 United States 10/14/2021 01:17 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: Please help me. My wife just divorced me after 23 years of marriage and I don't know what to do next. Dude, this is probably the best thing that has happened to you in a VERY long time! Sure, it will be pain to get through the divorce, but then you're free! If she doesn't love you anyway, you'll be much better off without her. So what if she has sex with someone else? Who cares? Not your problem. Quoting: Karlgel Everything has a purpose. Just pray for guidance and TRUST in our Lord, good things are waiting for you! Thank you. I sure hope so but I am having a hard time seeing it. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 74682214 United States 10/14/2021 01:18 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: Please help me. My wife just divorced me after 23 years of marriage and I don't know what to do next. Actually she divorced you to star in bbc porn. Sorry for your loss. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 74682214 No but she'll probably find a black dude. Sorry I'm not buying it. And I'm drunk as hell. Sorry for my asinine humor if you're legit. I sure as hell don't want to be sober these days with the shit that's going on. I mean, the guy I think she cheated on me with is black so... You're better off without her then. Sorry to say that she's probably been doing that the whole time. The vax anti vax nonsense is just an excuse. Good riddance and good luck on finding someone better. |
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Anonymous Coward (OP) User ID: 79625954 United States 10/14/2021 01:19 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: Please help me. My wife just divorced me after 23 years of marriage and I don't know what to do next. Sorry I'm not buying it. And I'm drunk as hell. Sorry for my asinine humor if you're legit. I sure as hell don't want to be sober these days with the shit that's going on. I mean, the guy I think she cheated on me with is black so... You're better off without her then. Sorry to say that she's probably been doing that the whole time. The vax anti vax nonsense is just an excuse. Good riddance and good luck on finding someone better. Thank you sir. Enjoy your drinks. |
Anonymous Coward (OP) User ID: 79625954 United States 10/14/2021 01:21 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: Please help me. My wife just divorced me after 23 years of marriage and I don't know what to do next. She hates me because of my conspiracy beliefs and because I wont get vaxxed. She became very uncaring after she got vaxxed in March. She also just started hormones after a hysterectomy and she is acting like a teenager at 50 years old. New car, new clothes, new jewelry. I'm not the ideal husband but I was a great father to our child and never cheated. I think she did once and I just couldn't let it go. I have $120,000 and a car to my name. No job. Can't lift anything slightly heavy due to hernia. Moving to an overpriced apt. tomorrow. Quoting: Rodney Spaceman She told her friends I'm a useless narcissist and trash. I saw her text it. I am so tired of Oklahoma. I really want to move to California even though that is absolutely insane right now. Maybe a small town like San Luis Obispo? I can do radio if I can find a gig. But then my 20 year old kid would have to choose. I don't know what to do. I'm sick with the thought that she is going to be having sex with another man someday soon. Her friends can't wait to hook her up. They hate me. I can't stand that I've lost my family. I am in a perpetual state of trauma. I should have been nicer to her and done more with her and shut up about conspiracies around her. She can be annoying but damn this is so much worse. Ive never cried this much in my life. Once the river of tears have dried up, enjoy reacquainting and learning to fell love from within your own self. Thank you. I'll try. I always enjoy your posts on here. |
Daniel of the Rose User ID: 79067217 United States 10/14/2021 01:21 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: Please help me. My wife just divorced me after 23 years of marriage and I don't know what to do next. She hates me because of my conspiracy beliefs and because I wont get vaxxed. She became very uncaring after she got vaxxed in March. She also just started hormones after a hysterectomy and she is acting like a teenager at 50 years old. New car, new clothes, new jewelry. I'm not the ideal husband but I was a great father to our child and never cheated. I think she did once and I just couldn't let it go. I have $120,000 and a car to my name. No job. Can't lift anything slightly heavy due to hernia. Moving to an overpriced apt. tomorrow. Quoting: Rodney Spaceman She told her friends I'm a useless narcissist and trash. I saw her text it. I am so tired of Oklahoma. I really want to move to California even though that is absolutely insane right now. Maybe a small town like San Luis Obispo? I can do radio if I can find a gig. But then my 20 year old kid would have to choose. I don't know what to do. I'm sick with the thought that she is going to be having sex with another man someday soon. Her friends can't wait to hook her up. They hate me. I can't stand that I've lost my family. I am in a perpetual state of trauma. I should have been nicer to her and done more with her and shut up about conspiracies around her. She can be annoying but damn this is so much worse. Ive never cried this much in my life. Prepare for the good fight....Prepare to defend the ones around you.... God is With YOU |
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Anonymous Coward (OP) User ID: 79625954 United States 10/14/2021 01:23 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: Please help me. My wife just divorced me after 23 years of marriage and I don't know what to do next. She hates me because of my conspiracy beliefs and because I wont get vaxxed. She became very uncaring after she got vaxxed in March. She also just started hormones after a hysterectomy and she is acting like a teenager at 50 years old. New car, new clothes, new jewelry. I'm not the ideal husband but I was a great father to our child and never cheated. I think she did once and I just couldn't let it go. I have $120,000 and a car to my name. No job. Can't lift anything slightly heavy due to hernia. Moving to an overpriced apt. tomorrow. Quoting: Rodney Spaceman She told her friends I'm a useless narcissist and trash. I saw her text it. I am so tired of Oklahoma. I really want to move to California even though that is absolutely insane right now. Maybe a small town like San Luis Obispo? I can do radio if I can find a gig. But then my 20 year old kid would have to choose. I don't know what to do. I'm sick with the thought that she is going to be having sex with another man someday soon. Her friends can't wait to hook her up. They hate me. I can't stand that I've lost my family. I am in a perpetual state of trauma. I should have been nicer to her and done more with her and shut up about conspiracies around her. She can be annoying but damn this is so much worse. Ive never cried this much in my life. Prepare for the good fight....Prepare to defend the ones around you.... God is With YOU Thank you. I feel like he has forsaken me though. I wish he would fix this. |
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Anonymous Coward (OP) User ID: 79625954 United States 10/14/2021 01:26 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: Please help me. My wife just divorced me after 23 years of marriage and I don't know what to do next. Actually she divorced you to star in bbc porn. Sorry for your loss. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 74682214 at 50 ewwww OP dont worry she will need to look a long time for sex trust me. Thanks. I hope so and maybe she sees that I'm not so bad. Doubt it though. She's hell bent. Hate in her eyes. |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 79180288 United States 10/14/2021 01:27 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: Please help me. My wife just divorced me after 23 years of marriage and I don't know what to do next. I'm going to tell you what you don't want to hear. Lawyer up. You got some money saved. Keep it that way. She is now your enemy. She going to do everything to rob you blind while youll be trying to win her back. Not saying its not possible . But in all reality shes going to do everything possible to squeeze every dime out of you. Be the most rational person you can be. You got some money. Time will heal it but don't dwell on it now. Do that later. Think like a general. |