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Only Me Strawberry Girl User ID: 81130680 United States 01/10/2022 06:46 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | This makes me so angry and sick :( How awful, OP! I'm so sorry. Goodbye, halcyon days... There is a theory which states that if ever anyone discovers exactly what the Universe is for and why it is here, it will instantly disappear and be replaced by something even more bizarre and inexplicable. There is another theory mentioned, which states that this has already happened. |
SafeandSound (OP) User ID: 81103575 United States 01/10/2022 07:54 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | OP I am horrified you went through such a dehumanizing denial of your parental rights Quoting: Theobromine What state? Not sure if it makes a difference but curious I have three grandchildren expected this year and I’m terrified for them all. I will say a prayer for you and your family Also know - you did good... did what you had to do to stay near your baby Don’t ever forget that Happy family at home at last ! I hope your 3 grandkids have happy births that aren’t targeted by the medical tyrants. I did choose to stay with my baby and cried not knowing how my other little kids at home we’re doing without their mom. I had just given birth and was hormonal and wanting to be with my family, on top of being targeted by tyranny. The state was Michigan Last Edited by SafeandSound on 01/10/2022 07:55 PM |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 79543875 United States 01/10/2022 08:40 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Yeah well now I'm gonna say it. That hospital would be gone , baby and all if that happened to me but for God's sake you have birth at home and did what? Quoting: Anonymous Coward 77177280 My dream was a home birth but yeah in these times there would be no way I'd be able to do that them hand my kid over. You were blessed then handed him over. Sorry for your mistake. Sad Yep and I wanted that but my husband wanted him to get checked out. People need educated and reality checks. My husband and his family are still arguing with me that the home is dirty and unsterile. I’m like WHAT?? A hospital is clean???! Well congratulations on your baby! And everyone is going to have opinions. Family especially. Just let it go. And once you bring the baby to the hospital they will want to run tests on him since they are liable now. Try not to get too mad. If he is healthy great. If there was something wrong the hospital would find it. Just be happy you had a wonderful home birth and your boy has gotten checked out and is healthy. It’s going to be ok. So just get ready to bring him home and be happy. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 79543875 United States 01/10/2022 08:42 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | My husband and his family and my parents are all saying he hospital is right that outside of the hospital is dirty and they needed to check him. Only you gLP people seem to have any sense of reality. Quoting: SafeandSound Yup. Home is best but all your family wants is for everything to be ok. They just don’t understand and mean well. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 79543875 United States 01/10/2022 08:46 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Congrats on your new arrival. Quoting: Agent 99 Heal stick is required by the state. What state are you in? I was told by a total bitch nurse that worked at children's hospital that denying the test and having my personal dr do it later.....was illegal! I told her it was not and stood strong. She brought cps to my room. I won with them too though. It's like they are told to say "it's against the law" Fuck the medical system. All you need to know is by a quick image search of "devil statue" The DEVIL holds the caduceus aka medical symbol with wings. WHY would the medical system never catch on that they are using the symbol of rhetoric, the caduceus?? Here's a great thread on it. Thread: Medical symbol with wings and staff is the SYMBOL OF RHETORIC. They tell us half truths.....see the article BOOM! Yeah it’s not against the law. Home birthers do this all the time. Take them to the doctor later. Whatever type of doctor they choose. Natural or allopathic. No one checks. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 79543875 United States 01/10/2022 08:49 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | When i wanted to leave they told me “You can go but your baby can’t.” I came there for medical care and they ended up taking authority over my kid and telling me ro Leave eventually. Quoting: SafeandSound To separate a mom and baby is SICK and we all know it. The hospitals are just extensions of the government now. Yup. They should never separate mom and baby with a normal birth. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 79543875 United States 01/10/2022 08:50 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | The 1st day Ii was angry. The 2nd day i was sad and crying because I missed my kids. Quoting: SafeandSound The 3rd day they broke me mentally. Saying I wasn’t a patient anymore and would have to leave my baby there. And could only visit once a day because of covid. I would have been on the phone with a lawyer. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 79543875 United States 01/10/2022 08:51 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | He wasn’t in the NICU. He wasn’t diagnosed with or born with any problems. Quoting: SafeandSound They just tried to separate a mom and baby for observation purposes. It’s only by gods grace they didn’t need the room for another pregnant person so they “let me” breastfeed my own child. And “they let me” stay with my 3 day old child. Alot of dads on GLP with babies coming. Be warned men. They won’t let you in the hospital if your wife goes. Only one of you can go and they will force a covid test on you. Pregnant person? It’s a pregnant mother. Too much pc these days. |
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Ozone Baby User ID: 81596646 Canada 01/10/2022 10:16 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Do you have midwives there? ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ Resident Led Zeppelin Expert (ask me anything!) Traveler of both time and space Fuck Trudeau. mRNA-Free and Proud. "The essence of the independent mind lies not in what it thinks, but in how it thinks.' ~ Chris Hitchens |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 80262763 United States 01/10/2022 10:25 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | What a nightmare! I'm so sorry you and your new baby had to go through all that. I'm sorry you felt bullied by your family to go to the hospital also. The 'sterile' thing made me cringe. Hospitals are the worst places for germs. Besides, who here thinks vaginas are sterile? Thankfully, you were able to stay and protect your baby. Does your husband still think the hospital was the best idea? |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 76209573 Australia 01/10/2022 10:26 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Yeah well now I'm gonna say it. That hospital would be gone , baby and all if that happened to me but for God's sake you have birth at home and did what? Quoting: Anonymous Coward 77177280 My dream was a home birth but yeah in these times there would be no way I'd be able to do that them hand my kid over. You were blessed then handed him over. Sorry for your mistake. Sad yeppeople would be dead if they took my kids or grandkids |
SafeandSound (OP) User ID: 81103575 United States 01/10/2022 10:47 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Yeah well now I'm gonna say it. That hospital would be gone , baby and all if that happened to me but for God's sake you have birth at home and did what? Quoting: Anonymous Coward 77177280 My dream was a home birth but yeah in these times there would be no way I'd be able to do that them hand my kid over. You were blessed then handed him over. Sorry for your mistake. Sad Yep and I wanted that but my husband wanted him to get checked out. People need educated and reality checks. My husband and his family are still arguing with me that the home is dirty and unsterile. I’m like WHAT?? A hospital is clean???! Well congratulations on your baby! And everyone is going to have opinions. Family especially. Just let it go. And once you bring the baby to the hospital they will want to run tests on him since they are liable now. Try not to get too mad. If he is healthy great. If there was something wrong the hospital would find it. Just be happy you had a wonderful home birth and your boy has gotten checked out and is healthy. It’s going to be ok. So just get ready to bring him home and be happy. You’re right. I was hoping for perfect experience this time but nothing goes perfectly in life. This is just modern civilization. So I’m gonna accept my negative experience. But I don’t accept current medical tyranny laws and covid policies. |
SafeandSound (OP) User ID: 81103575 United States 01/10/2022 10:49 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | He wasn’t in the NICU. He wasn’t diagnosed with or born with any problems. Quoting: SafeandSound They just tried to separate a mom and baby for observation purposes. It’s only by gods grace they didn’t need the room for another pregnant person so they “let me” breastfeed my own child. And “they let me” stay with my 3 day old child. Alot of dads on GLP with babies coming. Be warned men. They won’t let you in the hospital if your wife goes. Only one of you can go and they will force a covid test on you. Pregnant person? It’s a pregnant mother. Too much pc these days. I’m not pc. I don’t know why I said it that way. Just meant nobody else needed the labor room. |
SafeandSound (OP) User ID: 81103575 United States 01/10/2022 10:53 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I definitely don’t want more kids in this modern day tyranny where the Supreme Court won’t even rule against covid vaccine mandates. I’m worried in the next 10 years what custody we will have over our kids under the disguise of covid policy. |
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SallyValentine User ID: 79601558 United States 01/10/2022 11:24 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | They told me by law it’s up to the pediatrician when the baby leaves and i can’t sign him out. And they won’t sign him out unless they test him. Quoting: SafeandSound I argued with everybody not make us wait 48hr (then they contaminated the result and redrew the blood and the 48hours started all over) and they subtly threatened me that the full results aren’t back for 5 days. I felt threatened they were saying be good or we’ll make your baby stay the full 5 days while you are forced to go home. Thats what authority figures do alot, in such situations you really need to know your rights. They depend on people not understanding what authority is allowed to do. These people can say anything is law, and they know most people will not really know, or just be accepting of the person in authority telling them its so. Not saying they are lying, just that in your position, you need to know what legally the hospital can do, and what under law they cannot. Authority figures suck. They really do. Thanks for sharing your story, OP. Sorry you and your baby and family were traumatized because authority figures suck so bad. Congratulations, though! |
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