I’m need major life advice.

Knock a chick up dummy and do it quickly. You are getting older by the day. Don't just sit around like some Nancy pining away. Every day the portal is closing and you are a man damn it! Start conquering.

go to Thailand, fuck a local girl, have some kids..

This dudes so caught up on his height.we hear this shit daily from him.elon was mid 40s when he got grimes preggars.quit being a little bitch.

You didn't say how old you are. A guy can have kids when he is older than woman because of biological clocks in women.

You have your life together. It has been two years, but it may just take longer.

Never make long-term decisions based on panic or fear. Instead, pray. Watch for good women to come along. Read some good books on finding women and how to do it. Don't depend on your looks. Instead, think of yourself as a regular Joe and find a woman based on your needs rather than looking for someone who you think deserves a great-looking guy.

With your height, you should be meeting a lot of women...

But yea, dating apps, the women are more confused than ever, even the ones who claim they are tired of games and want to settle down.

The only ones that are serious to get get into a relationship are the fat ones and ugly ones.

Anyway...never too late to be a dad. My friend is 50 and just became one so highly doubt you're in that age range.

But to meet women, you need to hit events where the more spiritual women are at; i went to a breathing retreat and met a couple of women that were really nice, but i had traveled out state to this location; then i went to a healing workshop and again, a lot of really mature women there. Back then i was dating already but i thought, if ever single again, i need to come to these type of events more often.

Dating apps, garbagge. Too many crazy women on there.

So youe a sadist that wants to bring an innocent into this shit with no future?

You should just meet someone without comparing them to your ex. Seems like you are, get over that wench and have fun a open up a little. Even if you don't have kids, you dont want to die alone do you? Don't be so damn picky.

Thank You, I’m 38

I do meets lots of women, just need to pick one I guess.

You want to bring a kid into this world, and then have to fight the system against having to vaccinate your kid, and then fight the brainwashing and other problems with public schooling??

True but I’m ready to fight the system.

I wouldn’t want to bring any kids into this F’d up world. Get a dog instead!

I’m 38 and yes I appreciate the advice!

Don't put Hot Sauce in Your used condom.

You're Welcome.

Humanity must go on!!!

Make sure you pick a woman who doesn't take the kids from you, and leave you with a child support bill each month.

Congratulations on working toward your MBA! What an accomplishment! Good for you!

Right I figured that much

For what its worth....

I went through the same thing when I was younger.

By the time I reached my early 40s, the drive began to subside.

By 45, it was totally gone, and I no longer felt sorrow and loss from having no children.

I really believe what you are feeling is nothing but chemistry working against your better judgement.

At 59, I thank God every day I never fathered children. This world today is very non conducive for children, and the potential for misery and great sorrow grows stronger and stronger every year for the up coming generations.

I find great peace and tranquility these days embracing the simple pleasures out of life.

Being single offers great financial
Independence. The drama factor simply does not exist in my life.

Wishing you your wish OP, but seriously contemplate my advice. marriage, children, and all other stuff society dictates you be does not always really flow as it seems.

If you outlive the biochemistry that's trying to destroy your life, you'll be rewarded with a life most men later dream about.

I graduated college at 36.

It was easily worth it, although people said I was too old.

My ex's brother was 52 when his son was born. I do not know how old his wife was. Second marriage.

He had three kids during his first marriage.

Last Edited by nutmeg on 01/12/2022 09:33 PM

Thank You, I appreciate the advice, maybe it is but damn I’m going to be sad for a long time.

Geez....36 is young!

I’ve still got time I guess.

Same. In my 30s I felt it was my last chance for kids.

I never had any and each year I ask if I'm still happy
about because other people said I'd eventually regret it.

Hasn't happened yet in 30 years and the past two years
I'm *overjoyed* I had no kids.

^^^ THIS ^^^^

That is awesome! It provides me with hope, that I can have a family before I’m too old.

38 isn't too old. Stop looking online. Do you know what you want in a woman? Are you religious? Go to church. What do you enjoy doing for fun? Go do it. Don't do things with finding a woman in mind. Imagine what you want in a woman and go do things you enjoy. Grocery shop from 6-8 pm on weekdays. How do you want to raise children? If you live in an apartment in the city, forget it. Start situating your life so that you'll be prepared to bring a wife and children into it. Think living in a rural area, in the mountains or woods maybe. Build a small, comfortable home. Learn to work with your hands and grow/raise food. Would you vaccinate your future children? Do you want to homeschool (you should)? You need to think about these things because you don't want to end up with a woman who will be fighting your beliefs. All the threads I've seen by men who are angry that their wives are vaccinating their kids, YIKES. Figure out the wife and life you want and then start preparing for it! Let the ex go. You won't ever find a good woman pining for an ex who damaged you. Start planning and finish your degree. Hopefully you aren't going into debt for that. Good luck.

I have seen more marriages fail once they have children. It's really very sad.

My situation was controlled by matters not in my hands. Hopefully you'll have more freedom and leeway to choose your own path.

Good Luck,