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Anonymous Coward User ID: 80975552 Puerto Rico 01/19/2022 09:55 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Opend Tinder and it's Full Of ShiT... I Sell Microgreens and The hot waitress From 2 Rest Are Full vaxxed... it's a Phucking Shithole! |
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hackerb204 (OP) User ID: 35379103 United States 01/19/2022 10:00 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Back on point, what the hell is going on? The is a true story, went with a coworker today to help him with a new car he bought that now has a nail in the tire with a slow leak. On the ride to get air in the tire so he could make it to the repair shop we got on the topic of driver side and passenger side window tint. He said that in India tint on the driver and passenger side windows are illegal in India. He said because of rapes that happen in that country. True story! Last Edited by hackerb204 on 01/19/2022 10:02 PM hackerb204 |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 81088587 South Africa 01/19/2022 10:04 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Look up Neville Goddard. He talked about the law of attraction back in the 50s and 60s. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 68357957 You need to visualize what you want in end and act as if it's already happened. Write down personality characteristics and come up with images of who you would like to be in relationship with. Then act as if you were already in that relationship. The universe will bring it to you when you align your vibration with what you want. Actually, Neville Goddard coined the Law of Assumption, which is a whole other ballgame than "attaction" and is said to go way beyond and be more effective. Sadly, I can't visualize squat! Whoa! You’re smart! I would actually like to hear more from you if you don’t mind? He also coined the phrase "start from the end". Meaning assume you got what you desire and don't worry about the how. You will magnetize the how. There's a WHOLE entire cult (community?) on youtube. I listened to one entire video (audio book on video) and it was pretty interesting. But I have too many vids on my queue ATM. LMK if there's anything but not sure I can help: I haven't read his books yet. |
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BasiliusValentinus User ID: 45290091 United States 01/19/2022 10:06 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Idk what it is O.P but your right. Somethings changed you can have looks, house, car, job be a genuine nice caring person and that and doesn't seem to matter. Quoting: BasiliusValentinus I'm thinking most Women in our age range have settled down by now. Or they have everything they need and wish to enjoy their freedom staying single. So enjoy yours.. The answer? Go younger like 20 years maybe more. Will it last? Who knows but you won't be lonely for a while. Great advice! I’m more attracted to women a few years younger then me. Girls that young are not interested in guys my age hear in southeast FL. It’s a meat market. I'd dig a Lady my age or above they've lived and remember better times have more in common. Good luck finding one. Seems impossible. They usually have been through so much they are jaded or think your a player. If they aren't there seems to be a checklist of everything you need to pass. This goes both ways seems more energy is put into finding faults instead of good things to feel better or above another hell idk. But nah man don't sell yourself short right now the younger girls is where it's at. Why again idk maybe a generational thing it wasn't always like this either. It's crazy pay attention to the ones you would never think you'd have a chance with because of age gap. You'll be pleasantly surprised... Well, you heard about the Boston Honey, it's not one of those |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 41900922 United States 01/19/2022 10:06 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I live in an area in southeastern FL so I already know that is not going to be a walk in the park. I’m a good looking guy, smart, great job, stable and divorced. I’m 47 years old which I totally get is over the hump but wow man, I’ve never seen anything like this before. It’s incredible, granted I don’t give it a 100% all the time. Quoting: hackerb204 What the heck is going on… I just don’t understand what’s going on with dating or finding a relationship. This girl I just talked to said sorry we are not in the same line of work. Wished her good luck, is that what I’m getting qualified by now? Things are so wrong and upside down that I just don’t feel like I fit in anymore except at work and family. I'm 47 and I would never date a man who used dude in his vocabulary. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 78793449 United States 01/19/2022 10:06 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Back on point, what the hell is going on? The is a true story, went with a coworker today to help him with a new car he bought that now has a nail in the tire with a slow leak. On the ride to get air in the tire so he could make it to the repair shop we got on the topic of driver side and passenger side window tint. He said that in India tint on the driver and passenger side windows are illegal in India. He said because of rapes that happen in that country. Quoting: hackerb204 True story! And now you smell like curry OP. That's not going to help |
hackerb204 (OP) User ID: 35379103 United States 01/19/2022 10:06 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Back on point, what the hell is going on? The is a true story, went with a coworker today to help him with a new car he bought that now has a nail in the tire with a slow leak. On the ride to get air in the tire so he could make it to the repair shop we got on the topic of driver side and passenger side window tint. He said that in India tint on the driver and passenger side windows are illegal in India. He said because of rapes that happen in that country. Quoting: hackerb204 True story! What the hell is going on in this world!! I was shocked to the bone to hear that from him. He was like yeah it is what it is. Are you kidding me? hackerb204 |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 7674512 United States 01/19/2022 10:11 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | They're really not worth it, man. They're damaged by media and fembotism. At best they look at you like you're a child, at worst, a monster. They're just in it for the cash anyway. They've been liberated, so I say let 'em go. Fuck one of them every once in a while if you feel you have to. But even that desire will subside. They stink these days. Literally. Women don't even smell like they used to. Beware the smell of talc or too much perfume. You've been warned. I need to respond because you took the time to write your thoughts and honestly, I have to agree with what you said. You put it much more harsh then I would but appreciate the honesty! This will totally wreck my credibility. Ugh!! Sorry, I didn't mean to embarrass you. lol. Just trying to save you some time. I'm about the same age as you. Been out of a LTR for about 5 years now, been on the dating scene afterwards. It was a total waste of time. And I will reiterate this for every man. Women today view men as children or monsters. I met a widowed woman the other day, she is VERY attractive. She came on to me WAY strong, and in her flirty chatter started comparing me to one of her sons, and basically telling me she knew just how to take care of me. I politely declined, totally grossed out. I don't need a mommy, and I'm not going to be her pet wallet. And after I politely rejected her, now I'm the "monster." Next time I ran into her, she gave me the evil stink eye. Just remember dude---woman's minds these days are full of Oprah, Jerry Springer, Maury Povich, etc, etc. I know you don't want to hear this. It was tough for me to accept too. But 99 percent of these women need to be avoided. Be-fucking-ware. Peace, bro. |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 7674512 United States 01/19/2022 10:13 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I live in an area in southeastern FL so I already know that is not going to be a walk in the park. I’m a good looking guy, smart, great job, stable and divorced. I’m 47 years old which I totally get is over the hump but wow man, I’ve never seen anything like this before. It’s incredible, granted I don’t give it a 100% all the time. Quoting: hackerb204 What the heck is going on… I just don’t understand what’s going on with dating or finding a relationship. This girl I just talked to said sorry we are not in the same line of work. Wished her good luck, is that what I’m getting qualified by now? Things are so wrong and upside down that I just don’t feel like I fit in anymore except at work and family. I'm 47 and I would never date a man who used dude in his vocabulary. |
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bluestar47 User ID: 79670735 01/19/2022 10:17 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | heh, also late 40's, and since i refused the shot, ended up without a job, so back to parent's place in southeast florida too. After the holidays, up 15 lbs, but full hair, barely any greys, and the women who match with me, are obese; now, in florida, every woman that is in great shape says, i'm outdoor beach person; they say they are in their 40's, but all that sun time makes them look like they are in their 50's. That crocodile skin is contagious in south florida. Anyway...went on two dates with women who had decent profiles, and 1 turned out to be heavily medicated for what she said was a back injury, another one wanted to get marry as soon as possible. The only good news, nothing like the strip joints in south florida. All those refugee ladies coming from latin america, lord have mercy. If in my mid 50's, gonna hit colombia, worse case scenario. |
hackerb204 (OP) User ID: 35379103 United States 01/19/2022 10:17 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | They're really not worth it, man. They're damaged by media and fembotism. At best they look at you like you're a child, at worst, a monster. They're just in it for the cash anyway. They've been liberated, so I say let 'em go. Fuck one of them every once in a while if you feel you have to. But even that desire will subside. They stink these days. Literally. Women don't even smell like they used to. Beware the smell of talc or too much perfume. You've been warned. I need to respond because you took the time to write your thoughts and honestly, I have to agree with what you said. You put it much more harsh then I would but appreciate the honesty! This will totally wreck my credibility. Ugh!! Sorry, I didn't mean to embarrass you. lol. Just trying to save you some time. I'm about the same age as you. Been out of a LTR for about 5 years now, been on the dating scene afterwards. It was a total waste of time. And I will reiterate this for every man. Women today view men as children or monsters. I met a widowed woman the other day, she is VERY attractive. She came on to me WAY strong, and in her flirty chatter started comparing me to one of her sons, and basically telling me she knew just how to take care of me. I politely declined, totally grossed out. I don't need a mommy, and I'm not going to be her pet wallet. And after I politely rejected her, now I'm the "monster." Next time I ran into her, she gave me the evil stink eye. Just remember dude---woman's minds these days are full of Oprah, Jerry Springer, Maury Povich, etc, etc. I know you don't want to hear this. It was tough for me to accept too. But 99 percent of these women need to be avoided. Be-fucking-ware. Peace, bro. I totally appreciate your response!! It’s warranted, I wish more would share their experience as single/divorced at our age so I know that I’m not alone. Thanks bro! Appreciate it. hackerb204 |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 7674512 United States 01/19/2022 10:21 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | heh, also late 40's, and since i refused the shot, ended up without a job, so back to parent's place in southeast florida too. Quoting: bluestar47 After the holidays, up 15 lbs, but full hair, barely any greys, and the women who match with me, are obese; now, in florida, every woman that is in great shape says, i'm outdoor beach person; they say they are in their 40's, but all that sun time makes them look like they are in their 50's. That crocodile skin is contagious in south florida. Anyway...went on two dates with women who had decent profiles, and 1 turned out to be heavily medicated for what she said was a back injury, another one wanted to get marry as soon as possible. The only good news, nothing like the strip joints in south florida. All those refugee ladies coming from latin america, lord have mercy. If in my mid 50's, gonna hit colombia, worse case scenario. I visited Texas a few months ago. Texas is full of the scariest goddamn warthog looking women I've ever seen. Texas used to be full of beautiful, classy broads. Not anymore, man. For fucks sake it was awful! Glad to hear Florida isn't as bad. Good luck, sir. |
hackerb204 (OP) User ID: 35379103 United States 01/19/2022 10:22 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | heh, also late 40's, and since i refused the shot, ended up without a job, so back to parent's place in southeast florida too. Quoting: bluestar47 After the holidays, up 15 lbs, but full hair, barely any greys, and the women who match with me, are obese; now, in florida, every woman that is in great shape says, i'm outdoor beach person; they say they are in their 40's, but all that sun time makes them look like they are in their 50's. That crocodile skin is contagious in south florida. Anyway...went on two dates with women who had decent profiles, and 1 turned out to be heavily medicated for what she said was a back injury, another one wanted to get marry as soon as possible. The only good news, nothing like the strip joints in south florida. All those refugee ladies coming from latin america, lord have mercy. If in my mid 50's, gonna hit colombia, worse case scenario. You will get back on your feet again! I would bet my life on it. This place has a strange way of keeping you here and going. It’s like a prison sentence! hackerb204 |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 79581678 United States 01/19/2022 10:24 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | OP is putting out that desperate vibe so strong I can smell it over this forum. Also as someone else said, you can't be too nice. Nice isn't attractive for whatever reason in womens' minds. When you don't give a fuck about getting a woman or not is when you have the best luck. They can sense that too and for some reason that really attracts them. And you can't fool yourself into thinking you don't give a fuck, you really can't give a fuck. It helps being attractive too, but the energy you throw out is just as important. I was just in Miami for a few days, and right now I have a beer belly, but guess what. Even to my surprise I had a few attractive women approach me. The reason being, I wasn't there to pick up women and I don't give a fuck. |
hackerb204 (OP) User ID: 35379103 United States 01/19/2022 10:25 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Interesting I thought Florida would be a good place to get girls. I'm in Massachusetts and I'm having 0 luck here. Was gonna go to Florida on a trip soon. I figured down there its warm, sunny, and nice. Compared to cold Massachusetts. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 78213825 Some guys have better luck then others. It totally depends on a bunch of different factors but generally it’s no better here if not way worse then other states. I would caution against seeking women here. hackerb204 |