Damn. I guess I'm blessed. Neighbors on the right, play music I'm soso with, and I do the same, and we both stop it before midnight. Neighbors to the left make amazing bbq, play Mexican music like from AM stations, and share meat and beers.

I blast my music occasionally, and share chicken fried steak on Fridays. Its a win win for 15 years now. All our kids grew up together, and the secret is easy... Be friends, But not too friendly. Give em space and mind ya bizness
Share sometimes. Be respectful, share food.